Question:
Glaring at me..... ..............?
Kaylieeee.
2008-09-03 15:52:56 UTC
Ok so I used to be bff's with these 2 girls. Then they ditched me and now there bff's but im not with them. I have other friends though. But they always glare at me and it gets annoying. How do i get them to stop and just leave me alone? PLease answer i need to know tomarrow for my second day of school!
Fifteen answers:
Siân
2008-09-03 16:01:24 UTC
Just laugh in their faces.
BigUp D
2008-09-03 23:09:05 UTC
Well you need to decide if you still want to be friends with these two girls. Why would they just start glaring at you all of a sudden? You either did something that made them angry OR someone told them that you did something, and it upset them. It was probably something that you didn't realize you did, or someone could have lied on you.



Back to my original question. If you still want to be friends then you have to approach them and see what caused the split. Try talking to one of them by themselves and see if you can get her to open up (keep in mind that one of them may be the culprit in lying to the other). Could one of them be jealous?



If you are done with them then the only thing that you can do is ignore them. You can't make them stop doing anything. Until then just try and make new friends.
moonlitluver
2008-09-03 22:58:03 UTC
Making new friends is the best advice I can give you. Don't let them get under your skin. I totally know the feeling of evil friends. lol I could go into a huge story, but I won't for your sake. Friends that are like that are definitely a big pain in the butt. Find some people that you think you'd get along with and ask them if you can sit with them at lunch. When you hang out with them and your other anti-friends see you with them, they'll be jealous. Or another thing you can do, is just call them. A long email explaining how you feel works, also. Good luck! I'm rooting for you!!
2008-09-03 22:59:11 UTC
They're already leaving you alone by only glaring at you. at least they're not like doing anything really to you. and never confront them, girl confrontations get messy if they "hate" you. only unless you're sure they don't hate your guts, try getting close and be good to them, then they'll stop glaring at you probably. you don't have to get all close again, just talk to them and make them think better of you. then you can carry on with your other friends and leave them be as classmates.



if they do hate your guts and still glare at you, ig nore them simply. if it gets more seriously then slap them in the face or something lol. no just smile back at them. smile like you don't care that they're glaring.



good luck!
~Fearless~
2008-09-03 23:03:33 UTC
I'm with Bella. There really isn't much that you can do about it besides ignore them, but don't talk to them because the thought that you hate it will make them want to glare at you more just to annoy you. Just hang out with your friends and be happy and everything will be okay.
Jackie=]]
2008-09-03 23:00:10 UTC
What I would do is when they start glaring just ignore them. They should stop out of boredom. But if they don't stop then confront them about it. Ask them why they're glaring and if they deny it just ignore that and keep talking to them about it. Ask them again and again until they finally tell you. OR just go up to them and say " I dont know why you keep glaring at me, but just stop.. your so annoying." After that just ignore thm completly. Actas tho you could giving a flying crap about them.
theoneandonly
2008-09-03 23:14:08 UTC
well oviously your bff's are backstabbers. I dont know, i think they might be glaring at you because they think its funny, and want to make you cry. There are 3 options I would do.

1. Glare at them back, and make evil stares at them

2.Ignore them for a while, and make it seem that you dont notise or care at all and maybe they'll stop?

3.If they're not stopping, Talk to them,
Lifeisgood
2008-09-03 22:59:27 UTC
haha lexie!! i have the exact same problem except for the bff part becuz its always the new workers hat gets jealous of me or w\e. dont u just hate when ppl glare @ u? sighs the best thing to do like me would be to just avoid theire stinkin glares. even tho u really wanna go up to them and be like wth r u looking at?? just act like its nothing. just think their glares are saying hat they have never seen such a beautiful girl like u . tha is y they keep staring at u. becuz ur beautiful.
PinkLemonadeX
2008-09-03 23:00:20 UTC
Even if it bothers you a great deal, make sure you dont let them know that they're getting to you.



You can talk to them about it if you want



Other than that just keep remembering how immature they're being and that you can be the better person.



Go have fun with your other friends, and the second day of school is a great day to make brand new friends! Youll have more fun with friends who REALLY are your friends and not just great pretenders!
2008-09-03 22:58:01 UTC
Well if i were you i would just ignore it. They apparently want to get to you like they are doing. It gives them satisfaction. If that doesn't work confront them and tell them to stop glaring and if that doesn't work...just glare back.
2008-09-03 23:01:55 UTC
They're probably just jealous of you, but a way to stop that is to let them know how you feel. Either they will accept it and respect you or act stupid, but just let them know whats up and don't let their ignorance get to you.
Cara
2008-09-03 22:57:37 UTC
I think the best thing to do is just ignore it, show them that you don't care and they will eventually realize that there not getting to you.If they don't stop after that then that just proves that they are childish.I know its hard but try not to let it bother you to much.
2008-09-03 22:59:09 UTC
A mirror.

Blind them with a pencil.

Through water at them and shout "Have some of that you boiler installing ferret cleaners!"



I also think Belinda's suggestions would be great.
2008-09-03 22:58:42 UTC
hmm... maybe they're just mad at you because of something. try talking to them or asking your other friends if they know anything about it(or if they noticed...sometimes if something happened between 2 people, it seemes they are staring at you, but they probably are not)



hope this helped.



ps...please answer my question : https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20080903133728AA45R8p&r=w



thanx.
Prague
2008-09-03 22:56:57 UTC
You can either ignore them or talk to them about it. There's really not much else you can do.


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