How to tell my best friend that i want to eat lunch with my other friends?

Question

Hi. I'm kinda having some trouble with my friends. at school, i have one absolute best friend who i've known since 1st grade. Shes the best friend in the world(well most of the time :p). I do a full time sport and so i dont really have any time to do things with friends, so pretty much the only friend at school that i have is my best friend. I know lots of other girls and i really like them so i wanted to start eating lunch with them. Usualy i eat with my best friend and nobody else. I really dont know how to tell her that i want to start sitting with my other friends at least for a little while. My best friend can get bossy and mad sometimes, as i have learned in the past, and i dont want her to be too upset. so back to the question...HOW DO I TELL HER THAT I WANT TO EAT LUNCH WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS? Srry about the caps but i just wanted to show that thats my question. Please respond i would really appriciate it!!!!!

Answer 1

why don't you ask her to come eat lunch with your other friends and you can all eat together and introduce them to her.

thats kinda mean to say you wanna exclude her and go with other friends and you might get into a fight

Answer 2

Introducer her to the other girls and you both eat with the other girls.



If that isn't an option then, just tell her that the other girls want to have lunch with you. Explain to her that she gets to see you all the time, and you feel a lil bad not spending any time with the other girls. But make be really sweet about it - and end the explanation with "luv ya!!"



I'm almost 30 and i have this problem all the time still!!

Answer 3

Well there is no reason that you can't invite your best friend to eat with other girls. Tell her you want to meet more people and try having lunch with other girls. Let her know she is welcome to join you if she wants to. If you try to ditch her and just go hang out with these girls then you're going to be the one being a lousy friend. Ditching people is never cool.

Answer 4

If she really is your best friend, wouldn't you like to include her when you eat lunch with your other friends? Maybe you can all be friends?

Answer 5

Tell her you want to make more friends and include her as well. Hopefully she is reasonable and will come along. Honesty is probably best here since she's your best friend.

Answer 6

Just do it. Or say to her, "Let's eat over here" and sit down where they are. She's not your boss and you have free will, so do it.

Answer 7

Invite your best friend to your new friends. Everybody wins.

Answer 8

u dont tell her u just go sit with them!

Answer 9

why don't you introduce her to your other friends and you all eat together

Answer 10

say "hey *****, you're boring. i found some new friends. ya digg?!"

:)