Question:
I'm in a class with people who hate me please help?
anonymous
2009-02-09 15:40:34 UTC
Okay so I have math homework so I don't have much time, but I will explain best I can and add more info later...

and do not write switch schools/classes

okay so I am on a wheel in school, and I have a technology class. I can't go to any other class on the wheel don't make me explain, but I can't, don't ask why, but it's not my fault.

the people in this class hate me. I had them in the class i had b4 this one on the wheel. DO NOT ask y I picked wheel because the school made me take it. dont ask why...

in technology we work in pairs on the computer, but we barely have any work, but ANYWAY... yes we work in pairs.

the girl i was supposed 2 work with threw a fit (and almost never shows up) when the teacher said she had 2 work with me, so he switched our partners. now i'm with a girl who doesn't want me 2 talk 2 her at all, she thinks im annoying but i almost never talk, it's that people start up with me.

today i wore a dress from PINK (it's a store for those who don't know, very popular brand in my school)... if u want to see the dress it's called the sporty t-shirt dress, it looks like a long t-shirt. very causal and cute.

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodpri2/V281556.jpg

that's the link, except it's gray... like i said very popular brand in my school. and i wore it with knee length pink and red striped socks, and black converse.

(i have worn the dress b4 to school a few weeks ago with no comment from these kids about the dress, i wore it with white leggings)

and the kids in this class, mostly the girls (there are moslty boys in the class anyway but they hate me too), are like, why are you wearing a dress, and your socks are ugly, etc.

one of the girls had a pacifier around her neck (the thingy that babies suck on), and i'm like, so? you have a pacifier around your neck. and she's like, well it's cool, and everyone takes her side...

anyway, i dont think its that they dont like my clothes, they dont like me. the girl IN the clothes they dont like. i wear the same brands as them (and the rest of the school) (hollister, pink, etc)

i tried telling the teacher, but he took their side. i cant switch classes. i would try 2 ignore them, but let me tell u this...

there is 1 computer for every 2 people. i dont mind sharing, but since my partner and i did all of our work, she likes to check her email etc. which leaves me sitting there, doing nothing, and the other kids try to start up with me...

they have hated me since the beginning of the school year, in the other class we were in.

they dont have 2 like me but i dont want them to hate me or at least they could try to be nice?

i don't have this problem in any other class...

what should i do?
Seventeen answers:
Daisyhill
2009-02-09 15:52:06 UTC
Just laugh at them. When they start on you laugh and say "Oh my God...are you still so immature that you need to bully other people in order to feel more confident about your own sad life?" or "Oh GOD you are so predictable...and BORING....why don;t you just worry about why your grades are so bad/nose is so big/reputation so bad/boyfriend so ugly" you get the picture. And if that wont work then make an official complaint...you cannot put up with that. They sound jealous!
Susan S
2009-02-09 15:54:05 UTC
I have no idea. Do you smell clean? Is your hair neatly cut not edge but just neat? Is your hair real clean? Maybe you should try to be a little more conservative. What the heck is wheel? I've barely heard of it. Make sure you eat breakfast or at least school lunch the best you can. Or at least bring a peanut butter sandwich. then your personality should be even. I don't know what to tell you. Make sure you do not cheat in class cause it makes folks mad. Have a good day.
anonymous
2009-02-09 16:34:39 UTC
If people are so mean, try being nice back. Ignore what they say, and say something nice to them, instead of something mean. It will make them feel really weird, and they'll probly quiet down.

But why don't they like you? Did you say something rude to them? Are you really annoying or something? Or maybe they're jealous and insecure, and when they say bad things to other people it makes them feel better inside.



Sorry that's all I could help you with :]
?
2016-05-23 16:37:12 UTC
I am not sure what rank 1 is since I come from the united kingdom but I suppose it is very good and the others in your class are jealous of you getting so much attention but if you get good grades, then you deserve the praise, right? It looks like some yahoo answerers are also jealous of you since they are criticizing you. So what if you spell things wrong on here, its not a English exam! I would say to lay low for awhile and make sure not to boast if you are doing. Just keep on being good and getting good ranks and stick with your close friends!
AbbyThatsMe
2009-02-09 16:12:02 UTC
Just say,

"I wouldn't be talking. Your so babyish you still have a pacifier."

