Should i stay with the same group of friends or leave?

Question

Next school term i'm gonna be in 10th grade and i reaaaaaally don't want drama. i've stayed with many groups of friends before and i haven't found the right group for me yet:/ group 1: This betch of a girl stole my bestie (sounds childish,i know) but it hurt me but somehow we made up and became friends and now this group wants me to hang out with them again.
group 2: gosh i don't even want to talk about it but i had hung out with this group and they gossip about everyone and everyone hates this group. so pretty much i left the group cos they rlly annoyed me.
group 3: my friends in this group are very popular and are rebels with the capital R. i feel really uncomfortable around them and i feel sort of left out but now we are really close.

i've made new friends and all of us have one thing in common.volleyball. we all are on the team and they stay at the volleyball court during Lunch. i really love hanging out with them:)
Should i stay with them though? or should i stay with group 3?:/ it's just that i want to leave group 3 soooo badly but i don't want to cause drama D: pleeeeaaaase help me out here?:(

Answer 1

I think that the best way to solve this problem is to find out who you are yourself. You want to find a group that fits you the best, but none of the 3 groups are really like you. If i were you, i would do one of two things:

1.) i would tell the group #3 that you don't want any drama, and if they don't start being down-to-earth and normal you don't want to be friends with them anymore.

2.) i would start hanging out with group #3 less and less until they get the idea that you don't really want to hang out with them anymore.

But before you do all that, pick out another group who accepts you for who you are and have similar personalities and interests (volleyball) as you. If you don't find anyone, then just stay with group #3.

Answer 2

Hang out with the volleyball gang. ;p

If you prefer hanging out with them and if they're nice people, stick with them if you don't want drama.

I would say leave group 3 and tell them why you feel awkward around them but say you still want to be friends if you're close.

If everyone hates group 2, I wouldn't be with them if you don't want to become someone that everyone will hate.

And for group 1, well if you've made up with the girl and every things fine with you and them, then hang out with them aswell.

Just my opinion. :3

Answer 3

Wells, you said it yourself. You don't want to hang with Group 3. What i would do is just tell them "Hey guys, we can always still be friends, but we don't have much in common. So i was just going to hang out with my volleyball buddies." Something like that. I would SOO hang out with the volleyball people though. I freakin LOVE volleyball. I'm like that with my friends sometimes though, they're not very active athleticy people, so i usually hang with others during lunch and what not. HANG with the volleyball people, i can see you already love it anyway. ;)

Answer 4

I'd just be friends with both because mainly being in group 3 is probably going to get you into trouble but you still want to be friends with your volleyball team and them!:)<3

Answer 5

Leave group 3. Stick w/ volleyball, though. If anyone wants to join, then make your own group.

Answer 6

Make new friends with your vollyball team. It's better to have fun with people you feel comfortable with than forcing yourself to fit in somewhere you don't. Keep some of your old friends, but stick in the group you feel best in :)



Good luck!

Answer 7

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