I'm being severely bullied and falsely accused and need urgent help!?

Question

This group of 8 girls who i used to go to school with made my life a misery for a year. Now I've gone to sixth form and dont see them, but they've taken to twitter and facebook to cyberbully me instead. I've unfriended and unfollowed them but they still send me abuse for no reason. Yesterday one of them tweeted that if she sees me in half term she'll "punch my sluggish eyes out" and another said "If you know Aly, let her know that if we see her next week in half term we want to kill her". I'm too scared to tell my mum and she won't be much help anyway. Only my best friend, who doesn't know the bullies, knows. Basically today one of them went onto formspring and sent herself messages pretending to be me saying "i hope you get cancer". Now the 8 of them said they will do whatever it takes to "get me back" and get me into serious trouble. Much as i hate them i would never send a message like that and they faked it to frame me. But nobody will ever believe me. I'm too scared to even talk to them and defend myself but i NEED this harrassment to end!

Answer 1

I don't know what to say any more. You should be able to do whatever you need to do to defend yourself, but we're living in an age where that's hardly allowed, thanks to the liberals of the world.

Answer 2

Stay calm - The most important thing ever and don't worry.



Alert authority - Doesn't have to be your mum, websites will have report buttons, you can tell your teachers, there's always teachers that different students are especially close and honest to.



Lockdown - Doesn't sound like a very bad idea but I do it myself to ensure I'm safe sometimes, close down/deactivate/delete all of your online user accounts and don't talk to anyone except those you trust most, this one is mostly for very serious cases so only if you're finding it so unbearable.



Stay calm again - If they contact you face to face, walk away or if they touch you, walk away.. Just walk in to a shop or any other busy place where there is any more than 5 people and just say to someone 'random' about the problem and what is happening briefly, if they threaten you face to face, just take it calmly and sweetly and don't say anything stupid (like you would ;) ) and walk away.. Bullies and haters hate it when your nice to them, they have a dark nature and can usually be insulted, more than anything, by kindness (sounds soppy but true enough)



I hope I helped.

Stay safe kiddo, any more problems email me at [e-mail]



Peace,

R.

Answer 3

Bullying is getting worse as the years go by and its sad.Look I would say if it was only 1 girl bullying you then rare bck and pop the CRAP outta her lol but since theres 8 well thats WAY different.I know its got to be mentally hard on you and I know being in middle or high school is not easy.Im sry this is happening to you for real.First off im serious delete whatever accoiunts you have online for awhile wether its twitter or fb.Then talk to someone dont be afraid to tell someone cause you think it will get bck around to them girls im sure they pick on other ppl besides you.You have someone in your family,a principle at school even a counselor,they have numbers you can look up online like 1-800 nums for ppl that are being bullied.You get out there and stand up for yourself and hold your head up.Cause bullying is serious and it needs to be told to someone.Good luck and keep me posted on how everything goes.Oh and remember girl "karma" is real and them girls oneday will get everything bck worse what they are doing to you!

Answer 4

Telling your parents won't make anything better. Go to the principal and let him know exactly what's going on. Tell him you don't want to bring your parents into this, but that your are frightened and you need this to stop. Once you go talk to the principal i'm sure he'll contact each and every single one and give them a warning if they ever touch you or harass you they will get suspended. It's embarrassing, I know but it will definitely put a stop to it! Hope this helps

Answer 5

Tell the authorities at school about it before they do. Tell them about the fame message, and they will believe you first. Also show them the tweets/messages. This is really serious and I've honestly never heard of bullying to that extent.

Answer 6

Take screen captures (push the PrntScr button on your computer and paste it into paint or some picture program) and print them for proof and take them to the principal so he can call their parents. Block them on the networking sites and report them to the websites too. Why are you scared to tell your mom? You need to stand up for yourself, this sucks and you shouldn't have to put up with it.

Answer 7

Report this to the police. Go to your local police station and show them the threats against you. This is illegal. Also get off Facebook, get off Twitter, get off Formspring - they can't harass you online if you don't have any online profiles

Answer 8

Delete your facebook and Twitter and make a new one.



Then if they start giving you a hard time at school, tell the principle.

Answer 9

this really seams like a huge issue, i really think if death threats are circling you need to get some sort of authority involved. these girls clearly think that they can get away with this abuse and it clearly has been going on for way to long. you need to be strong and stand up to them by getting help, they might get upset but you have authority on your side. these girls need to grow up and get a life...

Answer 10

tell some one it could be your mum, a teacher even child-line theres loads of people there to help you xx hope it gets better hunn

Answer 11

talk to the police teacher and principle that the best thing to do save the messages they put on fb and twitter and show the teacher principle and police thats wat you need to do like ASAP also tell your mom and talk to her and tell her how much it hurts you

Answer 12

Infect Em' all with H1N1.