URGENT! Very confused & I need advice. URGENT!?

Question

I "talked" to this guy for 12 days exactly two months ago. We ended things because he liked another girl more than me. He apologized to me & we're friends. I made a video about the whole situation & put it on youtube. (They ONLY found it because I posted another video on my Facebook from that account.) Everyone saw it & the other girl tried to confront me about it. This girl & I we're cool at first but over time she has burned her bridges with me. (I told her that I talked mess about her & that I was going to stop.) One of my roommates told me one day that she heard her talking mess about me and saying she wanted to fight me. I would NEVER fight over a guy & I've physically done nothing to get the guys attention since we stopped "talking". They recently started going out too. She also acts like she doesn't want me around him if she's not there. She always wants to talk to me to clear things up. I KNOW that she's fake, so I don't feed into her mess. I blocked her on Facebook because I was getting irritated by her posts. I don't understand why she's so worrisome other than that she thinks that I might take her boyfriend. (Which I'm not going to do because I wouldn't want that to happen to me.)

Then with the guy I ONLY talk to him mostly if he talks to me first. It's really weird because some days he won't talk to me at all & then others he will. If we see each other more than once & I don't say hi back to him the first time. Every time after that when he sees me he won't talk to me. He also a few weeks ago came over to my dorm with his friends twice in a week & hung out. ( The first time with just me, him, & his friends at 11pm-12 am. Then the second time with me, my friends, and his friends.) Sometimes his friends mess with me & when they do. He apologizes to me & sometimes he just says stupid stuff. For example: He was going back to his dorm to get something & come right back. Before he left he asked me if it was ok if he could come back. I'm so confused & I think the ONLY reason we're not together is because I got too close too soon. He told me one time that he DIDN'T want a girlfriend but I MADE him want one. He wanted me! I'm happy with me & him being friends but I can't see us being that forever. I already know I should move on which is exactly what I'm trying to do.


So I recently started kind of getting to know this NEW guy but I'm not rushing into anything. I also feel like because my heart is broken that I'm gonna mess things up with every other guy no matter how much I like them. Honestly I feel I need the OLD guy in my life and I can't move on until I try us out.
1) Because I don't want to get my heart broken again.
2) I really don't think I could handle a relationship & college.
3) I honestly realized that I don't want a boyfriend anymore.

QUESTIONS!!!!
1) Will me & him form a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship?
2) How long will their relationship last?
3) Is he confused or is it just me?
4) Why is his girlfriend worried about me?

Answer 1

Obviously his girlfriend is so worried about you because she sees you as a threat because she knows about the past between the two of you, so when she hears about you his hanging out, even as friends, she wonders what's going on. He's probably just as confused as you are but guys don't ever think the way females do, they fly by the seat of their pants. If I were you, I would hang in there as a friend because he will get the impression that you aren't as clingy as you were before (sorry to put that bluntly, but from your description, that's what it sounded like happened... You were too clingy and he didn't like that since you were only talking for not even 2 weeks). Plus, as a friend, you're an innocent bystander to their relationship and can just sit back and watch. Chances are, he will realize that this girl isn't worth it, because it sounds like he doesn't like clingy and crazy over protective girls, and she seems like it. Honestly. Guys like to chase girls, they don't like the ones they can easily get to. Let a guy chase you for a while

Answer 2

early life is a very complicated time. Your hormones are in each and every single place. that's organic to sense...lost. Being homestead schooled might want to be complicated for some little ones. that's significant communicate about the emotions that you're having with someone you may trust, with somewhat of success your mom and father might want to listen. If no longer, communicate with you health practitioner and they could refer you to a therapist.

Answer 3

1)I think you should wait for him.

4)She's probably jealous.

2)Who kbows how long it will take. Its rude to try and break people up. Because in the end he'll probably hate what you did. Be the one he can run to when they break up. Dont be the one who broke the up.because

you wouldn't want it to happen to yo

3)he seems to like you too. But wait and be patient so you'll kniw he's ready for you.

Answer 4

1)yes

2)not long

3)it is you

4)because he may lay you(have sex with you)