I'm so lonely all the time! How can I fix this?

Question

Currently I have no friends, no hope of getting a girlfriend, and when I'm home my mom always yells at me and says how much better my sister is. How can I make friends? Or stop being so lonely? Everyone in the whole world seems to hate me for some reason

Answer 1

The easiest way to stop being lonely is to go out and make friends. Join a club, sport team, band, etc. Pick up a hobby and find people who share the same. If you're in school it's easy to get involved. Just pick something you're interested in and go for it.



As to why people don't like you you give no reasons or ideas about your personality so we can't answer that. YOu may have a truly crappy attitude and personality and that's why folks don't like you. You could be very nice, but shy and folks can't really get to know you and that would keep you from having friends.

Answer 2

I'm not sure if you are in school or not... But you can make friends at school. Or you could volunteer where there are others your age also volunteering. Or join a club. I don't really know all of the things you could do, but I find when I start a conversation with someone I am usually met with a nice response, and some conversation. Also, you could get a dog, They are the best thing to have when it comes to being lonely. And, you'd be surprised at how many people talk to you when you are walking a dog. Goodluck.

Answer 3

I'm exactly like you I'm lonely too, I have no friends, don't really do much, my parents always compliment how wonderful my sister is and make comments of how daft I am all the fricken time, I'm going to be starting college soon which should be fun, I find going out and doing activities quite enjoying I go to the gym on Mondays and Tuesdays, I chill on Wednesdays, go swimming on Thursdays and on Friday I draw stuff, have a movie night, on Saturday I go out to the town and on Sundays I have a long lie then do some stretching and for the past couple of weeks that I've started this I have been really happy, I'm distracted and doing stuff and its great, I have not been on social media as much either watching other people's lives tend to make me sad, but now I don't bother I focus on my life now and its going great so far, I'm not worried about a boyfriend if I get one great and if I don't I haven't lost anything and can look elsewhere. Keep yourself distracted it really works good luck :-)

Answer 4

Honestly, all I can say is live with it. That's what I do, and I will admit it sucks heavy balls. If you're lonely you will not enjoy most of the stuff you do, and you will feel down and bored most of the time, unless you really get into a game that you love. You'll also want to go lay in bed even if you're not tired. But that's just the way life is.



But of course if you're not strong enough mentally to live alone, and die alone, then I suggest either going out to places where you like to hang out, or where you go most often, and try to make small talk with people. That way you'll either get a friend or a girlfriend. Although a better option would be to look online, as in play games, start friendly conversations with people on websites you like, and just see if you can get their skype or something, and who knows. Maybe you'll make a best friend that way.

Answer 5

I know how you feel. I lost all my friends and I feel so lonely now. I don't do anything besides work and school, never anything social outside/ after school. people keep saying something along the line of "it'll get better" or "its just temporary" but in reality I've run out of patience. I'm just gonna wait out this school year since there's just a month left and I'm gonna pick up hours at work over the summer to occupy my time. Next year I'm gonna work on getting involved, since everyone says that's how you make friends, you should do the same. I used to think like yeah right getting involved won't give me close friends that I can text or hang out with they already have friends. but I joined 1 club and I made a few friends. I ended up leaving that club so that's how I ended up so lonely but what they say about getting involved is true, and definetly the quickest way for friends outside of talking to people in classes and lunch. Good luck, I know how you feel

Answer 6

Hey man, not sure how old you are but i'm guessing a teenager or older if your mother is comparing you to a sibling.

Most these answers are correct in telling you you got to get out there, it might be scary at first if you are the shy type. If joining a club or after school activity seems pointless or really not your thing... Then get a job. honestly.

starting temporary jobs like a waiter or something put you into situations of so much social interaction where you don't feel the pressure of needing to impress that it helps you in the other social factors of life. And you make cash as a bonus :D.

And don't worry about people not liking you, if you're happy with yourself, then don't change. You will find your crowd eventually.

But seriously, get a job, and then work on other things like getting a girl.

Answer 7

If you want to meet people just start a random conversation with stranger at café, or join a non profit organization that do a lot of volunteer work (you will meet new people). If you don't have anything against it find a church to go to every Sunday, keep yourself busy in things like work, college , community work, sometimes a big party or concert, the point is the more you expose yourself to things like this the more people you will meet. Also try things that have to do with a specific activity that you enjoy for example: If you love Maroon5 go to a concert, the girl or boy next to you probably really likes the band to, (following act) start a conversation and boom! a new friend. The part about your mom, don't listen to her you are you , don't compare yourself to anyone else and don't let people make you belive you are less ( even if its your mom). Try to have an adult conversation with this women and tell her how you feel about the things she says. And in addition don't say people hate you cause I doubt that's true, you haven't met the right people just yet but wait and see, and don't worry we all have lonely times in our life's its normal so just relax and if all fails just use this time to focus on yourself and grow as a person get to know who you are so when that special someone comes into your life you all ready know exactly who you are and what you have to offer. hope it helps!

Answer 8

The easiest way to stop being lonely is to go out and make friends. Join a club, sport team, band, etc. Pick up a hobby and find people who share the same. If you're in school it's easy to get involved. Just pick something you're interested in and go for it.



As to why people don't like you you give no reasons or ideas about your personality so we can't answer that. YOu may have a truly crappy attitude and personality and that's why folks don't like you. You could be very nice, but shy and folks can't really get to know you and that would keep you from having friends.



Duke

Answer 9

I wouldn't sweat over it too much. Being single means you have more time to yourself, and better yet, more time to find the right girl. If you're like me, and are going to school, there is a lot of pressure to be in a relationship. But the truth is, it really doesn't matter that much. Since I'm not in a relationship, I don't have to worry about "relationship rules", awkward social situations, or the trouble with breakups. Being single gives you time to be free and use your time to do more important things.

If you really want to make some friends, you want to consider introducing yourself to some people. Maybe even make friends on the Internet. If you're in college, make an effect to start conversations with dorm mates/classmates even if it's just about homework.

And hey, if you want a friend, I'm always here!

Good luck!

Answer 10

I was like you some years ago, I did not have many friends, mostly because I was shy or because I always thought that I was too lame. Then things changed. I started to focus in more important things, like school, charity work,new experiences.. It is within you the key to change the situation. I've noticed that there is no just hate in this world, but people talking bad about you will always exist even if you do not do anything wrong. I was sometimes attacked by some people, they said mean things about me even though I was in my own world and did not care what happened outside it.

Now I have a lot of friends and I live with my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel lonely too,it's normal. Loneliness does not come from the fact of having friends or a girlfriend (just 20% maybe) , but you should try to be involved in a lot of things and get to know people cause new experiences always open your mind. You should try to have fun even alone, find your favorite alone moments during the day, like watching movies,or finding a new hobby like a sport, you should know and love yourself first before others love you. And is someone hates you, f**k it, there are plenty of people in this world that are looking for a friend/bf like you

Answer 11

I used to think like yeah right getting involved won't give me close friends that I can text or hang out with they already have friends. but I joined 1 club and I made a few friends. I ended up leaving that club so that's how I ended up so lonely but what they say about getting involved is true, and definetly the quickest way for friends outside of talking to people in classes and lunch. Good luck, I know how you feel. Try to show interest in others and be pleasant. I'm sorry you're feeling crappy but I felt awkward growing up and I'm OK. Maybe get a pet or go!unteer with animals. Animals give ypu love no matter what

Answer 12

If your not ready for online dating there is chat rooms, the fun thing about chat rooms is yes the guy or yea maybe girl your talking to maybe not what they say but you can also fantasize, I'm not talking text sex I'm just saying you can make new friends that don't and won't judge you and maybe give you the confidence you've been lacking for so long. A really great way to meet people though is through voulenteer groups, this is a way to meet good people to be friends with and date that are selfless and aren't lazy, even if you feel a little lazy about it, lol, it's actually really fun and mentally rewarding and You need positive people around you since your family has issues like mine. Give them something well actually nothing to talk about. Get em tiger.

Answer 13

The way I did it when I was young was get into video games I was into then all my life I'm 26 now and I've been playing since I was 3 and now video games are a huge part of who I am... in real life I have my fiancé and 2 friends. That's all I need. I'm happy. But it seems like I have hundreds of friends because I can hop on xbox live and play games with people I've met. And if your a good person you can't not make friends. If you would like to be my friend I'd be happy to text/talk/play a game with you anytime if you get the app called kik you can find me as GamerTamer360 if you are not interested in making friends here that's fine too I just hope I helped in done way bud

Answer 14

Sometimes it is better to be lonely and have some alone time. But not all the time.



