Question:
Friend has suddenly stopped speaking to me?
Yaya
2009-11-03 00:03:42 UTC
I met my good friend (changed her name for obvious reasons) Lynn at the college I go to two years ago. We instantly hit it off and have been close ever sine. We worked on the newspaper together (we were co-editors), have hung out quite a bit, and have all around been good friends. I was in Alaska this past summer and she wrote me almost every week! She was one of my only friends to do so.
Well, suddenly last week she stopped speaking to me. It was literally a night and day change. One day she was nice to me, talking to me, joking around like she always does. Two days later she wouldn't even look me in the eye or speak to me. She seems like she is very bitter or upset with me.
However, when I confronted her she said she didn't want to talk about it. I explained the situation and said I at least would like to know what I've done to wrong her and she still won't tell me. She has simply said "I don't want to talk about it" whenever I bring it up. I've asked her close friends (who are also my friends) and they seem just as cllueless.
This has really hurt me and been on my mind and heart a lot lately. I don't want to lose a good friend. Any suggestions?

(I've attempted to talk to her in person and on facebook).
Four answers:
toots
2009-11-03 00:12:05 UTC
i had a good friend once she was like a sister too me i stopped seeing her all of a sudden i wondered why then i found out she was hanging around my ex the love of my life thats why she dissapeared and i never herd from her i spat it and have never and never will speak to her again?
Kimberley
2009-11-03 00:29:37 UTC
Well, I guess you must give her some time. Maybe she'll open up later. It's strange that suddenly she doesn't talk to you without any reason. It may be because she heard sth about you. then you should find out what and give her some time
sykes
2016-10-01 01:09:02 UTC
Is it in simple terms with you, or combating socialising in maximum circumstances? If that is in simple terms you, then possibly he's realised which you lied to him and he's not too chuffed approximately it, wherein case he's have been given the main appropriate to be p*ssed and doubtless in simple terms desires area. If that is in maximum circumstances, it must be something, and you in simple terms ought to do your terrific to get by to him and be there to him. it must be melancholy, drug-habit or his situation has replaced at abode. once you're traumatic, communicate with him. sturdy success x
Mary H
2009-11-03 01:07:28 UTC
Oh dear, how sad, can you think of anything you may have said about her to anyone else? Are there any boyfriend issues? any liars in your set of friends? they can cause more mischief than anyone! There i s an old saying, "You can hide things from a thief, but not from a liar"


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