I only created this back-up account for the sole purpose of her not finding out about this question. Anyway, this past December this girl added me on my other Yahoo! Answers account for what reason I don't know, and she started to message me on Yahoo! Messenger. I'm not going to say what her name is. It turned out that we were both from Illinois, and that we also went to the same Middle School, her being in 7th grade and me being in 8th. Right now, I am 17 and she is 15. She claims to be a "nerdy" type with very little friends. The messaging started to get a little out of control. On rare occasions it went on for 6 hours. I would repeatedly tell her that I had to leave but she would continue rambling on about random nonsense that I care nothing about, and tell me that I can't leave her. I was just to afraid to stand her up, because she seemed really dependent. She would immediately message me as soon as I logged on to Y!A, which leads me to believe that she is somehow obsessed with me. At some times I would ignore her, other times I would just play along. She's always complaining about how miserable her life is and how little everyone in school disrespects her, and I wouldn't blame them. She is probably the clingiest person I've ever talked to, besides my mom. She's always complaining about her boobs, and claims that she is also a victim of sexual harassment because everyone makes fun of her body and appearance. I don't think she has any idea of how boring she is, and how bored I am of her. The problem is that I sort of already started being nice to her and calling her pretty (We sent pictures of ourselves via email. btw she actually does look fairly pretty) so now I think she is sort of attracted to me, but the worst decision I probably made was that I GAVE HER MY PHONE NUMBER. At first I thought she was nice enough to have my number, and afterwards we had a very nice texting session. After that, I just started to ignore her texts because she is either asking random crap, wondering where I am, or just digging for attention (For example, she claimed that she thought her Ex- Boyfriend was dead and actually bothered to text me about it. And no, I didn't reply to it. It actually turned out he was fine.) I hardly ever text, so you bet my mom is going to be angry at the bill. It just seems like this girl feels very miserable in life, and she has nothing better to do with her time. I am also REALLY afraid that she might be suicidal, and I don't want to deal with that crap. I haven't talked to her since January 1st, because I usually ignore her or try to avoid being on Y!A at the same time she is. AND ANOTHER THING. She is on Y!A on almost ALL hours of the day! What creeps me out though is that she hardly EVER asks or answers questions (I'm looking at her profile now, and it says that she hasn't answered a question in 5 days, and hasn't asked any in 2 weeks, but she is still on.) I recently disabled my IM, so the only way she can contact me is through E-mail and my phone number.
I don't have a lot of friends either, so I hardly ever talk to people, especially on Y!A. Maybe I'm just not used to talking to people like this. Either way, I'm just weirded out by this whole mess, and I just want to end it now! I'm just too afraid to tell her the truth. What do you think I should do???