The best way to make friends is to have lot of self confidence and initialize conversation. You can start with a smile and hello/hi, how are you? etc then repeat it for some days. After some days let the other person initialize it and see if he is interested in making friends with you. You might be surprised of some people inviting you in their group. You should participate more in your class room by questioning or answering your professor if you are in school or college. The rest is always be kind and a nice person, dress up well and be clean and keep your self updated with news and knowledge of several things so that when your friends are discussing different topics with you, you should not be blank and able to answer and sound intellectual and not dumb. Try helping you r mom with household chores. Spend some time with your mom and sister on shopping dates or movie dates. You might find your girlfriend in your sisters friends circles and make friends with your mom's friends and sisters friends. And before you know it making friends want be so difficult at all. And you will find not having any time for yourself either and maybe your mom will miss you more then when she want find you more at home.

Answer 15

I used to be lonely but now I'm not. I found one friend on the first day of school who knew no one. She was nice and sweet and liked me for me. I showed her what hallways to avoid and who it's safe to talk to without getting beat up and soon we started a group of five friends. I learned I'm good at starting groups only to leave them. Some groups I've stayed in for over 2 years others I left right after I started them. What I'm saying is next year on the first day of school come early. Watch each new kid come in and introduce them to the school. Usually at a school the new kids form a large group. Join that group. The group might split up during the year and that's time for you to decide who you like best. Maybe you'll even find yourself a girl.

Answer 16

Loneliness is a horrible emotion. It's the out of control one. As humans we are naturally selfish everything we do is because we care about ourselves above anyone else. Loneliness you will feel whenever. When you are with a group of friends you can feel lonely even if you have the most loving partner you will still feel lonely. It sucks. One big part of loneliness is that it only takes impact if you constantly think it. If you sit there with the thought that you are lonely you will be live it. Everyone loves a bit of self pity. What you need to do is get rid of those thoughts. You're not lonely. You feel lonely.

Answer 17

Hey! I have found myself in this same situation in the past. Now I'm not going to be one of those people to snuff you out with a lame answer. I think there is several ways to get some friends. Firstly I would recommend getting involved in a club or class of some kind. You can meet so many people through things like events, church, gym, concerts and things like that. I know it seems hard at first but don't worry, it'll pass. Personally I love photography and urban exploring and have net many people through my hobbies :) As for your mom saying your sister is better, I wouldnt dwell on that. You are awesome just the way you are and perhaps fate has driven you in this direction because you could have done something dangerous otherwise in a situation with friends. I wish you the best of luck in your new journey. :D

Answer 18

I'm just like you but my mom doesn't tease me about it. I'm usually at home all the time. You may be sad because you don't have anyone to hangout with but that does not mean it's going to be forever. Make some friends at school or at the park. sometimes being alone is better than dealing with other people's shenanigans. Some people are fake. Just be patient good things will happen

Answer 19

Aw, can I give you a hug? Well I used to be the same way. What I did is got on sites specifically for making friends/meeting new people. So far I've met up with 1 person and have made a very good friend (who I am yet to meet though). Other than that I've got back in touch with old friends from school on Facebook, asked them what they're up to these days etc etc and have got myself a little circle of friends now! :)

Answer 20

Make friends online, not saying go to those weird online dating sites, haha those seem scary and full of horny dudes. Just start up random things and talk to people, like this. That's what I do, I do that a lot on youtube, and when I had a twitter. Even met some singer dude, he was soo cool. Oh maybe spend a lot of your time learning weird interesting things. Like demonology, or mythology. Just really neat totally out there kind of stuff. Oh learn new language's, so cool, I forget a lot of it, but I sleep talk. So when I'm asleep, people think I'm possessed haha, it's so fun. But yea, I have no really, I sit in my room all day, wondering things, wishing things, and trying random things out I read up on. Stuff people say doesn't work and say it does, some say doesn't exist. Also anime is a good way to spend your time, and crappy horror movies too, also finding odd music to listen to. Oh yea hello

Answer 21

Fixing lonliness often means having to step out of your comfort zone, which for me meant going to church every Sunday and socializing with my church family. I understand that this is more difficult if you're not a member of a church already. I would be very nervous to approach a new church all by myself. If I was going to do such a thing, I would most likely reach out to my friends and family to see what churches they attended and go with them. If I didn't have any prospective friends or family that go to church, then I would probably visit some of the more popular churches, like NewSpring. Don't sit far away from everyone else and give a friendly smile to everyone you see, which invites them to speak to you first. If someone invites you out to do something (like eat) with them, accept the offer! If you're still in school, join a club or group that interests you. If you're not in school and can't find any groups or clubs around town to join, go to any general event that you like - even if you have to go alone - and be near other people, and offer the same smiles and small talk that you would in church. If you don't have a job, going through the process of applying, interviewing, and working somewhere gives you a lot of opportunities to meet new people and make new friends. Even taking up a hobby or two can distract you. Going to the gym became one of my favorite distractions, and it came with all the added health benefits! It can take time, but trying hard and working for it pays off. This coming from a hardcore introvert!

Answer 22

I'm shy and have social anxiety, I understand completely. It's hard not having any friends but the best way to fix that is to find some one with similar interests as you. Say you like a band and you see someone walking by with a shirt with that band on it. Go over and start talking about that band, maybe you can start a good conversation and, BOOM! You made a friend.Or, if you are looking for a girlfriend, find a girl, start a conversation, compliment her, ask if she wants to hang out, watch a movie, ect.

Answer 23

I was you then I was a teen. Now I'm in my early 20 s and must say that adults, teachers and parents are dic**** ad idiots. Sorry honey, but it's true. Only a small percentage of adults KNOWS how to talk to teens or children.

However you do sound smart and you should tell your mom that nobody should be compared.



Life will be different when you'll grow up. I remember living for that thing solely- being independent and finding yourself.

Meeting new people, learning UNTIL one day you'll see how small minded your backgound was then.

Answer 24

I don't have friends. I had friends but I always drift away. It's like in my DNA. I want to make friends but I'd rather have one friend who is loyal than a clique for weekends and partying. I get lonely sometimes, but loneliness is better than phony smiles and forced conversation. Love yourself and even when you're alone, you won't feel lonely. Start reading books and make friends with the characters or if you're not a bookworm like me, find a hobby. Music helps.

Answer 25

I want to echo what Jasmine said: go out and do what you enjoy, and like-minded people will also likely be there, and you'll probably make friends that way. I can vouch for this myself, after I joined a group devoted to mindfulness meditation. I do something I enjoy, and I met like-minded people also. If anything, meditation is something we can talk about.



But I also want to say that I know how hard it is to get out of a loneliness rut. I still struggle with loneliness and the challenges of meeting new people and keeping good people in my life. Why, with nobody having money, people moving away or living far apart, general & pervasive narcissism in most people, and my own tendency to stay inside my own tight spaces in life, I find it really hard to develop a satisfying social life.



But I argue: stay with it. As Jasmine says, join clubs and do things that interest you. Be your own person. Don't let anybody else think for you. In time, you'll be happier than you are today. I'm happier than I was five years ago, when things weren't as nice as they are now, and I'm hopeful for myself and for you that, with consistent, focussed effort, things will be better.

Answer 26

You don't have to change a thing about yourself to try to please other people because then it would all be an act and not the real you. On the other hand you need to learn that you are OK the way you are, especially at your age. You need to pursue your interests. If you like to draw, draw and read about art and artists. If you have a pet learn about your pet and other animals. If you like to read, get books from the library. Like to cook or bake, do it. Do the things you like to do. If you play a musical instrument, take lessons. Once you become comfortable in yourself, other people will notice because you will carry yourself with value. Right now, you sound unsure of yourself and it may show. Everyone goes through this at times and remember that friends come and go and it is a rare friend that stays with your forever.

Answer 27

Hey there man, I'm here to help! Let's get this thing started! First, I need to call you something cool, imma call you Wolf, I hope you don't get that little pun there, Wolf. But anyway, you say you have no friends? Well, I know you've probably heard this one before, "confidence!" But I'll tell you what, Wolf, they have a point. You wanna get some friends, then do what I do. Walk up to people who are just chillin, and start a convo, MA boi. It could be anything! For example: Ayy, how's life, nice to meet you, I'm Wolf, mind if I sit? Now, I can't guarantee this'll always work, but c'mon man, give it a shot, others wise you'll die alone, and neither of us want that, do we, Wolf? Now as for getting a girl, you probably think you have no chance, but **** it. Go for whoever your erection points to, you'll surprise yourself, my friend. Now I don't know if there's a reason you aren't liked, maybe you smell, maybe you're fat, or maybe you a dick, but since I don't know, just try what I said!