NO! Never mind, two wrongs don't make a right. Unless your multiplying.

Okay, this is what you do, the next time the mess with you just laugh. In there faces. Why do you give a **** about them?
anonymous
2009-02-09 15:55:20 UTC
not to be mean, but i can HONESTLY see why they picked on you..

like, white leggings with the dress would be fine.

but the socks you described dont go with the dress at all.

i really believe its not the brand, but they probably think your weird because of the socks & converse..

because typically, in MY school, people who wear that kinda thing are considered emo,, & thats the ONLY type of ppl they pick on.



try wearing jeans and a tee with a layer undershirt and flipflops with your hair straightened with a poof and ribbion and necklace & makeup.



dont worry, you'd get there if you followed the trend.

but im not saying you HAVE to.

but to fit in.,..



appearance is a big part of how people will look at you.

whether you like it or not people judge you on looks.

EVERY SINGLE PERSON IN THE WORLD.

and no matter how much anyone wants to deny it, its true.
Silver R
2009-02-13 05:07:44 UTC
you know what you got to do?



get a crew or gang or join one for now and beat the **** out of them!



you should also try the guidance council you never know what might happen.



why the **** was a girl wearing a pacifier?



that girl would of been put with the lowest people in my school



so many retarded people today.



remember join a group of people to take down or something.
anonymous
2009-02-09 15:51:11 UTC
This is called bullying, and it is unacceptable.

Perhaps you could sit down with your parents and tell them the situation, and have them talk with your teacher or principal. Maybe they can then arrange for you to switch classes. You should not have to put up with bullies, and it is terrible your teacher took "their side" (did he listen to you?). Try to talk it over with your parents (or perhaps a sympathetic teacher?), and see if something can be arranged.
Sunshine! <3
2009-02-09 16:11:12 UTC
you know, don't bother with those people. their just idiots! don't bother them (except when you have to work with them) and trust me, they won't bother you. if your partner begins to really pick on you just ask her what her prob is.



hope you don't have any more probs!
hither
2009-02-12 15:04:13 UTC
okay,

for starters.

rather than getting up in all these girls faces,

you should just forget about them.

if they take their time to talk about you than they are the real losers .

you shouldnt have to change what you like to wear for other people.

i personally wouldnt wear that.

but its YOUR STYLE.

& that is why you can wear it.

they are just immature

and most likely the problems their really having are with themselves.



keep your head up.

& remember one day they are going to need something, & you are not gonna give it to them.

thats the best revenge.

it would make you just as immature as them if you were to get in their faces.
anonymous
2009-02-12 20:02:28 UTC
okayy this will seem mean but try to be friends with people that could beat the shhyt 0ut of th0se bitsha$$es, then tell ur "crew" to sock them mafukin beezys.

forreal, people like that just make me mad yann0e.

good luck, & if i was ther witchu i wuda made them *** off.
Harley
2009-02-09 15:56:16 UTC
Dont stress on it. If the girls wanna tell you sh*t about your clothes just respond "dont worry bout what im wearing". You dont have to prove nothing to nobody so act like it. Act like you dont give a f*ck and theyll get over it once they see you dont care
anonymous
2009-02-09 15:49:04 UTC
It's time to get your funk on!
anonymous
2009-02-09 15:48:24 UTC
wow!!! just ignore those bitches i mean c'mon the nice people don't hav to talk to the mean and stupid people XP



answer mine?



https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20090209151649AAQaG1g
anonymous
2009-02-09 15:50:52 UTC
people suck get over it, you obviously dont like them why should you care what they think of you.
imSIERRA.(:
2009-02-09 16:25:21 UTC
WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK?

WHO CARES WHAT YOU WEAR?

seriously chick.

GROW UP.



when you get older; this shi.t prolly wont offend you.



get over it.
Natalie K
2009-02-09 16:12:29 UTC
people are mean


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