girls please decipher! What is she trying to tell me?

Question

I'm really starting to like my one friend for more than a friend... I'm not sure if she likes me as more than a friend too, but we're going to prom together. The strange thing is that it appears as if she's avoiding hanging out with me. I offered to get together and do work for a club I'm involved in (and she used to be involved in, she graduated and is a freshman in college, I'm a senior in HS) but she kinda guided the discussion away from getting together and she just said to put the files on a web server and she'll pull them off to work on them. So what's up... she's going to prom with me (actually she offered to go with me) and is willing to do all kinds of work for me (she offered to do the work, I didn't ask her), but doesn't want to hang out?
Ok, heres another piece of information... I just finished some big assignments at school so I put my facebook status to " finally has some free time." and she clicked the "like" button. Wouldn't it make sense that she liked it to that we could spend time together?

Please help me decipher what she's trying to tell me!

Answer 1

Well it could easily be that she's confused about what she wants. She's definitely sending you messages that she might want to take the relationship to the next level but she sounds unsure. Maybe she has issues about the fact that she's older than you? If not, then it could be that she has a lot going on in her life that you might not know about, and these things could be causing her some stress. My best advice would be to sit down with her and have a chat. Ask her if everything's okay. And if she says yes, then keep hassling her until she tells you.



That way, you'll know what's bothering her, and also she'll know that you care and want to be part of things. Then comfort her. But don't accuse her of sending you mixed signals or anything brash like that just in case it has a really bad impression on her. Just make her feel like you're there for her to talk to, and then she might realise that she also wants to take things to the next level.



Good Luck

Answer 2

It sounds as though she's kinda embarrased and doesnt want to be seen with you



It's like me and my little brother.

I dont really wanna hang out with him around my friends

but when were out somewhere like florida ( i live in georgia))

I'm perfectly fine with me and him just chilling out and everything

its actually fun to be with my brother. We both have a sense of humor

and were crazy in public...So, its pretty great but I understand what she's trying to do. She wants to be friends..Its just that college gets busy. you know? its homework, a job, helping others, parties. EVERYTHING!



Maybe you should talk to her about it and find out whats going on.

Thats the only way you can be positive about the situation.

☺good luck

Answer 3

i think that it is time 2 talk, speak 2 her about how u feel and c how it works out, maybe she like u 2 so go 4 it!

good luck

Answer 4

my guess is that she does like you as more than a friend but she is a afraid of what her friends will say when they find out that she is going out with someone 3 years younger than her.

hope this helps

nikki x

Answer 5

I think that she likes you but has a lot on her hands right now. She is starting her first year of collage and it might be stress full.

Answer 6

im guessing that she doesnt want to make it seem like she likes you. she doesnt want to seem too desperate. and she probably IS embaressed that shes older. but she likes you. shes only a bit afraid of what people will think if they found out that she likes a "little kid" ( your not little im just saying) but go for it

Answer 7

shes telling you she dosnt want to do work with you she wants to do something fun like go out to dinner

Answer 8

she likes u but subconciously feels akward and maybe ashamed that she is older then you