Answer 28

Maybe try a local youth club or a club like ice skating or somthing where you don't know anyone because that way no one will judge you or hate you just because others do. I have felt the same way and infact got me stuck with mental health issues like anxiety and I had got right of the rail and ended up dissing my family on the internet and now girlfriend hates me for it. Somtimes you just need to smile and think positive even when that seems impossible.



Most of the time its in the mind. You think that everyone hates you when actuly they don't! I went through years of just ignoring people because I thoughr they were taking the piss and judging me when actuly it was all in the mind. I have lurnt that actuly your never alone and I have found who my real friends are. Try somthing new and meet new people and you may even be able to look down on the haters later in life and show them that you have acomplished somthing amazing!



Hoped this helped

Good lick

-Billy

Answer 29

Head out more. Do something productive. Watch movies. Eat out or something. That's what I have been doing. It is good to do that. Plus it is said that before you are in a relationship with someone, you should be able to live on your own. Some people come and go.



These last two years, I lost friends. But it turned out good for me. One cut me off since he was worried about approval of his friends when I was no longer getting along with a mutual friend. That and acceptance. Shows the lack of character and identity he has. All I know is that if that mutual friend I was getting along with was a guy, he wouldn't have cut me off.



But I was never a bad friend to him but hey that is life. Today I'm doing well.

Answer 30

I'm assuming you are a teenager or early 20's. You totally described my adolescence. Add being chubby and badly abused by my mother, with a dying sibling. It was a total suckfest. And yet I'm 40 now and have a great life: nice job, great husband, awesome friends, enjoyable hobbies. Here are a few pointers:



First, realize adolescence isn't like TV or the movies, were characters are good looking, always know what to say, and have cool, attractive parents. Most people I know agree that their teenage years were the worst. Enjoy those teen movies (realizing most of the actors are much older) but see them for the fiction they are.



Make yourself interesting. Become a person that someone would want to talk to at a party and learn more about. Be a person "of substance." What do I mean by that? First of all, be well-read and follow what's going on in current events. If you know stuff, people will automatically think you are very smart and want to engage with you (and they never need to know you got a D in Chemistry!) Second, do interesting things. Take a creative writing class, go hiking with friends, study a language from an online class, go a local arts studio and learn how to throw pottery. Learn to cook. It's a skill that will impress people, keep you well fed, and will serve you for life. YouTube has oodles of instructional vids for cooking (and a million other things). If it interests you at all, delve into your spirituality. i don't mean mindlessly attend church with Mom and Dad (unless that lights your fire). Get some meditation tapes and learn to meditate. Do a Labyrinth walk if you have one nearby. Go on a spiritual retreat and learn some things about yourself. If you do these things, you will not only become a more rich human being, but you will meet other people who are exploring themselves and making the most out of life.

Volunteer. Go and stuff envelopes for the Anyonebuttrump For President. If you like animals, volunteer a the local humane society. Maybe you will clean cages as your volunteer job, but you will get to spend time with animals who are desperate for love (and a cage is that animal's home--a clean one is a gift to a little being who doesn't have anything else.) Walk dogs for sick and elderly people. Help collect money for the charity of your choice. Volunteering is so helpful for many reasons: you are going to feel better about yourself, knowing you are making a difference in the world. And again, you meet great people.

Exercise. If you aren't Varsity basketball material, that's OK. Take Zumba, take up jogging, go for a long walk every day, lift weights. It is hard to make yourself get off the couch, but you always, always feel better in the shower afterwards.

Work on your education. Go to college. Beg, borrow, or steal the money. If you can't go full time, take classes while you work. I'm telling you this not so you rule the wold, but because you will have more choices, and thus control, over your life. What is so hard right now for you, I'm guessing, is you don't have control over anything in your life. That's the drawback about being young. Doing things for yourself that will increase the control you have will make you so much happier. Get a scholarship to college and move out of your parent's house. Get a degree and have more opportunities to choose a profession that his upwardly mobile, and will allow you to move far away from your mother. I really do believe education is power. And refer back to my first point--an informed, well read, educated person is someone who attracts friends and partners. Uneducated people who do nothing but watch TV and Fox News are not exactly the life at any party.



Life can be a cesspool of pain, but it can also be a smorgasbord of opportunity. Go out and take a scoop of the good stuff life has to offer. Good luck!

Answer 31

Self love is the most important if you can't love yourself you'll never make it in life. Learn fist to be your own best friend, find things activities that you enjoy. Entertain yourself .. I don't have more than two friends myself and there were a lot of times I felt alone the way to cope with that was take myself out to a movie, lunch, dinner, something.perhaps join a gym something where you can interact with others life has many possibilities if you believe.

Answer 32

ETA: I (Labyrinth) wrote this post. EvanScanon copied it for some reason and posted above under their name. I have no idea why someone would do this, but it's wrong.



I'm assuming you are a teenager or early 20's. You totally described my adolescence. Add being chubby and badly abused by my mother, with a dying sibling. It was a total suckfest. And yet I'm 40 now and have a great life: nice job, great husband, awesome friends, enjoyable hobbies. Here are a few pointers:



First, realize adolescence isn't like TV or the movies, were characters are good looking, always know what to say, and have cool, attractive parents. Most people I know agree that their teenage years were the worst. Enjoy those teen movies (realizing most of the actors are much older) but see them for the fiction they are.



Make yourself interesting. Become a person that someone would want to talk to at a party and learn more about. Be a person "of substance." What do I mean by that? First of all, be well-read and follow what's going on in current events. If you know stuff, people will automatically think you are very smart and want to engage with you (and they never need to know you got a D in Chemistry!) Second, do interesting things. Take a creative writing class, go hiking with friends, study a language from an online class, go a local arts studio and learn how to throw pottery. Learn to cook. It's a skill that will impress people, keep you well fed, and will serve you for life. YouTube has oodles of instructional vids for cooking (and a million other things). If it interests you at all, delve into your spirituality. i don't mean mindlessly attend church with Mom and Dad (unless that lights your fire). Get some meditation tapes and learn to meditate. Do a Labyrinth walk if you have one nearby. Go on a spiritual retreat and learn some things about yourself. If you do these things, you will not only become a more rich human being, but you will meet other people who are exploring themselves and making the most out of life.

Volunteer. Go and stuff envelopes for the Anyonebuttrump For President. If you like animals, volunteer a the local humane society. Maybe you will clean cages as your volunteer job, but you will get to spend time with animals who are desperate for love (and a cage is that animal's home--a clean one is a gift to a little being who doesn't have anything else.) Walk dogs for sick and elderly people. Help collect money for the charity of your choice. Volunteering is so helpful for many reasons: you are going to feel better about yourself, knowing you are making a difference in the world. And again, you meet great people.

Exercise. If you aren't Varsity basketball material, that's OK. Take Zumba, take up jogging, go for a long walk every day, lift weights. It is hard to make yourself get off the couch, but you always, always feel better in the shower afterwards.

Work on your education. Go to college. Beg, borrow, or steal the money. If you can't go full time, take classes while you work. I'm telling you this not so you rule the wold, but because you will have more choices, and thus control, over your life. What is so hard right now for you, I'm guessing, is you don't have control over anything in your life. That's the drawback about being young. Doing things for yourself that will increase the control you have will make you so much happier. Get a scholarship to college and move out of your parent's house. Get a degree and have more opportunities to choose a profession that his upwardly mobile, and will allow you to move far away from your mother. I really do believe education is power. And refer back to my first point--an informed, well read, educated person is someone who attracts friends and partners. Uneducated people who do nothing but watch TV and Fox News are not exactly the life at any party.



Life can be a cesspool of pain, but it can also be a smorgasbord of opportunity. Go out and take a scoop of the good stuff life has to offer. Good luck!

Answer 33

I heve been like you since I remember,first of all start to see why you are alone,are u shy? Are you boring for others ?are you impolite ? Find the answer and then try to fix it ,or if your problem is really serious ,maybe it's good to meet a counselor,It's really helpful and they can teach you how to be friendly and make lots of friends . I'm sorry for being frank but I want you not to be like me ,loneliness is the most hurtful in the world ,

Answer 34

WARNING: WALL OF TEXT AHEAD. Unfortunately, we don't really know enough about you to give you the best answer, so I'm trying to answer you like you're an average teenager.



OK FIRST LOOK AT YOURSELF. You could be pushing your friends and family away without even noticing. Are you rude to them? Anger problems? Do you try to talk with your sibling(s)? Do you lose friends or simply cant make any?



ADDICTIONS are one of the best ways to make yourself become a lonely person. Food, Games, Yourself, TV, etc. this could be an answer to whats pushing people away from you.



DONT GO ON ONLINE DATING /CHAT SITES. Im assuming you're in high school, so dont go there. There's more than enough fake people on the internet, and predictors.



