Is this right for my aunt's friend to start pinning stuff on me?

Question

My aunt knows to contact me if she needs anything. And a friend of hers keeps telling me that my aunt wants me to do this or that. Well, my aunt didn't request me to do anything. And said that my aunt isn't my aunt and wants me to stay away from her. Well, I had gotten a letter from my aunt not to long ago and it said that she will always love me and be there for me. Her friend told me that my aunt has never loved me. My aunt has always been in my life. Her friend just met her in 2009. How can her friend tell me that I am not my aunts niece. And that my aunt has never loved me. In each of my aunts letters she always says I love you. And my aunt always sends me her letters. The friend says that my aunt copies every letter she writes me and sends it to her friend. And her friend said that I am gay. that I am stupid and that I am the devil. Well, that is totally wrong,. I am straight. I am smart and I love Jesus. I keep tell the friend that I will be there for my aunt in my own way. She said You will support her the way I support her. I am like I am not you. She keeps emailing me 100 documents a day, saying I got 30 min to get all 100 documents typed and printed. No way in hell will i do that. She even wants me to write a book for her. Because she has no time. I have my own life I have to handle not hers. She'd told my aunt that I never completed school. I said i am high school graduate. And my aunt was at my Graduation. I have to get the friend to give me permission to send my aunt a letter. or any money. And I have to give her a copy of every letter and a total of all the money I give my aunt.

My aunt said that I am her goddaughter. The friend bit my head off tonight and said shes not your godmother. And like she can do anything for you now. This friend is really mean. SHe even rubs it in my face that she sees my aunt on a weekly basis. I said would i be nice if I told you that my aunt/godmother gave me free haircuts all the time. And that I didnt have to pay for it. She said well you should start paying for her to cut your hair. I am like no i dont my aunt/godmother said i dont have to give her money for the haircuts. All she wants is me to spend time with her. SHe said nothing is free in life. I am like well whats free is my aunts love for me. She said well you gotta pay her 1,000 dollars for her to say I love you. If you dont have that 1,000 than forget it.

How controlling is that? The friend is on meds for OCD. And told me that I am messed up? Hell no im not messed up. I have a job, I pay my own way. I give my aunt/godmother 20.00 a week. out of my pay checks. I got friends who love me. She thinks I am stupid. to have a job, and earn paychecks. She thinks that having job is stupid. and getting paid is worse. You get money you pay bills. she like yes i do and i am the only one who can have a job and pay bills. the other people can screw off.

I work Tues-Sunday. I get mondays off. So why does it concern her when i have my own job. Pay my own way. give my aunt money every week. I am supporting myself. Of course thats what adults have to do in life is pay their own way. Shes 63 years old and said she knows alot more than I do. She asks me questions in the past on how to do load a program if its not installed all the way? And she says I dont know anything. IF she know alot more than i do than why does she asks me how to install programs on a comptuer?

Tells me that she is taking me to court for contact my aunt/godmother and calling her my aunt/godmother. And yes I have been baptized. And my aunt was my sponsor. It says on my certificate that my godmother was there. I did send the friend a copy of the certificate and erased my name and put her name on it.

Answer 1

wtf does your aunt know that shes treating you like this? if not you should tell her! and dont listen to anything this friend got to say tell her to get a life and mind her own d*mn (excuse my french) business! shes jealous of the relationship you have with your aunt and is trying to ruin it. dont let her do that to you

Answer 2

Well, existence's loopy like that. =) We all have our scars and those are simply your scars. We all be taught to manage them - in our possess means. That's what existence's approximately, studying to manage our overwhelming urge for escapism. Your brother is simply settling on medicines (shoplifting, and potentially a few self damage) to manage his existence. Some humans select to manage with the ones matters as a substitute than different authorized/'healthful' ways. Even in case your brother had the exceptional youth, matters can regularly cross unhealthy. He's additionally at an age in which experimenting is inevitable. Given he takes it somewhat too some distance, he would possibly simply develop out of it. Shop lifting, medicines, prison, and many others. are all matters I manage on a everyday foundation. I can guarantee you that he is no longer too happy with it however the one factor you'll be able to do is speak to him approximately what he does. If he does not desire to quit utilizing or quit jacking stuff from retail outlets (and getting stuck) then you will have performed all you'll be able to do. You cannot reside his existence for him. You'll be k. =) Just take it an afternoon at a time. The primary factor to your existence is the choices you are making. Although, the choices different humans make impact you, they don't seem to be the primary ones to your international. ^_-

Answer 3

Talk to your aunt about this!



This is not right, and it shouldnt continue. Tell somebody and make it stop.

Answer 4

She's a devil.