whilst our four families were skiing together, i lent my friend my laptop to use to check her email. her and my younger sister hacked into my msn account and left a rather in appropriate message for one of my male friends. she didn't tell me. on the last night at dinner, i was feeling really ill. at dinner, my sister and my friend were saying "you have to send an email" and stuff like that to each other, and i asked them what they were talking about. they didnt tell me exactly, but told me that they had done something on my computer, and were laughing and joking around. i was pretty pissed off at this point, as they had already hacked into my pictures and fiddled with my settings and stuff on my laptop. as the oldest kid on the trip, i did feel quite left out, and this was the last straw. I walked away from the table, and ran up to my room. my mum came up and i started crying. she eventually calmes me down and got my friend to tell her what had happened, and i went back down and sat with adults for the rest of dinner. i was really upset, because i felt like all six of the kids on the trip were ganging up on me, and that my sister, who i thought i could trust, and my friend who i was quite close to, were picking on me. my friend apologised, but now we are back at school, she has started telling all her friends (and a lot of my best friends) that I am a loser and that i started crying over nothing and making a joke out of it. I feel like she is in a slightly "cooler" friendship group than me at school, and i don'y what to do. should i tell her i feel she is picking on me? or should i ask one of my best friends, who thinks my friend was out of line, how i feel and ask her to help me? HElP!