From the way you ask your question, Im guessing that you lose more friends than gain friends, since you "Currently don't have any". DON'T WORRY. I went through my sophomore year with out ANY friends at all, but finally met good friends who actually like me and aren't fake in my junior year. Be patient.



Lastly, your SIS and your MOM. Does your mom yell at you because you're a bad kid, or because you're struggling in school? Its pretty normal for parents to compare their kids, this isn't anything new. After all, anyone'd do the same, its just some parents may or may not keep it to themselves.



Anyway, the only way I could see getting out of that is to change yourself. Improve in school or stop sneaking out at night. Im sorry you feel lonely.



TALK TO SOMEONE! Asking strangers on the inernet is not the best idea, since we dont know you at all. Bottling up feelings is what leads people to suicide, you know? I'd suggest talking to an sibling who could understand you, starting with your SIS. It seems to me like you two may not have the best relationship, so the start off fixing your loneliness, get straight to the point. The thing about siblings is THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU, unless your friends live at your house haha. Good luck kid.



And Im sorry if you're not actually a kid.

Answer 35

Hey...hope you're doing OK.

I don't know how old you are, but if you're school/college age then there's loads of clubs and activity groups, or sports teams you could join. If you're just shy it can be difficult but go for something you're really interested in, and you're bound to get chatting to people there.

If you're an adult then there are loads of groups you can go to....like hiking or walking groups perhaps...they're harder to find, and you have to pay for some...but it will be a way to meet people. Alternatively you could enroll in a night class in something. It's still going to be pretty scary but it will be a way to meet people.

Good luck......I'm sure it will work out.....just look how many people have replied to this....all strangers and all worried and wanting to stop you feeling lonely.....that's got to be reassuring in some way :)

Answer 36

I feel the exact same way. It's getting to the point I've considered cutting and even suicide to be honest. I just don't have anyone to talk to and it's really awful. I want a best friend who I can talk to and be there for me, but honestly no guys even seem to like me in the smallest bit.

Answer 37

"I'm So Lonesome I Could Cry" is a song written and recorded by American country music singer-songwriter Hank Williams in 1949. Williams wrote the song originally intending that the words be spoken, rather than sung,[2] as he had done on several of his Luke the Drifter recordings. The song about loneliness was largely inspired by his troubled relationship with wife Audrey Sheppard. With evocative lyrics, such as the opening lines "Hear that lonesome whip-poor-will/He sounds too blue to fly," the song has been covered by a wide range of musicians. During his Aloha from Hawaii TV-special, Elvis Presley introduced it by saying, "I'd like to sing a song that's...probably the saddest song I've ever heard."

Answer 38

The more you concentrate on that stuff the more miserable you'll feel the best way to get a woman is to have confidence in yourself make sure when you make friends they're positive and they're good to be around make working out a hobby working out is extremely healthy for you it takes away stress depression and other beneficial things

Answer 39

OMFG. if i read one more answer that tells you to "be outgoing!!" or "join a club" I'm going to shoot myself.



I don't know buddy, being loneliness is super natural and probably the ONE THING WE ALL HAVE IN COMMON. It's life's GREATEST challenge to master it and choose to be happy in other ways. Some days you'll feel sad and shitty and want to die. Then other days you'll go for a run and feel like a sexy champion and look down on all of the other sad motherf-ers who don't get to be you.



That's life - ups and downs - and then you're dead. So you might as well try to get busy and look as hot as you can and play around and work hard while you're here.

Answer 40

Joy, happiness, laughter and fun attracts people. Its all in the personality, and if your outwards appearance gives you a low self esteem, you can alter your life by appearing happy and laughing all the time. Some people needs to work harder on it than other, but if you keep at it you can get pretty successful. Soon enough you will be real good at it and you will be in the centre of attraction. If you have a talent, use it and practice a lot. How about music, take up harmonica but rather dont sing unless you are good. Lastly, becoming reborn Christian will be the most solid foundation you can ever build your life on. And it lasts for eternity. You can do it, really you can.

Answer 41

Internet dating??



Your mum shouldn't be saying stuff like that - don't let her bring you down.



Sorry I couldn't be of much use but maybe it's the way you approach people? Maybe you come on too strong?? I don't know because I don't know you but if you are constantly feeling down you could go to the doctors cause you might be depressed.

You could also do counciling and open up to someone who could help?

Hope this helps somewhat 😉

Answer 42

I'm not going to sugar coat this...you need to grow some balls and instead of complaining that you haven't got friends go actually make friends! Also you live with your mum so unless you're one of those 30 year olds that still lives with their parents a girlfriend shouldn't be a concern. Wake the hell up!

Answer 43

I felt the same when I was a teenager. There was a book called psycho-cybernetics which was recommended by an elderly man. It was about repairing self esteem and confidence. In doing this, which is simple but requires effort, it allowed me to get a job, finish school, get a girlfriend and now wife and life. You can get the book almost free on amazon but you don t need it. Here are the principles: 1. Envision the life you want. A positive, happy hopeful life. Day dream about it. 2. Control the day dream so you are part of that life. See yourself as the person you want to be; empowered, in control, handsome, intelligent, admired, loved, outgoing. 3. Practice. Practice being outgoing. It will sound fake at first but wish people a happy day, with enthusiasm. Tell girls, "I love your dress!" If they say something like, "You can borrow it." play along with the joke and say, "That s great, baby, I ll be by to pick it up later.". Just play -- just have fun and don t forget to be a kid. Youth is never ugly but it is usually insecure. Maybe get a job in a fast food place or place where you meet a lot of people and learn to be outgoing. Whatever emotion you send out you re eventually going to have returned to you. Don t even worry about it being sappy or corny. Just keep going -- best regards!

Answer 44

Ease into it, good friends don't appear over night, I knew my best friend for 5 years but we hated eachother for the first 3 years. All my friends started out hating me (8 of them) and if your not around the right people you'll be even lonelier! It's not fun. U should have ONE best friend, a few 2-5 good friends and aqueintences (just people who are nice to u)

Answer 45

hey! i have found myself in this same situation in the past... now i'm not going to be one of those people to snuff you out with a lame answer... i think there's several ways to get some friends... firstly i would recommend getting involved in a club or class of some kind... you can meet so numerous people through things like events, church, gym, concerts and things like that... i know it seems hard at first but don't worry, it'll pass... personally i love photography and urban exploring and have net numerous people through my hobbies :) as for your mom saying your sister is better, i wouldnt dwell on that... you are awesome just the way you are and perhaps fate has driven you in this direction 'cause you could have done something dangerous otherwise in a situation with friends... i wish you the proper of luck in your new journey... :d

Answer 46

I have been in that situation many times. The only thing that helped me was listening to motivational talks on yahoo about that topic. I am christian too so I listened to Joel osteen, Joyce Mayer, and Charles Stanley. I personally felt that in just one moment my whole mindset changed and I even didn't care that I have no one at that moment, didn't care that there are teenagers having so much fun because deep inside they all have so many issues but they don't show, didn't care that there are ppl who don't like me. I hope this helps :)

Answer 47

i'm just like you but my mom doesn't tease me about it... i'm usually at home all the time... you may be sad 'cause you don't have anyone to hangout with but that does not mean it's going to be forever... make some friends at school or at the park... sometimes being alone is better than dealing with other people's shenanigans... some people are fake... just be patient good things shall happen

Answer 48

If you're of legal age to work, get a job

Get in a college course (a course you like)

Follow on into uni



It'd annoying when people say just go out and make friends, it doesn't work like that



But the Things I stated are ways to meet people

If you can meet people through people through other people if you know what I mean



If you get invited to parties attend them, if you get invited to the pub go there and make more friends there too



If you get invited out do it!

Answer 49

Save up about a hundred. Go to a titty-bar, and talk to those women and learn a thing or two. They'll talk, all it takes is a little money. You don't need to strip 'em down either, but I would. Great view and conversion.

Answer 50

Most of the advice that you are going to receive is about making external changes. Like "go out and make friends" etc. The reality is that your most profound and longest lasting change that you have to make in life are the changes that you make from within. What is going on inside of you. When other people "see" you, what they are actually looking at is the true nature of your inner self. That is the real you that is being projected outward for others to see. Make positive adjustments to your true inner self and everything else outside of you will change. Those around you will perceive you as a different person. A better person. Take a look at this link and consider how are the various ways in which you can learn, grow and adjust your inner person. I wish you all success.

Answer 51

Try just to be yourself, don't expect anything. Approach people, talk to them. Let them know you dig their flow and the sort of let them go. You don't want to look desperate, even for friends :D Just relax, love yourself and know yourself and everything else will fall into place. Haters are weak of mind and heart. You have to be bigger than they are. No one is perfect, perfection is a lie...



