Word to the wise: we're dealing with a fairly energetic troll. Just so you know! Naturally, disregard my answer. I seem to keep running into you, dear. Diverse stories, but it's getting a little old.
It's fairly unusual for a 10 year old girl to suddenly turn 13 and have an 8 year old obese son etc etc, and be constantly crossposting for "angry troll for jesus".
I wonder what's so usual about you that you can't get people to be interested in you personally. Why not tell us about yourself? :) seriously. i do think you're about 13 for real ^^ .. i'm thinking there's a pretty good chance you're not a girl though! ah, boys entering puberty. special behaviour! i will credit you with having a certain amount of energy to burn though. i think skateboarding would be a better hobby though. it's cooler and might actually make people like you. seriously!
be talking to you soon though, i guess, you seem to have quite a presence here.
https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20110815215531AAXlNcH
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/activity/qa?show=u5JUcbz5aa&link=answer
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Hi Mermaid Girl,
people can be idiots, and very ignorant - many will judge people purely based on looks, and this affects soooo many different kinds of people. And it affects their confidence.
I think you are almost certainly beautiful as you are - and probably your Mum wants you to accept yourself that way. I think most of us think you sound pretty cool!
But I can understand - kids at school are usually cruel to anyone they perceive as different. Having different coloured eyes would be a pot of gold for some bullies. I know you just don't want to be hassled - you want to be seen as a cute little girl just like any other little girl.
I'm hoping there might be a counsellor at your school, or a teacher or teacher's aide that you might trust? If you were to try talking to another adult, particularly a teacher if they see the grief that you have to put up with, I'm wondering whether they might be able to have a chat with you and your mum together. I'm sure your Mum wants you to be happy. She probably doesn't want to do the contacts because you're young but also she doesn't want you to feel like you should have to cover up who you really are.
And look, neither do I. But I can imagine that 10 year old kids hassling you about your eyes would really, really suck, and I think your mum should hear you out on this one, as wearing contacts would be your choice, and you could always stop if you felt like you were in a more comfortable environment. It's a matter of weighing up the pros and cons for you personally. It's easy for us to say you shouldn't care, but it's also your personal decision, really.
Just remember that loads of kids get singled out all over the world, many for things they simply cannot change - including many who later become stars. Lots of people try to change themselves only to realise later they are most valued for what they most felt they had to hide x