I probably shouldn't hang with my friend anymore, huh?

2018-05-28 22:40:30 UTC

I've known this girl Jill since we were about 11-12 years old. I'm 27, she's almost 27. Her two boys are my Godsons and I've always called them my "nephews". For the longest time, I didn't see them all for quite a few years because she kept moving around and getting in relationships with guys who weren't good for her. 3 years ago, she moved close by to me so we have hung out a lot in the last 3 years. In hindsight, she hasn't been a very good friend. I enjoy hanging out with her, her boyfriend, our mutual best friend and their kids, but she treats me like crap.

A couple months ago, a misunderstanding happened between me and a mutual friend named Travis. Travis was under some impression I liked him back in the same way I liked him and he got upset when he found out I had a date one weekend. I implied he should be happy for me and Jill blew up on me, saying I was a "basic b*tch", "extremely selfish", "cold-hearted", "insensitive" and that I didn't feel like her friend anymore. A few weeks later, I gave in and apologized to her (although I had nothing to apologize to HER for) and she said she accepted my apology, but she never freaking apologized to me. We just never brought up the ordeal again (and yes, I did apologize to Travis for hurting his feelings and such). Lately, Jill, her boyfriend, and our mutual best friend have been ganging up on me and judging me. I can't even talk to these people anymore, but they're fun to hang out with.