You have to accept that and if people have baggage and come at you realize that it's their baggage and their's alone... it's got nothing to do with you. You just have to keep on keeping on. Love yourself, talk about what you love.. do what you love. Learn what you love, grow and develop. Search it out... but don't struggle so hard that you stop living , feeling free. Allow yourself to grow, don't push too hard. Be gentle, be patient and let good things, people come to you...



Do good unto others and good shall be done onto you. Everyone has a storm raging inside, everyone faces hardship. You're not alone, and you're much closer to friends and all you desire from another than you realize but you got to let it happen naturally. Just go with that flow. :D <3

Answer 52

I agree with Rebecca.



As for your mum berating you and saying your sister is better, believe me you are so not alone in that situation. It happens in a lot of families. One gets favoured and it damages the other child. I know adults who were not the favourite and they still talk about it and how much it hurt.



You are a child of the universe with the right to be here.



Don't spend all your time at home. Join clubs or volunteer for charity work. I loved my charity job and still do it. It takes my mind off stuff that happened to me years ago.



Smile at people and say "how are you?" That opens up a conversation.



Best of luck

Answer 53

Hey man I met most of my friends at the bus stop. Just go out and if you see someone around your age go up to them and say hi perhaps compliment them on something they're wearing. Like I love slipknot so if I see someone wearing a slipknot shirt I come up to then and say, "Hey I love your shirt slipknot is ******* awesome" and they usually just smile and say thanks. It's a good way to to get a conversation going. And hell I'd be your friend if I actually knew you. And as for girls is do the same thing especially complimenting them on something they're wearing that's always nice. Like compliment them on their shows or something like that instead of stuff like their eyes ir something else they were born with. And then after you get the conversation started let her talk for a little while and then ask her out.

Answer 54

Just be yourself, and do what makes you happy! If you want to make friends, be the one to branch out, you can't expect to have friends, acting like a mushroom all the time. Join clubs and teams and hobbies and try new things! Love life! Best of luck, have fun!

Answer 55

Having lots of friends is no guarantee that you will never be lonely!



Start doing different things, travel is you can meet different people, read, pick up new hobby. While your enjoying yourself you'll attract people that have similar interest as you.



Loneliness can stem from insecurities. It’s hard to reach out and be open to friendships when you don’t feel that you are worth another person’s interest.”—Jeanette.



The Bible says: “You must love your neighbor as yourself.” (Galatians 5:14) To enjoy healthy friendships, we need to have a measure of self-worth—without, of course, veering into selfish pride.—Galatians 6:3, 4.

Avoid self-pity.



“Loneliness is like quicksand. The more you wallow in it, the harder it is to get out of it. If you let it consume your thinking, soon you’ll have a full-fledged pity party that no one else wants to go to.”—Erin.

Answer 56

Well it's obviously you who's doing something wrong. Get out of the house. Talk to someone new at school and suggest to hang out or something. Stop having such a negative attitude because that pushes people away from you.

Answer 57

Aww it's okay. I used to feel that way, like everybody hated me a lot of people noticed me later on when I got involved in things. Maybe join a sports team? Maybe take any class over the summer. Get out more, introduce yourself. Try to get involved in things outside of school and inside of school that will really help. I honestly wouldn't feel safe making friends online but there are so many things you can do. Once you get into things outside of school and inside of school you can meet your friends friend or friends which will help you have more friends.

Answer 58

Friend, most importantly we need to get to know ourselves. The whole world does not hate you. Our thoughts about who we are change in every given moment. Change starts within. Start by changing your thoughts about yourself. Ask yourself, these few questions, Am I a kind loving person? Do I care about the well being of others that cross my path in Life, and what can I do to make this world a little sweeter with a little part of me? Friend, you have the opportunity to spread a little part of yourself to any social circle you choose. Find someone or something to do, whether it be a job or a volunteer job. Friends will find you. It is not how many friends you have that determine your self worth. It is the one persons life you can change by being in it. You are young, friends will come and friends will go but you will always be there for yourself. Start with yourself, and remember fear is the opposite of love. Every decision you make going forward make it with this simple rule in mind. I will make all my me choices based on love not fear. Decisions made in fear and choices made in fear are from a lower part of yourself. If you want things to get better start making choices from the higher part of yourself. Building relationships is an important part of growing up. Sometimes we don't have healthy relationships at home. So that is a good place to start. Making someone else happy, whether it be mom or your old retired neighbors across the street. Kindness is the key and look inside yourself.

Answer 59

Go to reddit. Lol. No, just open yourself up. Don't close yourself off. Find something that you are truly interested in and run with it. I made a ton of friends in high school and college but only because we had common interests. It's hard to find friends in this day and age. Don't give up!

Answer 60

I'm experiencing that too now. Yes! But I think the best thing to do is to have a positive outlook in life. Go out and make friends and just always think positive it is the only way to wipe away all the sadness and loneliness you are experiencing right now. Good luck!

Answer 61

First of all let me just tell you, your depressed. And that needs to change. I am in the same situation. Tell ur mom how ur feelings so she can get off ur back. Get a job, if your not in collage, go to school. Join random programs in your city like some sport you like, or book reading circles or something. Go to church. Pray. God will help you find your way. TRUST ME. He had helped me so many times. You just need to believe. God has a girl planned for you. Everyone always girls a boyfriend/girlfriend. Do thinks where you will meet ppl. Dnt sit home and watch tv and play video games. Keep yourself occupied. Make your mother give u a compliment once she sees your actually tryin to make a change to yours life. Serious, take my advise. Get your lazy butt off the couch and make change!! Go to collage, and join a ferternity or whatever those are called. Live in a dorm. You will become best friends with your roomie, and neighbors. Good luck. 👼🏼

Answer 62

Even though things look gloomy now, don't lose hope. Be true to the best picture you have of yourself. Don't place too much stock in others' judgments of you. Be true to the potential in your heart as well as your mind. You are young and life is the most wondrous gift. Time will prove it.

Answer 63

You are not the only who feels this way. At your age it can be hard to make new good friends . But I'm familiar with a book that I know you would enjoy and it has good positive information. "Young People ask Questions and Answers ". There is also a free website and it has a section for young people JW.ORG

Hope you enjoyed it

Answer 64

Get out and go do things !! That's what I do when I'm lonely

Answer 65

I'm lonely also I have endeded relationship _ _ _ lI'm not religious anymore

it's suck actually but do not learn for me I am rebelling now . decided to meet someone online and hear ghost story .. didn't know when I bcom so daring

Answer 66

Your mother has knocked your self-esteem and confidence by her attitude towards you to the point where you have come to believing her unkind words. I don't know how old you are but this has cut you deeply, you need to reach out to organizations / charities who will take your help with open arms. Plus should you have an adult whom you trust, it could be a teacher, pastor, perhaps a relative who would be willing to intercede between you and your mother to make clear the harm she is inflicting on you and possible undo some of the damage.

Answer 67

Be outgoing and not afraid to do new things and you'll make friends in no time. Also, If there is anything people complain about like that you talk too loud, or interrupt or are controlling or something, work on those things.

Answer 68

I'm sorry to hear this. How old are you? What about joining a dating site? Don't let anybody else tell you who you are ! I'm thinking your circumstances and confidence may be the issue. You will be ok dw

Answer 69

Be an think more positive. People around you can feel and see your negativity. Go out more and try an meet new people. Say hello, hi or howdy to every one you pass. Try an start conversation with anyone. Smile more even if it's a fake smile.

Answer 70

Don't know how old you seem.. but if you are an adult. You must get a job, get two jobs, save like crazy for about 4 months and then move out of state, start college and make friends.

Answer 71

I wish I can do what I'm about to say to you. Go out more, do some volunteering if you don't mind doing that and if you aren't allowed to go out try making friends online

Answer 72

Hi there,



Thank you for your question dear. Time-to-time loneliness is a part of life for every one. Even among family members or a group of friends we may feel lonely time to time. We can sit down and try to know ourselves deep down and work on ourselves in those times and make ourselves a better human and make the best out of the time. My humble opinion for you is that take small baby steps and take it from there: 1. Genuinely smile and say hi to different stranger numerous times till you feell comfortable. 2. Lots of small talks 3. Ask open-ended questions to keep the conversation going... In your case, these may be very difficult, but you need to work you guts out sometimes and strike up a conversation w/ a total stranger and repeat.



Best of luck

Answer 73

first of all how old are you. if you are under 18 years old then you should be able to make friends in school. either high school or college. if you are shy you are going to have open yourself up to meeting people. if you don't talk to people or act like you want to be bothered then they will shy away from you. if you are older than 18 same goes with being in college and on a job if you act like you don't want to be bothered than people will think that you are standoffish ad they will not bother you. you have to make an effort like talking to people in class if you are I school, or if you are working. if you don't know what to say and you are around other people and know something about what the others around you are talking about then just join in on the conversation. this will let them know that you are interested in being included in their conversation and they will start to talk to you.

