Question:
I’m getting bullied on social media?
Reema
2020-09-14 08:45:47 UTC
Me and my cousin fell out and since then girls have been in the meddling and stirring the pot. The thing is me and my cousin  shared a friend and when they fell out my cousin tried to control me and told me to get rid of her. But I didn’t listen because she is a nice girl. Now our mutual friends try to get my cousin  annoyed by telling her every-time they see us go out on social media. It got to the point that me and my cousin have not spoken for a year because they keep winding her up and making drama. I have now distanced myself from all the people I see making the situations worse and the more I do that the more they make the situation worse. They are using social media to show me I’m excluded. It seems like everyone I know is making things worse. All our mutual friends can see I have distanced myself from them but they keep putting lots of picture on social media of them as a group doing this and that. They even target the ones I’m close one to recruit them in attacking me. What can I dol
Three answers:
2020-09-15 17:30:28 UTC
Shut down the social media accounts, and get out into the real life.
chris n
2020-09-14 09:27:42 UTC
Turn off your social media for a couple of months.  While you are on there paying attention to all their rubbish stuff, they'll carry on.  When they get no replies or anything from you they'll turn on someone else to troll.  Meanwhile, through your family, get in touch with your cousin and tell her you are no longer on social media and why.  If she agrees to get off it for a couple of months as well, hopefully these creatures will go away.  If they've got nobody to annoy, they can't do it can they.
2020-09-14 08:53:32 UTC
Why do you call them friends if they are doing this to you. Second of all you have freedom of choice of what friends you want to keep friendship - if your cousin doesn’t get along and you do that is two different things, don’t be controlled just say whatever you are happy with and do that. On social media you can just block them, first of all tell them how you feel about it all that you’ve described here and that you are no longer happy being friends 


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