ok well it started about 5 months ago. I know this friend from college and me and him used to hang out in college and out of college sometimes too. anyway we finished college about 6 months ago, but for the last 6 - 8 weeks of college he had been mentally ill and was having family problems. He sometimes used to get very paranoid and depressed, and he would think that friends including me were spreading rumours about him, which were untrue. Anyway so after i had finished college i sent him a text one week, asking if he would like to meet up, but during this time i was having alot of family problems also, and a family member died. And also i had to go into hospital for a knee operation, and during this time i had alot on my mind i forgot i arranged to meet him, i got missed calls from him and texts. So when i had come out of hospital and my knee was ok, i decided to text him again about meeting up, but this was 6 weeks later and i still had family problems at this time too. Anyway he replied with "i'm fed up of the BS can you stop with this and just leave me alone" anyway he texted me with similiar messages again and again, anyway i said "ok i'll leave you alone, but i want you to know you'll still a friend" And he text back with "you see me in the street just ignore me, no talking nothing" so i didn't text back after that. I'm now thinking about the situation and whether i should text him again asking if we can meet to talk this out. I know he has paranoia problems and stuff so maybe he was reacting angrily towards me before, because i genuinely didn't mean to not get back in touch with him, it's just alot of family stuff and my operation i had alot on my mind. anyway any help would be much appreciated.