Answer 74

i've been in this situation for a long time now, the main advice i can give you is to have hope. i suffer with extreme anxiety and trust issues, so i found comfort in online friendships, online forums, games. it really helped me out over the years. with the "sister is better" issue, pay no attention to it. you are an amazing human being and you deserve so much more. see the bigger picture one day you will have your own life where you are not with a family that prefers another. you can become anyone you want to be and truly be yourself

Answer 75

try to join something you're interested in, you'll meet ppl ...a gym, playing an instrument...perhaps getting a job...with the summer coming you should be able to get out and about more, n meet ppl on your journey*..go for a bike ride, or walking on a trail...keep urself occupied n busy instead of indoors , therefore your mum can't freak on you all the time* GoodLuck* :)

Answer 76

I am also feeling same but I can suggest you that don't think that you are alone...! try to be so busy in your works & duties. and try some new habits but not bad habits ! You can read stories, most interest stories are kid stories. Listen music with higher sound, you can feel dance with rhythm. play games with challenge, that can resolves your loneliness. and another best option is being closer with pets because pets are best friends forever. they can not cheat you.



If possible learn something like some classes for musical if you interested.

Good luck dear :-)

Answer 77

The best solution is spend more time with your family which you already have. If you don't have friends, never mind coz you got a family. Listen music, do activities you like the most. But never sit idle.

Answer 78

First of all you need a more positive attitude. The is some truth to the idea of a fulfilling prophecy. That is if you are sure things are set in s way that you think you will make that happen.If you really want friends and a girlfriend then you must take steps to make that happen. I knew a guy who had a pock marked face and was balding a a bit pudgy but he decided he wanted girls to go for him so he took steps to make it happen. He developed a sense of humor and learned to talk to very attractive women n a confident way. He would compliment them in a while smiling and being friendly without patronizing them. What I learned was to listen more to girls and treat them like you would anyone without trying to impress them about yourself but listening to what their interests are and taking an interest in them. If something romantic is gong to happen it will happen but don't try to force it to happen let things unfold naturally. And to be an interesting person yourself you must develop your mind be knowledgeable without being superior about things but being able to discuss various subjects in an intelligent manner. If you can develop interests and skills there will be people who will want to befriend you and girls who will take an interest in you.

Answer 79

Join an organisation that is involved in charity or social work where the main obective is to help the needy sick or poor . You will come accross many volunteer workers men and women working together with good understanding to achieve worthy objectives . You will automatically get absorbed into such activities and get rid of your loneliness . In the process of working together you might come accross a suitable partner with whom you can build up a friendship .

Answer 80

My advice is that you should get revenge on society for making you lonely. Step one: force people to talk to you by holding ransom for one of their family members. Step two: If that doesn't work just become bbfs with yourself, you probably would be the bestest friend you ever had. :D Hope I helped! Good luck!!!

Answer 81

Making friends doesn't just happen. You have to work at it. Keep at it and don't give up until you make some friends.

Answer 82

Get out there, join a club or try a sport. Does your school offer 4h? That's fun and will get you lots of new friends. That's how I met my bf.

Answer 83

Ignore your mom's negativity, focus on your goals and what you like doing. That's what girls are attracted to, not someone who is needy or desperate.



I was alone for 27 years, and became super attractive once I quit trying to get a girlfriend.

Answer 84

You should join a community forum, I'm quite out of place in my life and my site (among the many others I also frequent), at least lets me find people to talk to and discuss things in my interest.

Answer 85

I am not sure but it sounds like you are still in in junior high or high school. The best way to make friends is to join a club and engage in more social activities. Often times schools, libraries and community centers offer social events and outings as well. I say find what interests in you and go for it! Be blessed my man.

Answer 86

Jesus Christ is the truth, the way, and the life! Jesus loves you. Get a king James bible and believe. Read Romans chapter 5 and 8 and 10. Read John chapter 1 and 3. Read 1 John chapter 4. Read 1 Corinthians chapter 1 and 15. Read Ephesians chapter 2. Study the Word of God. Believe in Jesus Christ and you shall have everlasting life!

https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Friendship/

Read Genesis chapter 2. Jesus loves you. Pray for help and guidance and understanding. God provides all things.

Answer 87

I have had this feeling before and to fix it I went out and I started to talk to people to get a girl friend just do the same thing. You should just go out and talk whether its at school or just in public. It can be a casher. It doesnt mater! we all care about you and we want you to live! you may not think it but we, your mother and everyone else cares!!

Answer 88

what i learned is that you have to speak up yourself.

no one is going to go up to you all the time.

talk about what you like and don't become friends with someone just because they agreed to be friends.

make sure that they are good people.

practice talking at home and start by talking to someone next to you or anyone that seems nice.

you still have a chance!

good luck!!

Answer 89

Be more social than you currently are. That could be the problem. You can always join clubs and go different places to make new friends besides school. Someday you will find yourself a girlfriend along the way; just keep your spirit up!

Answer 90

Hey... Trust me try to get out there go to places where people hang out and start a conversation and trust me I know how you feel about parents yelling at you about how your siblings are better than you.... I get that a lot anyway or go on apps where you can talk to people I made w best friend like that online you got to just go out and talk to people it will be werid at first but remember you can't make friends with out knowing them and who knows when you are outside at Starbucks or something you might met a girl! 😀

Answer 91

If you live in Canada there are many Community centres that offer many programs where you can meet people. If someone say hi to you from school or work, just work up a conversation with them. Family are not the best ppl to be friends with.

Answer 92

join clubs, sport teams, and different activities and I guarantee that you'll find friends. by doing so, you'll meet new people from your school with the same interests as you. Usually when you make a friend, you'll meet your friends friends and then you'll meet your friends friends friends and so on.

Answer 93

Think of this time alone as a time when you are working on yourself. It's painful for sure thinking about your peers out having a good time but that is temporary as they wont know what you will know and you will grow and it will be beneficial over your lifetime. Take the time to study this site and grow while waiting for your time.

http://lonerwolf.com/

Answer 94

Go on meetme.com and make friends around yourvarea and then you can hang out with people. Your mom shouldn't be talking to you like that

Answer 95

Why don't you attend a meet up group full of people who are interested in similar things?

Answer 96

I've been single for over 15 years and because I love God i have been attacked and made fun of every single day of that 15 years trust me your not alone

Answer 97

I ONLY CAP THIS CUZ ITS IMPORTANT. !!! YOU DO NOT NEED FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND. you and your family is honestly ALL you need. people these days are not raised correctly and they don't even have morals, so they don't care about you or what they do to others. if you stay true to yourself, not lie to people, not betray people that care about you, and jus be nice in general, people will come to you. I only have 3 friends but I am very popular. people know me, I know them, but I decided the more friends I have the or

Answer 98

Sometimes being lonely has it's advantages.

Answer 99

Talk to a professional counselor. Your school will have one, or they can recommend someone for you. There's not enough information given here to really understand what the problem is.

Answer 100

I would recommend volunteering or joining a club maybe :) only if you want to and love it. Something like a space club NASA if you like science, volunteering int he hospital if you like medical, volunteer at a shelter if you like animals, join an art club if you like art, tennis club if you like sports, etc..stuff like that ;) find people who share the same interests and do things you like at the same time so you can enjoy life :)) It sounds like you are not enjoying life enough & maybe working too hard so this is my advice. Work on your career & just find something to live for & ignore what your mom is saying about your sister being better. Eventually move out & live life where you are happy when you can financially afford it.

Answer 101

aww... well your mum should not say things like that to you..maybe she just dont know the way to say you need to work harder to get better at your work etc ..i think often young people get upset thinking the world is against them and feel friendless ..im in the world and i dont hate you..

dont know how old you are but try join a sport ...even church can be good as you may make freinds there EVEN a girl friend one day..you have to strike up conversations to get friends or girl friend ..if you say nothing ....nothing will happen..... always remember..you won the sperm race to be born and to be on earth ..so you won that race so you are meant to be on earth no matter what you think

Answer 102

Stop being lonely...Use a ouija board, call 911, make imaginary friends, call a random number, talk to strangers, move to a highly populated area, or just stay lonely.

Answer 103

"when I'm home my mom always yells at me and says how much better my sister is."

I know this isn't a legitimate answer to your question, but yo mama is a beyatch. She should respect both of her damn children, it's part of her job as a mother

Answer 104

I am the same way as you right now it sucks but I get reminded why I don't need friends people can be so fake now days

Answer 105

Try volunteering at a local charitable organization.

