I don't like my "friends" much anymore?

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I hope this isn't to long, anyway, please read...
I hang out with this group before school, break and lunchtimes. We never hang out outside school because we're not very close to be honest. 2 years ago(when I started high school) i started hanging out with this group because 1. My close friends from primary school were hanging around with them & 2. They were all in my classes(I had the same people in my class for every subject though it's different this year.) Though, I don't really like my friends much anymore. They don't even talk to me much to be honest, and I feel like they don't even appreciate me being around. The close friends that are in the group I'm not even close with anymore. one of them stopped talking to me, and the other is always on her mobile phone and I always have to start the conversations.
Also, today I was in one of my classes and one of the girls in this group(lets call her Jellybean) was in a music room with her other friend. I came in because the person I should've been working with wasn't in today and I didn't want to sit by myself. Anyway, I went in and asked if it was ok if I could sit in there(I did it to be kind - I didn't expect them to say no) and Jellybean said she would rather if they could be the only people there so they could concentrate with their practicing and she said i could practise my piece first. I found this weird because they never do any practising. 2 other people went in after I'd left and they were in there for 5 minutes. I went back in because I had finished my piece and I didn't want to sit by myself. When I came in though, it suddenly went quiet and Jellybean said she didn't like how there was so many people in there. I thought this was rude considering there were 2 people sitting there and she didn't even like me being there before. I had a feeling they were talking about me as well, because they were quiet after that. I'm quite quiet but Im a nice person if you get to know me... I don't understand why Jellybean is being like this and what should I do about my friends? Please help, I'm nearly crying writing this...

Answer 1

I answer this question over and over. Look up some of my answers here on yahoo answers. I say the same thing over and over again - it's time to find different friends.

You have been hurt by these people. Let them go and find friends with different people. You may have not been the only person hurt by them. Ask around and find out who else has been hurt by these people and make friends with them. Find activities and participate in and volunteer in activities at your school and church and make new friends who do other things besides talk about people behind their backs. Find things to do that build up YOU and give you a break from the intense social structure at your school. (Mine was outdoors-y things like surfing, camping, and traveling!) So that when people around you are small-minded and all they do is talk crap, you have other things to think about and do that put you far ahead of the others and insulate you from their tiring unending pathos.

Be better than that and find something else to do besides stand around and talk.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Leave them behind. If they don't like you being around them, then don't. Hang out with people that DO appreciate your presence. Just talk to those "friends" about their behaviour and what you ,as well as they, think about your friendship.