sick of my best friend and not interested about things?

Question

okay so im 16 this year and in year 9
i'm kind of getting sick of my best friend and i dont know why, i userly don't get sick of her like she is the one person i can go to and i would never get sick of her but last year she was getting sick of me and we had alot of fights ect ect that whole year i was thinking it was all my falut and i was trying so hard and i kind of just wanted to be with her and not my other friends and that kind of f*** things up but this year im starting to get sick of her and like she is in my class and she is always making things about her and makes things sooooo dramatic like for example lets say her name is kate
(sitting at the table boy comes over and say hey and sits with us)
kate: "omg he didnt even hug me he hates me he so wants to hock up with her instead"
me: "omg......................"

see what i mean stuff like that omg its driving me insane i dont have the energy anymore ahahahahha
i knid of like chilling with my other friends abit more which is good i guess

also i'm not interested in things i used to be for example:
i used to love saturday mornings now i dont care anymore and just stay in bed
i used to love being on holidays now im on them and it doesnt even feel like the holidays and its been a week already i keep on thinking its sunday for some reason
i used to love everything to do with an airline and travel now im like merhhhh dont care
i feel like i've changed alot, more into an adult that doesn't have an imagination :/ ahhahah
what is going on is this puberty which im hating right now because it is hard being a teenager

Answer 1

The friend thing is fairly easy to explain. People mature at different rates, and will grow out of each other. Unless it is a family member, you aren't stuck with that person. Find other people who meet your needs, and who appreciate you.

As for the other things you've lost interest in, it could be linked to depression... or it could just be that you are changing as a person. I was a morning person until I was around your age, and then preferred sleeping in. Holidays lost their luster, it seemed like more work with all the responsibilities I gained due to family parties, etc. I would say look to see if there is a logical explanation for these changes before you blame it on depression. Also, look to find other activities that make you happy as the person you are now- maybe volunteer at an animal shelter or soup kitchen, find an extracurricular activity like sports or debate, or find a religious group. You go through a lot of changes at that age, so you should start exploring options until you find what makes you happy!

Answer 2

You guys just sound to be growing apart some, what you used as an excerpt from her did not seem that bad but keep in mind this is not the end of the world if she is making you miserable you have a few choices.



Option one you want to stay friends, you can continue to hang out with her but I would recommend taking some space for yourself and hang out with other friends this will let you determine if she is really the problem. If you are only miserable when around her than something must be wrong in the friendship which brings us to option two. You can choose that if she is making you miserable to end the friendship.





One thing I will say is if someone is over dramatic and making you miserable constantly than it is more than likely not worth your time as they are less likely to change than you are to end it. I had to learn this with a friend I have had for the last ten almost eleven years and it was best to let them become more of an acuantance rather than a best friend. While I may be able to give you advise you will have to make your decision on how to handle it, all I will say is it was one of the best things I ever did.





I hope this helps and wish you good luck on whatever outcome you choose

Answer 3

Start to change your attitude to others and life in general.

Begin by being GRATEFUL for what you have.

Your best friend must have good qualities or she wouldnt be your best friend.

Drop your negative attitude and look for the good things.

Get some motivation to study your airline you like and travel,do something that changes your mood.

Try and stay positive and more happier.

Answer 4

Maybe you're depressed. Look up the signs.