There are many people worse off than you.

This will get you out of the house for a while.

You will have less time for feeling sorry for yourself.

Answer 106

the 1st thing to do is reflect. ask yourself "why" questions!

why is your mom yelling at you all the time? (does she have a legit reason? is she having a hard time and youre adding up or helping? is she dumping her problems on you and getting mad at you for no reasons?)

why will she compare your sister? is your sister doing something thats good or helpful or something she can be proud of while maybe you dont?



reflect on yourself why people seem to hate you. why dont you have friends? is there something wrong with you? when you get to the bottom of these and find real honest answers (without being biased about yourself) then you got step one done.



step 2 is changing things for the better. little by little.



do things that eventually make you like yourself. and then when you like yourself and you think your awesome eventually people will like you too and admire you and think youre a good addition to their life. you dont need to beg friends to like you., if they see you as someone who is truly great and maybe even humble about it... then they will be the ones who will cling to you.



noone likes a victim mentality person who walks around telling people how the felt wronged. change your mentality too maybe its harming than doing good.



readi positive blogs on self growth, self development and join groups and acitivities where you can find people and friends with the same interest!! build good network with good friends.

Answer 107

*GO DO SOME VOLUNTEERING FOR THE SALVATION ARMY OR SOME OTHER OUTFIT THAT HELPS THE NEEDY! HELPING OTHERS GIVES YOU A PURPOSE AND DOES A LOT OF GOOD FOR OTHER LONELY PEOPLE! THEN YOU WON'T BE LONELY ANYMORE!

Answer 108

Make friends with roadkill you find on the highway. They're really good listeners and are always there for you!

Answer 109

If you under eighteen just wait until you eighteen. Loose weight, exercise, move out when you get eighteen, and maybe join the navy or go to college. You mother sounds like castrating b*tch ignore her, and you sister will probably have ten kids with ten different guys and end up on welfare. These people you with are toxic, same as nerve gas or radiation, just get away from them as soon as you can. I love you my friend.

Answer 110

I feel for ya man. Im part of the 4% that will die alone and a virgin. Just try not to think about it to much. Get a job or find a hobby you really enjoy. For me i work all day then play video games untill i go to bed.

Answer 111

Dude, if your mom is abusive, then don't be afraid to seek help. I'm just saying

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Trust me stranger, not everybody hates u. That's impossible. Just be yourself. If anybody hates u just ignore it. It's also impossible to make everybody love u. Try to socialise. Don't pretend to be someone else so that people would like u. Goodluck, stranger. xx

Answer 113

Find a hobby! Join a gym. Take a cooking class. Do something different.

I always get a new group of friends when I get a new job at a different restaurant! Those are fun.

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Join the gym. Will make you more confident. Meet people. Improve self image. Improve health overall. The positives are endless. Plus you can put your headphones in and ignore everyone until you want to socialise.

Answer 115

Firstly, learn to love yourself, list all of your qualities down and then change what you don't like. Join some clubs and practice introducing yourself to people and find people who share similar interests to you.

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Being social isn't easy and requires work to fit in at times. You need to go out of your way to join a club you have an interest in, maybe a sports team, anything. Thats where you should start. Find people who seem friendly and start a simple conversation with them. Talk about the club your in, the homework, your home life. The possibilities are endless. Not to be mean, But you could be annoying to talk to for most people. Find out what your doing wrong in that case. Some people in my school who are loners usually try too hard to be "cool" or "funny" in class they awkwardly tell puns or jokes. People don't like that much. Have confidence in yourself and speak naturally, dont force yourself too much. They way I go about making friends is first- talk to one person. Focus on him/her. Wait for a chance your on a bus or study hall and can just talk. Maybe during your club meeting. Get to know eachother. Then you befriend their friends. Everyone likes different characters. So with some people, you may need to filter yourself. For example, with one person, maybe you will talk all day about skateboarding or something, and another person hates skateboarding so you dont talk about it. Talk about things they like. In the end it all comes down to just going out and talking to people who dont have anyone to talk too or just participate in the group conversation. Try to hang out with people, ask for their number to hang out sometime. The hardest part is getting your first friend if you dont have one. Just go find someone, and talk to them. (Sorry if this is a bit scrambled my brain thinks faster than i type haha) Good luck!!!!



ps. I dont think everyone hates you, ya just have to be friendly enough and easy to talk to. Dont be weird at first, once you get to know someone you can do whatever pretty much. Have a civil conversation. It will lead to friends. Dont hibernate in your house haha.

Answer 117

Great leaders were all lonely till they became famous. Don't lose heart, you can do it !

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Don't worry. You'll eventually meet people.

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Try getting out more, join a club! Do you have talents?! Try exploring new things. Join as many clubs as possible.

If you go to school try having a goal to become friends with every person you sit next to.

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You don't need a girlfriend to come around and solve your problems.

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Just start talking to people.

Simple as that.



You might say it's more complicated than that, but just as Nike says: "just do it". I thought it was kinda stupid at first but then one day I realized Nike is right. People just doing it is what keeps this world turning.

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Your good get yourself some video games , watch comedy shows , star smoking bud and get a pet your all good to trust I have friends and i still get lonely and this is what I do

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Try to be bit social and make friends, attend in youth meetings or something, and follow one of the Abrahamic religions especially Islam. you fix this problem once and for all.

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I know how you feel the best way is to join a club, maybe look for a job ? Take a nephew or neice to the park? Go to a u i or collage get a degree

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Volunteer

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Easy just become like myself and scores of other dejected introverts, Apathy is the key. With apathy all your worries just go away because you just don't care anymore.



*Disclaimer apathy is not for everyone and not everyone can be apathetic.

Answer 127

Join a group of other lonely people.

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Don't be sad. Be positive and remain hopeful.

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turn your loneliness into happiness. like me. being lonely makes me happy. much better than being happy but deep inside lonely. im an introvert ever since i realised that people will always come and go. just dont mind the world and you will be happy and contented.

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Join some clubs

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Hi dear,

I am sorry about the way you feel. The answer to your question is to fall in love with yourself again!

It is obvious that insecurity has set in and it has to be dealt with asap.

Here is a link to my blog about insecurity and how it can affect your future if not handled well. Maybe I could be your best friend!

https://justamazinglybeautiful.blogspot.com/

Answer 132

I was in the same way but I attended singles at my church and worked at making friends . It is not easy at first but make sure you remember peoples names when you see them that will help you a lot

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If you're an Aquarius then its just in your nature to be alone are you?

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I've been there, it's really traumatic that my own dad once kicked me out of his house. **** happens!

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I'm in the same boat..

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Pen pal with someone in Iceland



Put on your favorite music



Randomly talk to a crowd and one will hear you out

Answer 137

New Friend=Future problems

i don't have any friend.I live like Greaser.

Answer 138

If you arwant shy and lonely you can meet a girl who is also shy and lonely and fall in love

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that should not be something that puts you down, but something that boosts your confidence. you wanna prove your mum wrong? go out there, make some friends. even try making online friends through chatrooms and then build up your confidence later in real life. no one hates you, you just have a negative mindset.

Answer 140

well you're not the only one who feels like dont have friends.. i have been in your situation before i thought i have no friends at all but one day when my car broke down somewhere in highway, i called them they were there to help me.. its not about how many friends you have, but how many would rather help u when u have problems.. about ur sister dont worry your mom will understands how much important you are and realizes you are important as well as your sister

Answer 141

Stop being lonely, go out and make friends. It depends on your mind.

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Your mom needs to stop comparing you to your sister and trying to make you feel bad..that is an awful mistake parents make.Just go out and make friends trust me you will be fine and stop listening to your mom I know she is making a huge impact in holding you back with her negative and toxic approach.

Answer 143

When I was in high school, I did not have many friends. They saw how sensitive I was so they made fun of me, A LOT. Then I started being

Answer 144

Join a club, make some friends

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Try visiting 4chan.org. There's plenty of people just like you.

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try finding a job ,like at a fast food place, thats what i did when i was 17 and imade lots of friends and i still keep in touch with some of them, and lots of fun too! now im in my 30 s and still miss those good ol days.try that you might be surprised.

Answer 147

Go out and make a few friends 😅 Orr find a hobby

Answer 148

Three years before i am also not having friends. because i was too lazy.i changed my character.i speak freely to all my school.so i got good friends in my life. i am doing crafting works like that make paper flowers,make earnings etc...if you feel lonely means you do any activities like that playing games.after changing your things you feel freely.

Answer 149

Look for clubs to join or events near you that have to do with things you like. If you like comics go to a comic convention. If you like movies go to a film event like a marathon or something. People who share your interests are easy to talk to.

