Why is my friend so horrible to me all the time...?!?

Question

I'm an 18 year old girl and my friend treats me so badly and it's got to the point where I'm so depressed that I'm withdrawing myself and can't work properly anymore

1) when I'm talking in a group, she will mimic my voice in a sarcastic way
2) when I'm talking to other people, I see her glaring at me
3) the other day I went up to the bar and ordered myself a drink and turned round to see her glaring at me
4) she will laugh really loudly at everything I say, when it's not remotely funny
5) when I ask someone a question which is simple she will laugh sarcastically
5) she ignores me when she wants and when she talks to me everything she says is negative
6) she blames me for things outside of my control like for instance when I didn't press the stop button on the bus and she shouted at me
7) throws sarcastic comments at me when I do something wrong by accident
8) when I say something, she will just glare at me and not say anything and look at me in a disapproving way to make me feel like a fool
8) whenever I'm speaking, she doesn't join in she just glares at me and then says she has to go and walks off

I've noticed that she doesn't treat other people as badly as she treats me. She seems to laugh at me mostly when we are in a group. When I see her talking to other girls, she is nice and gets on well with them. It makes me feel really small when she laughs at me like that



Why is she so horrible to me all the time....?!

Answer 1

Real question is, why do you keep asking this when we gave the answer, let us know what you want to hear and we will supply that answer. She's a piece of sh*t, move on

Answer 2

She might be mad at you for something you didn't even know you did. You could try talking to her about it and ask her if she is mad at you for something. If she just ignores you or is still mean to you then she probably is not your friend. Friends should be nice to you and want to hang out with you, if she doesn't treat you like that then I don't know why you would even want to be her friend. Try making new friends and stop talking to her, your life will be a lot better without all that negative energy around you.

Answer 3

Ya what's her problem. Shes so used to you being the weaker "friend" she thinks she can treat you that way. She not a true friend at all.... Shes using you. Shes taking advantage of you. Ditch her but first let her know she's a **** friend

Answer 4

I would say she is not your friend and that she possibly is bi-polar (a mental illness). I thought by what you said she did that you 2 were 14 year olds, then I saw you were at a bar. Grown women do not act that way even with people they do not like. I would suggest she get help. If that does not work. Drop her.

Answer 5

If she treats u this horrible, why do u even name her 'my friend'? U should probally ask her about it, maybe u didn't know her side of the story. Misunderstandings happens all the time.