my life is boring, and lonely?

Question

I'm turning 17 this year and all my life has been really boring. I've no real friends except one or two but we've lost contact over years and that they had moved town. I got into the worst school in the city and the people are like "if you do drugs, you're cool" type. I'm an outcast in the class, people wouldn't wanna team with me during sports and i don't know why. They are like having their own groups of friends and i just can't fit in. So in school, i don't really talk much unless i have to. I pretty much do my own things and sit alone in the cafeteria.

Outside school i have a friend but he never ask to hangout unless i ask him first. He's my only friend and i feel weird going to the movies alone so i keep him anyway. He's a terrible friend so the only thing we did when we're hangin' out is watch movies and breakfast or lunch together and we bid goodbye.

So my daily life-> i woke up it was 6, go to school till 2, reached home 3 -> T.V/Computer/Video Games till dinner-> back to T.V/Computer/Video Games till late night and sometimes i will read a few pages on a book and go to bed.

I thought i could be like in the movies where i go to the park in my neighborhood and meet some really cool people and we'll do the most amazing things ever on earth. But no one really goes to the park in my place because my country is so hot, so i'm stuck at home most of the time.

How can i change my life?
I wanna meet people who can change my life eventually.

Answer 1

one true friend is better than hundreds selfish.

Answer 2

Hey, I don't have many "real" friends either. A few people here and there that I could talk to about stuff if I really need to. But, other then that, I'm mostly a loner in this life. I actually like it that way. There's less drama and problems that I have to deal with.



School doesn't last forever. I mean, I had a few friends in high school. I thought I had alot of friends. Then one day, you wake up and realize like nah things aren't what they seem.



I have a friend like that who doesn't really contact me ever. I always have to contact this person first. They say that they never ever try or bother to contact any one and that is just the person that they are. I'm starting to become this way too, slowly.



I like reading too. : ) You can't meet other people who will change your life. If you want to change your life, you should do so. You can change your life, then you meet people who will change your life even more so.



My life is boring too. Life is what you make it. You could always try to make friends at school. If that doesn't work, maybe chill with family. Or you could join a social networking site - I mean, yahoo answers is pretty cool but its more like a forum.



Facebook is pretty good, I have a facebook account but I rarely go on there. You could join myspace or you could get a pen pal or have an email buddy.



You could call some of your long lost relatives or old friends from when you were a little kid. You could venture out into the neighborhood and see if you can find friends.



If all else fails, music is life! : ) <3

Answer 3

Well school sucks, probably the worst people you would meet in your life. And whether you realize it or not, your more than likely going to get married one day and have kids and life a happy life, it may not seem like it right now, but that's how things turn out. Also find what you like to do and learn what type of job you want and you will meet people there who have the same interests as you.

Answer 4

That's funny, you kinda are at a school like my brother. They like to pressure people into drugs and such but don't fall for that trap. You sound so intelligent and really cool to me. Just yes hang around a lot of diff areas. Who knows- you might meet a lot of diff people. And p.s. Your story (even though it wasn't supposed to be funny,) made me laugh.. :) i'm sure you could brighten anyone's day :]]

Answer 5

Njoy life u r blessed sumtimes I feel da same but I dnt worry just pray 4 gud friends

Answer 6

kingdom hall of Jehovah's Witnesses....it helped me