I'm scared about getting excluded from school for getting blamed for what someone else did?

Question

Okay so today at school we we're on the computers and every student at my school has an email thing and it's like msn but not if that makes sense, We can like instant message each over about homework and other stuff, I was talking to one of my friends on it just the usual stuff like ''hi, how are you'' etc! So my other friend was like ''can we swap laptops so I can read your story?'' so I agreed to it, when we swapped back the chat was open and she said to my friend ''you fxxking bxtch'' and my heart dropped i tried to reply saying ''I'm so sorry that wasn't me'' but it was like ''You have been banned from making any further actions'' so i took the laptop to my teacher and he said that I should go to see my head of year, but he wouldn't let me go until the lesson ended, so I asked ''do you think he's going to believe me that it wasn't me who did it?'' and he was like ''probably not'' When the lesson ended I ran straight to see my head of year and explained the situation and all he said was ''just don't worry about it and i'll have a word with your english teacher about it'' so I went to have my lunch and all my other friends were laughing about it and stuff and I got really angry and said ''well i don't think you would like it'' then they were all saying how my english teacher is going to tell my head of year that it was me and stuff. I'm just so scared cause theirs not really much evidence and I'm in something called the ''bully book'' which was again for something I never done, which was spread a rumor about someone. I'm so angry, i'm now off school for a week as it's half term and i'm scared that when I go back i'll get excluded or something?

Answer 1

The worse thing you can do is panic, just explain everything when you get back and tell the truth and dont worry about getting excluded, they couldn't exclude you for that anyway and you were the one that went and told the teacher so just chill and enjoy weekoff for now.

Answer 2

If it were me, I'd just try and be as honest as possible with the people involved. I'd suggest not tattling on the friend you swapped laptops with, but also try telling the other friend that it was not you, and that you never would have said something like that to them. If they are your real friends, they should understand. If you don't think that will work, you could always try speaking to your english teacher, and explain the situation in-depth. I hope this helps :)

Answer 3

I would not worry too much if i was you.



First of all you went tp the teacher and then asked to see your head of year.



Had you had anything to hide then obviously tou would not have spoken to the superiors. You certainly did the right thing, and I suspect all the 'chat' from the other pupils is speculation. Who knows one of them could be reprimanded next week for what was done.



There is an old saying 'He who laughs last last, laughs loudest' and that could be you.

Answer 4

you won't get excluded over that. you mite get into trouble and get told off but not exclusion. never lend anyone your laptop or link up someone to your desktop cuz sometimes they can be sneaky with their things. tell teachers what happened and let them sort it out and tell your friend the one who borrowed your laptop that you'll never trust her again. she won't care. make sure you say it in front of your friends cuz then they'll be aware of her in future.



try not to worry too much.

Answer 5

it think that the people that are saying you are gonna get excluded are just jokeing around if you say to your friend that wrote that if the teacher asks if it was you or him to tell the truth hope this helped

Answer 6

definately no. I was in same situation a year ago and nothing happen except the boy who did it had a broken nose

Answer 7

dont be friends with that person anymore. and tell your headmaster exactly what happened.