BOOBS? (advice , thoughts ?)?

Question

Okay so I'm gonna be 14 soon , but I have really big boobs. So as I am , my really awkward self I wear baggy t-shirts to cover them up , but as they are so damn big they still show , and no , not slightly , like you can see them clearly. And I actually have to buy bigger t-shirts because my boobies lift them up and then my stomach is exposed. So anyway , I noticed guys staring at me which made me feel gross. (?) Like , most recently I was just walking along school and this guy's whole world just stopped and he was standing there staring at them. It made me think 'Are my boobs really that big that they literally make heads turn' , it makes me feel quite unhappy with my body. (I'm decent looking , not ugly but not beautiful , I have nice hair , I am a nice girl , I have a nice personality and I am nice in general , but people don't seem to notice any of that , just my curves)
Also , how do I make them smaller? I can't lose weight because I am really really skinny. (I don't diet I was just born this way)
And how do I make my thighs smaller? They are also big. I mean , I know it sounds like I have a perfect body for a stripper but I am faaaaaaaaaar from that , I'm literally trapped in the 60s with John Lennon and Jim Morrison.

ANYWHO , I'd also like to know;
Is having big boobs a good thing?
What do guys think when they stare at boobs?
And prepare yourselves another story; So there's this guy and he's afraid of me (not that he likes me , he thinks I'm a Satanic b!tch because I like rock music) and he'd always be hiding from me , but whenever I look around I see him staring. So one day , I was talking to his best friend (we are really good friends) about him , you know just laughing about him being scared (he couldn't run away , the teacher was there) , so I look at him and he looks at me , my eyes? Oh no no no , not my eyes , he's also staring at my boobs. I mean , c'mon. You're shitting yourself when you see me and you still stare at my boobs. This is getting so damn annoying.


SORRY FOR THIS BEING LONG. I AM THANKFUL FOR EVERY ANSWER , THANK YOU. (no rude comments please)

Answer 1

As much as I love boobs, I don't think its fair that a girl your age should have to deal with this, but that is just how life goes sometimes. Wearing the baggier tops will help, but your just going to have to get used to the guys staring at you and ignore them. And look at it like this, the guys that are staring are just after sex so their giving themselves away and not worth your time.

Answer 2

OMG-I have big boobs too!!!!!!!!!! And I have ever since year 6! If it helps I'm 15 and 32GG. Omg no one understands how embarrassing it is even going in public with them. People stare and think you're a **** so I just stay indoors and get even more sad and depressed. :(((((( I am exactly in your situation which I why I can't really give advice but to have a ranting buddy- [e-mail] is my email if you ever feel the urge to UGH at the unfairness of life. People are always like "I wish I had big boobs" but trust me-be careful what you wish for! And there is virtually no article on it which only knocks my confidence even lower :( so you are not alone :) I hope that after highschool things'll get better.

Answer 3

Maybe you can get a bra that makes them seem less obvious. Girls who compete in swimming events have special athletic bras to make them smaller so their boobies don't slow them down in the water. Unfortunately it's something you have to put up with until the rest of your body catches up when they'll most likely appear normal. When I went to school, at one stage I was a foot taller than the rest of the kids, like grade 3 and 5' 8''. It caused me heaps of problems with everyone staring at me for several years. I stopped growing at 6' 1". You have to learn to ignore it, that's the hard part. Maybe you should take some photos of yourself (with clothes on) to show people how you were when you were young, otherwise they won't believe you. It's a good talking point for when you are older.



Edit: Btw, it's perfectly normal for girls to feel self conscious when their boobies begin to grow. I'ts like one minute you are flat and a few months later almost full developed. Guys have similar problems with their boy bits but mostly it's all hidden until we go to the beach and omg, everyone's staring. That's how it seems to us.

Answer 4

Hey , be glad u have boobs I'm 13 and in flat chested and I feel wayyyyyy uncomfortable cause practically every othe 13 year old has boobs and I don't -_- and so just be glad u HAVE boobs

Answer 5

I would kill to have big boobs...but you need to be careful when meeting guys, make sure they like you for you and not your boobs !