Question:
Why does my bestfriend try to be me?
Leilani
2013-07-24 18:42:10 UTC
So ever since me and my best friend started middle school all shes ever tried to be is better than me. Everything I do she has to do. So school started and i got a lot of attention from boys cuz supposedly im a flirt but im not! i dont wear make up, or dress that nice or even do my hair! I know that has nothig to do with flirting but if i really wanted to flirt i would try to look good before i do. Well i KIND of flirt but not much only if the guy iscute but anyways shes been wearing all this make up and curling her hair and she got some attention. And I have been wanting to wear hi-low skirts to school so i told her that and then i said too bad i dont have money and then she said ugh my mom is forcing me to wear a hi-low skirt to school tomorrow and then she does the next day! then the next week all she wore were a bunch of hi-low skirts and that kinda made me jealous and if i wore hi-low skirts to school everyday people would think icopied her! and shes starting to shop at the same stores as me! and people have been saying to her you sound like "my name" now! how wierd and there like you laugh just like leilani! its getting annoying and i cant do this anymore. shes been trying to be me. honestly i dont know why cuz i am not popular, pretty, or even smart! I believe im smart but my commonsense isnt too high. and shes been acting dumb to be like me! but im not dumb i dont like her fake dumbness cuz she acts like she doesnt know anything. why does she keep copying me
Three answers:
Ron
2013-07-24 18:47:02 UTC
Perhaps she admires you in some way,or jealous of you so she tries to out do you. Talk to her about this in a calm manner and try to help her and get to the bottom of why she does this. Jesus loves ya'll may He Bless,speak to,save ya'll and all lost,meet the needs,give good Christians,in Jesus Mighty Name amen. Shalom Also avoid premartial sex,abortion,drunkeness,all can be forgiven,we just ask Jesus and He is Faithful and Just to forgive our sins an save us.



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2013-07-25 02:15:05 UTC
So your friend is copying you... i know that can get annoying but it just means that she looks up to you and that you are funny/pretty/cool/trendy/etc to her...



Take it as a compliment



but maybe if it bothers you a lot, just try to talk to her about it and work it out
2013-07-25 01:45:05 UTC
You're her role model. Isn't that a good thing? If you don't like it, tell her you know she's copying you and that she needs to stop and be herself.


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