How can you tell your friend she's acting like a w.h.o.r.e? (in nicer terms of course)?

Question

My friend comes on way to strong with guys, and within minutes of meeting them she's all over them. She always complains to me about how she always goes out with jerks and how come she can't find a good guy. i don't want to hurt her feelings but she acts like a total s.l.u.t. How can i tell her nicely?

Answer 1

She has self-esteem issues. It seems like sex makes her feel wanted and needed and she wants the sex just as much to be giving it up that fast. It's naive of her to think she can find a good man if that's all she's all over him.

Tell her to just focus on school and make something out of herself or she'll always be an easy vulnerable girl that men prey on.

Some girls are kinda sad like that. They want a boyfriend/relationship so bad that they convince themselves that if they sleep with him the guy will love her. It isn't like that at all.

Sadly, you cannot do anything for her except to teach her self-respect and to have some pride in herself. So just sit down and talk to her, and tell her that you love her and want the best for her.

Answer 2

Well if thats the type of person she is then either accept it or u can talk to her about it.

And I'm sure that u want to talk to her about it so heres what i think u should do.

Go up to her and just tell her "hey ...., i have been meaning to talk to u about something. Lately u've been acting for lack of a better word like a slut and then u come to me with ur stories of how it doesn't work out and It really makes it hard on me to keep consoling u on this when it can be helped from happening in the first place."

I think that should do it.

good luck =-D

Answer 3

Tell her that she is coming on too strong and that she doesn’t have to act that way to get a mans attention. Most women who act that way are extremely insecure and believe the only way to get a mans attention is to act promiscuous. Try telling her positive things about herself and help her gain some confidence. Let her know that by acting that way she is just getting the wrong type of attention from men and also attracting the wrong men. She’ll never get any respect from men by acting like that and needs to just be herself. Good luck.

Answer 4

Well, as u know, don't randomly go up to her and say "ur such a s.lut thats why only jerks like u!" Wait until the next time she brings and up and tell her that u care about her and don't want her to get her by guys she barely knows. Tell her that she should try to get to know a guy and start a relationship before she get "all over him." Make sure ur friend knows that u care and are trying to help. Good luck!

Answer 5

Tell her that she doesnt need any guy to make her happy. She should wait for the right guy to come around that treats her like a queen like every woman is. These days girls dont understand that they dont need to have a boy to make them happy. Due to the fact that they dont know this, they feel that they have to be all up on a dude to get some attention which is not neccessary. Boys will come and go. There are boys that are like dogs and boys like butterflies. The dogs will come and let u pet them all you want and then they will get tired of u and leave. Butterflies on the other come when its the right time and treat you nice. Just talk to your friend and tell her she is beautiful and doesnt need a guy to make her happy and that real guy will come around soon. *I hope I helped*



:-D,

*MeBo*

Answer 6

I had a friend that lost her virginity at 12. I was so mad at her but didn't say anything. But, when she got pregnant at 13 (and eventually miscarried) I couldn't take it. She was acting like a h.o.r.e, but made it worse was what the boys where saying about her. They were saying she was a b****, you can sleep with her anywhere, and she is ugly but easy to f***. You know what I did? I recorded what the boys were saying on my cell phone and let her listen to it. She cried her eyes out and was depressed for an entire month but she stopped acting like that.



There is a big chance that boys are talking about your friend. Get some way to get her to listen to them. Most likely she will stop and you won't have to tell her anything. You will let the boys talk. (Or other girls, but boys are better)

Answer 7

Well babe. There really is no way for you to tell her nicely on these kind of problems. I too have (or had) a rather s.lutty friend. I just told her straight up. She didn't really like it, and we were off contact for awhile, but then she came back and told me that she agreed. I think that you should just tell her. If she doesn't agree, then you dust off your shoulder and get on with life. No one really needs a s.lut anyway....at least not in my opinon. Remeber, people judge you by the company you keep.

Answer 8

just tell her yo listen you need to slow down ur acting like a hore tell her don't take it to the hart and that ur fust telling her as a friend so not to take it the wrong way

Answer 9

umm friend i dont think she should be acting the way you act with guys because that gives the wrong impression or i think your making yourself to available and ur giving the wrong impression

Answer 10

Well, if she was my friend, i would just say she was acting like a whore. But I guess that's how my friends are. Just say to her what you said right there.

Answer 11

my friend is like that and what we did was actually went up to her and said she shouldn't be letting guys feel her azz and stuff

and she listened

just tell her honestly what you think

and say it nicely since you care for her



best of luck

~E)izabeth

Answer 12

Tell her how you feel....I mean tell her the truth. She'll appreciate your honesty.

Answer 13

tell her it isnt good to be out there too much

Answer 14

tell her to look for guys at the library... :P

Answer 15

if she is your friend you should not have a probable with this