My friend wants me back and I don't know what to do?

Question

So I had this friend for about 3 years who would hit me and hurt my feelings all the time. She would get mad at me for no reason. She once told me, "Don't make me hate you again," She got mad at me because my mom didn't let me go over to her house. She told me it feels like I was walking over her.She cyber bullied me all the time. She put statuses on skype saying mean things about me and she sent me a mean formspring question. She has sent me mean messages over youtube. She has called me bad names and stuff. I could go on forever, but anyway, I decided I was done with her crap and wanted to say something about it. I sent her an email about a year ago saying I didn't like how she treat me and that was all I said. She then sent me an email back yelling dumb things. This year, I blocked her from skype and from my phone.My brother even removed her as a friend on my skype. About 2 or 3 weeks after I blocked her, she sent me the video "Backstabber" by Ke$ha on YouTube and said "That's low even for you!" I really don't know what that means but I didn't say anything back to it. About a month after that, she sent another person on youtube a message and she sent it to me also to show me what she said to that person. She said:

My old friend made my best friend in the world hate me. i know your not a peace maker but. i miss her i havent even gotten to talk to her for months i text but she wont answer and the braclet that i gave her that says big sister she put it in my mailbox. i wont my friend back i know i shouldnt cry about something like this but i am. i just want her back. She ment alot to me and now she wont talk to me. its like the world just stops moving because of one person. their is no one that could ever replace her. please help me :(.


Whats A Girl Without Her Best Friend.
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So first of all, no one made me hate her. It's how she acted around me that made me hate her. Second, She had a "Little Sister" bracelet and she gave me a bracelet that said "Big Sister" on it and she got in a fight with me one night and she told me she wanted it back, so.. I gave it back... Third, after what she put me through, it didn't seem like I meant anything to her. She controlled my life by telling me things I had to do. Fourth, that stuff she said was pretty sweet. The only thing is I know if I decided to be her friend again, she'd do it all again. I don't want to be her friend.

Last Saturday, she called my house phone and left a voice message saying "Hey.. I really want to talk.. it doesn't matter when you call me or what phone you call me on I just really want to talk.."

Then, today, she put a letter in my mailbox that had the big sister bracelet. On the letter she said, "Please forgive me," and, "Avoiding won't help,"

She wants me back, I don't. There's a big possibility she's going to my school this next year. She'll ride my bus and try to sit next to me. If that's the case, I could just not talk to her, but she is so annoying.

What should I do? I'm better off without her. By the way, the things I said she did were all in the past year from August to now. So yeah, a year.

Answer 1

Well, she has made it quite clear in the past that she doesn't like you, and if she's suddenly changed her tune, it's too late for her. You've decided to move on and live your own life without her in it, so stick to your guns and don't let her back in. She may be genuinely sorry, but she will have to prove that to you over time. If in say a year's time she is apparently still repentant, you might like to reconsider your friendship, but don't let her into your life again unless you are really sure that you are happy about that.

Answer 2

Well she said that avoiding her won't work so you need to be straight forward with her. Tell her you don't want anything to do with her because she has hurt you in the past and you just cant go through that again. No one made her dislike you. Those were her own actions.

Answer 3

i think you should call her. talk to her for a while and let her know why you didnt want to be her friend anymore. if she promises to change then try to be her friend again. let her know that if she starts acting up again you wont deal with her and you will not be her friend anymore. if she has genually changed then thats great, you got your friend back. good luck :)

Answer 4

Just by the first few sentences you typed about the person; THAT PERSON IS NOT YOUR FRIEND... Period. Friends don't hate each other, pretty simple concept there.

Answer 5

find a new friend dont go back to her shes a rude beeotch