I'm in love with my best friend. But sometimes she's a b*tch!?

Question

I'm 14 years old and I'm going into high school soon. I've had this awesome girl become best friend in 7th grade. We're really close but not too close. And unfortuneately she's starting to become b*tchy and sl*tty. I want her to change for the better. She's asked my if I like her before and ive said no because I was afraid if what would happen. Now I keep on finding myself thinking about her and realizing I really like her. I dont want our friendship to go down the drain if I ask though. What can I do about changing her and me liking her before high school? Thanks

Answer 1

Girls are insecure about themselves so they think guys will like them more if they act like bitchy sluts. Sit her down during this summer and tell her that you really like her and as a friend want her to understand that you don't like it when she acts that way because you know how awesome she is( except not all cheesy like that) Let the summer progress, spend a lot of time together, let her true self shine through, and come fall you may be a lot closer than you thought.

Answer 2

ehh...good luck, I'm 14 yrs old too...and yeah....just a heads up, pretty much all girls this age are pissy and dramatic and what not. i would recommend finding someone else thats more grown up. you wont be able to change her...she is who she is. girls are really stupid that way. trust me. i had this friend during the school year and she was SOOO dramatic! I was trying to change her so she wouldnt swear and fall for her other best friend which treats her like Sh*t. right as summer came, lets just say she called me a B*tch. and the only reason why was because i was trying to make her a better person.....just some advice. dont get into the girl world yet!!! it sucks!!! Drama Drama Drama! just my opinion though :]



Hope i helped.

Answer 3

Tell her everything frankly.

Like, tell her, you used to like her before for what she was.. you used to adore her.. and also that this b*tchy n sl*tty makes you look fake.. Maybe she likes you too, thats why she asked you, did you like her before or not.. and perhaps this is the reason she has become all b*tchy n sl*tty thinking that maybe you'd like her this way.

I would just advice you to talk to her. And tell her your feelings. Speak your heart. She'll surely understand.

Goodluck =)

Answer 4

Don't ever trick yourself into thinking that you change anyone else. The only person you can change is yourself. If you and your friend is suppose to be together you will. If you like her tell her so.

Answer 5

you have to tell her that she's been changing