Answer 150

i am also just like you, i am a elder girl in my home and my younger sister has so much frnds. i recently had my birthday but no one even wished me,, except my family.

i am woried about this that i will be lonely forever ... i will never get my dream boy,, and friend circle too :(

Answer 151

you can spend good time with books of your choice and listening to music of your choice. You can also learn musical instruments like flute, harmonica, guitar, keyboard from pratanu banerjee in kolkata who has a lot of videos at youtube and can teach you properly. You can also learn online from pratanu banerjee.

Answer 152

I am currently in this same situation .. if you want someone to talk to I'm allways here. I mostly use snapchat... 😊☺😊

Answer 153

Most people are so self-occupied that they definitely do NOT hate you.

Why not take up volunteering for people in deeper need? You will make many friends

Answer 154

Lifes a b***h and then you die that's why i get high.

Answer 155

Start talking to people,get closer to them maybe by just asking them how their day went. And everyday just keep saying hi and talk to them its not just a 1 day thing or say somthing funny and make them laugh

Answer 156

D: uh...umm.. go join a band,club,sport team..? I don't know really cuz i'm almost in same boat. ~.~

Answer 157

Can someone please help me with my question I'm starting to get scared.

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Answer 158

Start a hobby class. Spent time with loved ones...

Answer 159

go outside and say hi to someone who doesn't seem like a sociopath, serial killer, or molester, and you're all set.

Answer 160

You need to focus on being a friend to others in need. We all want smart good looking friends, but focus on being a friend to a loser or social reject. They are the ones who will be there when you need them.

Answer 161

If you want a friend be a friend. Be a blessing to others. Be onvolved with your church and community. Volunteer and be part of youth groups at your church.

Answer 162

Join a social club where you can meet new people, or even do some voluntary work

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Okgg

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Tosh

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U dont need friends to stop being lonely, learn how to be your own best friend!

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Birds of a feather flock together: find hobbies, and make friends with similar hobbies.

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Talk to people online forums or Facebook pages

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Okk

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Try joining a social group.

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Join a bowling league.

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the best way to kill the loneliness....just go gym and hit gym hard....i bet you my friend within 2 or 3 months you will not require any friend . and after 3 months will gain your self confidence and you will get the gf too....just hit the gym hard ...try atleast...

Answer 172

Join a club or sport . Just put yourself out there

Answer 173

Get a Wiafu

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go up to a mirror, smash you face in it, pick up a shard and put it in your neck then swallow the rest



then youll never be lonely again

Answer 175

lose the idea that others make you happy. it's not difficult

Answer 176

Friends are over rated

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better join some extra-curricular activities. You will come across some like minded people - boys and girls. Chose them as your friends as per your liking.;

Answer 178

i'll be your friend and wing man, where in the world do you live? we can party.

Answer 179

Consider volunteering for a charity or some other organisation.

Answer 180

Mabey a pet

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Go watch YouTube videos.

Answer 182

You have to sing the song Lonely (Akon).

Answer 183

SIgn up a facebook account

Answer 184

I get you!! What you need to do is make some friends. Talk to people. Some people are nicer than you think.

Answer 185

Concentrate on your ambition. Find your dream and make it happen. Friends will come. Be patient.

Answer 186

Get a stuffed animal

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See a psychologist

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Find a hobby, go out and make new friends

Answer 189

Get a dog

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join a online game like league of legends or gaiaOnline and make friends

Answer 191

Get social and make some friends.

Answer 192

You only have one life. Go out and live it, before its over.

Answer 193

hate to be rude but if youre lonely its for a reason noone likes u

Answer 194

This may sound crazy...but back many months back when I lost all my friends I started making friends on tumblr. I got their skypes, and eventually, I met others through those friends thanks to group chats.

Answer 195

try not to think about it and go out and enjoy doing things you like to do. Exercise and get plenty of sleep.

Answer 196

Eat some raw uncooked meat. You will acquire many friends who will be loyal to you till your death.

Answer 197

be happy be yourself don't worry too much and people will come to you

Answer 198

Get a dog and take it for a walk when you get frustrated at home

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Gdn

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listen to lonely day song

u wont feel this in ur entire life

Answer 201

Earn respect, do something in your life, be successful. OR Social media can help you.

Answer 202

Jesus loves you, and He is always with you! Just accept Him as your Lord and Savior, trust Him, and pray to Him about your problems.

Answer 203

Go paintballing a fun thing and u can make some friends

Answer 204

Life is to short. Try to explore and enjoy. Your family is always there to cheer you up.

Answer 205

make friends, in real life, and in virtual in social media like facebook: develop tastes in music, painting, writing etc.

Answer 206

I would say try and go talk to people, you can ask your sister for some help maybe

Answer 207

Pray.

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well, if everyone hates you "for some reason", they can't all be wrong. better clean up your act.

Answer 209

"Oh what a friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and grief's to bear!

Answer 210

Make friends.

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just go out and talk to someone, ask them what they are doing daily. Maby you have something in common

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Just passing by

Answer 213

Summon a demon to play Xbox with.

Answer 214

First, talk to your mom and tell her how you feel about the way she talks to you. Also, try to talk to the kids in your class

Answer 215

Make friends.

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I'll be your friend :)

Answer 217

You need to go to some curses,or work, you will find there friends

Answer 218

Just go and make friends and talk to girls that is what I did.

Answer 219

join groups on line of simmilar interests

Answer 220

Start bodybuilding

Answer 221

Yes go out and have fun

Answer 222

Masturbation always works for me 👍🏻

Answer 223

Get a high paying Job, and you would see how many friends you would get,, you may have delete some :) :) :)

Answer 224

Go out and explore

Answer 225

You need to stop depending on other people for happiness. People are not dependable!!

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U can talk 2me :)

And friends doesnt matter in life u dont need it.. u need education. . Money talks and brings happiness in life

Answer 227

Make friends.

Answer 228

Get involved with a Christian church and their activities

Answer 229

Join a bible study group.

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Get out and do things

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Find hobby

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its not a bad thing but you have to make some effort to know people

Answer 233

Get a dog. Dogs are great and will never betray you.

Answer 234

Get tinder

Answer 235

Visit Hinduism temple... U feel same as your family there

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Find other peope who share your hobbies

Answer 237

making friends

Answer 238

You should have a talk with your close one. This will definitely help you.

Answer 239

go outside

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I would say get a pet that doesnt require staring at it all day. (Get a dog/cat)

Answer 241

I am lonely too.

Answer 242

go out stop locking ur self inside ur room

Answer 243

Try out new hobbies

Answer 244

Get a cat or dog.

Answer 245

Go for a walk.

Answer 246

Things will get better

Answer 247

get chatty and change your hair style and wear nice clothes and people will like you more

Answer 248

move schools or start an ec activitiy

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yes

Answer 250

Take up hobbies.

Answer 251

touch yo peepee at the pool and spew frosting everywhere.

Answer 252

Me too

Answer 253

i think you should do some great thing .you have to think your work like girlfriend or friend

Answer 254

Talk to someone

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Internet friends, my friend.

Answer 256

kik snapchat tinder

Answer 257

Do you go to church? Read the Bible and pray.

Answer 258

Find Jesus <3

Answer 259

find some interesting things to do.

Answer 260

smile and say hi to literally everyone-- eventually someone will befriend you.

Answer 261

occupy yourself with hobbies & hone your career skills.

Answer 262

Get a pet!

Answer 263

make some friend.hangout with them.i am sure there will not be any lonliness

Answer 264

try to fall in love with anyone.

Answer 265

where do you live ill be your friend lets talk [e-mail] here is my email

Answer 266

get an Xbox and some good pornos

Answer 267

get a friend

Answer 268

buy a lot of carrots

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Get a SO

Answer 270

🌟

Answer 271

eat

Answer 272

I feel the same..

Answer 273

kk

Answer 274

give it time

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jack off and do dweugs

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You can pray to Allah

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Be my friend, mykik isaimd . ☺

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talk to people, smile, be nice be fun

Answer 279

just believe in christ and he will take care of you

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No idea

Answer 281

why would they hate you? there must be reason you can change that ,thats how i feel,

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We are your friends

Answer 283

Watch porn

Answer 284

your right hand can be your best friend.

Answer 285

I know how you are feeling..i also do not know what to do

Answer 286

you can spend time with your pets.

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right mate

Answer 288

circulate

Answer 289

stop hating yourself

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Get a pet ^_^

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you can email me & i can be ur friend

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TRY SUCKING MAN BALLS ALL ******* HAVE FRIENDS.

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same

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do u want a friend

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Waqar is that you?

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good

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lol

Answer 298

kik me ;)

Answer 299

OK

Answer 300

get a rescue animal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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