A girl on my bus is harrassing me I need help!?

Question

Okay i need this answered immediately
Im am an 8th grader male she is a 7th grader girl. what happened is i was on the bus sitting with my buddy and she hits me in the face! About 5 minutes later someone screams shut up! to her and she thinks it is me, so she goes up to me and grabs my shirt and jacket and screams at me to not tell her to shut up. Now at this point i am thinking at this point what the hell just happened? She tears my shirt and the girl that screamed shut up to her says that she said it, the 7th grader doesn't think anything of it and rips my shirt some more and screams again never to tell her to shut up again and lets go of me and moves back to the front of the bus. At this point i am extremely pissed off at her. So today is Friday and on Monday i am planing on doing something next time she touches me (i am a MMA fighter and i also know karate so i know how to defend myself) but still she is a girl. She hit me 3-4 times, riped my shirt, and screamed in my face i know she is a girl but everyone knows how she is and that is a ***** (pardon my language) please help me! Me and my buddy think that it would be a good idea if i do something about it. She is the kind of person that cannot be negotiated with. I know it is not right to hit a girl but if she hit me again what should i do?

Answer 1

Make a big scene. If she's jerking you around, stand up and get in her face. I know that might seem weird but you need to intimidate her, haha. If she tries hitting you or grabbing you, push her away. Not where she'll like fall and get hurt but good enough so she can tell you're stronger than she is. I also agree with a few of the comments down below, grab her arm forcefully. Don't break her arm ahaha, but make sure you have a good grip. Don't get extremely vulgar about it, but make it clear to her with words that she needs to back off. Ask your friend to back you up. I feel so bad for you though! That seriously is NOT cool and you're right, she needs to get taught a lesson. So show her who is boss ;) haha Hope this helped!

Answer 2

If you know Karate and are an MMA fighter, use your blocks. Knock her hands away. Remain calm. Tell her in a calm voice, "Don't touch me."

Defend yourself; do not become aggressive. The more she screams, the calmer you stay.

Make no aggressive actions. Don't reach for her. Let her come to you. If she doesn't come to you, then you don't have a problem.

If she does, report it.



Look, you're a guy, she's a girl. You're an 8th grader, she's a 7th grader. You're probably as tall or taller than she is. In every way, you're the bigger threat, and so you will get in trouble if this becomes a fight.



Defend yourself. Keep your calm. Let the authorities handle things. Block her attacks.

If you're still in training, talk with your trainer or martial arts teacher. Ask them about some close quarters, non-offensive blocks you can learn to help you. Explain the situation and tell them you have no desire to fight, but an equal desire not to allow someone to hit you.



Good luck, man.

Answer 3

Tell the bus driver, she can get pulled off the bus. try to sit in the seat closest to the bus driver so if she does anything the bus driver will see it, make it known to the bus driver. If you want tell you teacher and her teacher too. Sounds to me like shes gots some anger issues. I would be ticked off too if that happened to me, and I would be weired out. Lol.



Did you do anything at all that could have offended her? Did you say something to your friend that she over heard and took it the wrong way? You had to have done something for this to happen, but if you didn't then she really has problems and needs a doctor.



Don't hit her....yet. Just tell her nicely that you would appreciate it if she would quit doing what ever shes doing, if she doesn't...then i guess you can hit her back, but you will probably get in some trouble....





Not to be mean or anything, but i think its kind-a funny that a 8th grader, thats a guy is getting beat up by a 7th grade girl...don't mean to be mean but if just gave me a little giggle but i feel totally sorry for you

Answer 4

Yeah. If she accredited your buddy request, then there's a risk. Don't rush into it regardless that. She would possibly simply wish to be peers to start with. Make definite it takes time earlier than you receive too due to the fact that if she out of the blue asks you to be her boyfriend, then it used to be without doubt a suite-up. I were in 2 extraordinary set-up relationships. They do not finish good. She could such as you, however keep peers for now.

Answer 5

I would tell an adult what is going on. Either your mother,your teacher, or your bus driver. You need to tell someone who is an adult what is going on. Do not hit her. If anything try your best to ignore her. Just walk away from what is going on. It is not right, and you need to take this to a higher authority. So please tell someone like a parent or guardian what is going on. I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 6

Dude ur a 8th grader!top dog!I remember my 8th grade year*sigghh*

Anyywwaaaays....

Well don't hit her!just don't ok!that's like only if there is blood u can slap her!this is what u do

1)Hit up one of ur girl friends

2)Tell her the situation

3)Make her start a rumor about this byotch

4)Make ppl feel bad for u

5)Glare at the girl a lot

And kaboom the stupid silly 7th gradeer should leanr her leSon my friend(:

Answer 7

You could put her on blast the next time she touch you, like you don't have nothing to do but try to seem tough your a punk, hitting on guys because you know i wont hit you back, now go sit ya crazzy butt down some were.(if she try to swing just block it Mr.MMA.)

Answer 8

If she tries to hit you grab her arm. Like you said, since she's a girl you can't hit her. But you can definitely protect yourself by pushing her away or grabbing her arm before she hits you.

Answer 9

Seems like she's just trying to create a scene, making her seem like she's tough. You're right, it's not right to hit a girl. BUT I think it's right for you to defend yourself in this case. You have plenty of witnesses and she needs to be put in her place.

Answer 10

This sounds bad (coming from someone older than you) but seriously, SCARE her or something if she even touches you again. Tell her straight up, "B*tch, don't touch me." Jk, but seriously don't fight her, that's exactly what she wants.

Answer 11

GO TELL SOMEONE :( I'm sorry that scks

Answer 12

i would've beat her a** by now!