Question:
Why is my friend so bitchy towards me...?!?
2014-09-24 00:54:18 UTC
I'm an 18 year old girl and my friend treats me so badly and it's got to the point where I'm so depressed that I'm withdrawing myself and can't work properly anymore

1) when I'm talking in a group, she will mimic my voice in a sarcastic way
2) when I'm talking to other people, I see her glaring at me
3) the other day I went up to the bar and ordered myself a drink and turned round to see her glaring at me
4) she will laugh really loudly at everything I say, when it's not remotely funny
5) when I ask someone a question which is simple she will laugh sarcastically
5) she ignores me when she wants and when she talks to me everything she says is negative
6) she blames me for things outside of my control like for instance when I didn't press the stop button on the bus and she shouted at me
7) throws sarcastic comments at me when I do something wrong by accident
8) when I say something, she will just glare at me and not say anything and look at me in a disapproving way to make me feel like a fool

I've noticed that she doesn't treat other people as badly as she treats me. She seems to laugh at me mostly when we are in a group. It makes me feel really small when she laughs at me like that

Why is she so horrible to me all the time....?!
Three answers:
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2014-09-24 01:36:54 UTC
....Friend? First off, this chick is just awkwardly odd. She seems to have a self confidence issue that she feels is resolved through patronizing and belittling you. She is extremely possessive and tries to control you in order to feel superior. I might even say she is so jealous of you and the things you do that she refuses you benefit from anything..whether it be a joke or whatever. This girl is not your friend, she is a bully with serious personal issues (mentally) who doesn't respect you AT ALL. Get rid of her. You should never subject yourself to people who get their kicks out of trying to take away your self worth.
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2014-09-24 00:56:55 UTC
Get rid of her, she sounds like a gross human, don't make a pattern of having relationships with any one like that, you will be miserable, go make friends with others who treat you better. Stop talking to her she's a toxic c*nt
2014-09-24 00:56:19 UTC
She`s not your friend, hse`s a bully, defend yourself!

Stand up and talk back to her!


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