i have less friends than others because not many people are like me?

Question

i have about 5 friends, there all girls and im a guy. the girls are all sweet and nice and there great mates, but sometimes most are not in and are not in any of my classes, and im left alone, i get called a loner because when there not with me i have no1 and when none of them are in my classes im left alone in grouped work.

People are all idiotic and dumb at my school. i'm happy because next year i will have a new maths, french, dance, music, art, drama, etc. classes. though my form class will be the same, but i like them and they aint mean so its not a problem.

I'm just a whole different stereotype from them! i h8 most of them. These girls are the only proper bestie friends that i have, other than that i have no1.

so the question really is, how do i find people of my streotype or find people like me i can be friends with! these girls are the only people of my stereotype in the whole of my year group that i know of so far. hopefully my new classes next year are better and people i can be friends with. i am friends with every1 if u know what i mean, like only some people are rude to me... some are dickheads. but most are nice and etc. but there not friends that i can actually hang out with like the girls i hang out with.

i hate football, and all sports, i suck at them all. i love music and i play the electric guitar. what is every1 else in my year - detension bunking slang talking 'chavs' if thats the right term. who have cheap haircuts and wear baggy tracksuits and will end up working as those dumbass servers and the corner shoped kfc down the road.

london has been ruined by these people...i just hope when im older they wont be as they are now, i over heard some yr9s the other day going "silly chav boys, they will grow up and speak proper english and wear proper cloths and get proper hairstyles once there in yr9, like that guy" as some 'chavs' where running down the stairs, and while saying like that guy pointing at me.

Answer 1

Don't ever change for anyone, you sound like a very level headed, intelligent young lad. You are right in not wanting to hang around with the 'chavs', they are like a flock of sheep that follow each other around and don't have a brain cell between them.



You say that you like music and guitar so why not look for a club at your school that you could join and meet people that are more like yourself, or maybe start a band or something (just a suggestion).

Answer 2

exact same thing for me here in the US, i usually just try to avoid most guys because theyre too insecure to act like their true self unlike most girls, although i do have 2 male friends that are nice but theyre pretty much outcasts so idk, theyre cool and all but sometimes i dont understand their behavior. You can always become a fake gangsta like most people with the same problem have or just be youself and hope to find someone else like you, but hey, you'll never know if theres someone like you if you dont talk to people. Try to get to know others, even if theyre not what you're looking for youll at least have someone to talk to. good luck

Answer 3

hiya, wait and see what happens when you go back to school,you could make new friends then.for now stick with the girls,you might meet new people through them, if you meet up with them,in the holidays.x