PLEASE my question is A BIT long but can someone please help? 10 points for sure;)?

Question

There is this guy I got to know online( he is 22 and I am 19).

The problem is, well he is kinda different from other guys( or I might be wrong:D). Well usually in dating sites and stuff, guys ask for you picture after a week or so, right? But I know him less then a month(maybe 22 days), but he hasn't ask for my picture, planing to see me out, or my number yet. I know your going to say he is a 50 year old guy or a creeper your chatting, but I know myself he isn't. Well I know he is going to college or he couldn't name that stuff I asked, and I have some other more reasons .)

Another problem I have is that he chats with me for a week so nice and leaves me lots of messages when I am not available, but then he gets unavailable and doesn't leave even one messages(even if I IM him or stuff he wouldn't answer) for 2 or 3 days and comes back saying like so "sorry I was busy so much these days and he would be nice and act interested again"( as the day I got to know him, he is nice with me for couple of days and then ignores me, I mean is not available for 2 day or so, then gets back.)

Well I am kinda worried, the truth is I like him( the story is long but I shorten it, and only named his negative points, sure he has lots of positive points:D), he told me once what I think of him but I didn't say anything, but he said he thinks I am really cool, and likes me( he is extremely polite). Well I am shy myself, If I know he is interested in someone else I would like to leave him alone and don't bother him and myself( stop liking him), but I don't know exactly what he is thinking about this( could you please tell me how to find if he is interested in me or someone else, I am shy so I can't ask directly:D).

So please what do you think I can do to find out, and what do you thin,k could he like me and have interest in me??? Please the truth you think 10 points:)

Answer 1

I think you should go outside and get off the computer more often. If he does not live near by and does not answer you when you IM him that means he has an outside life. You are way too young to live on the computer. Go out and meet some people in person. I'm sure you a very nice, pretty young girl that can do better. You cannot substitute a real friendship for a computer romance. Not all the guys in your area are complete jerks I'm sure. Go out with your friends and meet a few.

Answer 2

It's really hard to tell what's going on with him. He could be married or have a girlfriend, and he doesn't want you calling his phone. He could be very physically unattractive and might be scared of what you might think of him if he sends you a pic or calls you on the phone.



You need to ask him question. Why don't you want to call me? Can I have a picture of you?

You will never know unless you ask.

Answer 3

Hes not asking for nothing from u cause he sounds like hes a player. Y doesnt he contact u on daily bases? He cant be that busy everbodys busy & finds time to contact people( espeacially if you like some. Why dont u ask him for his info? If not it sounds like hes playing around w other people( girls ) I wouldnt bother w him theirs alot of feeaks in this world esp.on line cause anyone can send a photo of someone else& say it them.. & if hes rwally interested he woild find time to at least get online & say hi ect. Carry on & find someone in peron...good luck

Answer 4

initially, relationship web pages are not risk-free, and im beneficial you comprehend that, yet in basic terms be carefull ok? And Secondly in basic terms ask him, say this howdy i admire you and that i've got the prefer to make beneficial your attracted to me too and that im no longer in basic terms dropping my time. My wager is that he does such as you a minimum of slightly if he's been speaking to you for virtually a month. in basic terms be beforehand with him.

Answer 5

One thing u can do is whenever he isnt there for a few days, wen he comes back on and says he's sorry and wat not, ask him if he wants ur number so u can txt or call wen he is too busy to IM

Answer 6

well if you really want to know that he likes you why dont you go meet up with him and try to get to know each other and see if you guys are ment for each other