PLEASE HELP ME!!!!HELP!!!?

Question

OK, theres this girl I have liked since I was 8 (I am now 15) but she dose not love me, she just thinks of me as a friend. I have learned to except this but the other day something happened.....

I was reading my best friends messages on MYYEARBOOK.COM its like myspace, and I could see that the girl was flirting with my best friend. Well this just killed me. I have been subspeting this for a wile but, now I just want to die. Any way I messed up his account and deleted the girl off his friends list. As you can guis, he wanted to happy. Then today I got this message from the girls best friend:

Sent by: allie

y cant you jus be happy for kai(MY BEST FRIEND) if he does like becks(THE GIRL I LIKE) he is supose to be your bestfriend and what if becks does like him too you cant make her like you so y mess things up for her jus let them be happy stop tryin to mess things up jus cause your mad because becks don't see you as nothin else but a friend and thats all she will ever see you as so jus stop tryin to mess things up if they like each other then good for them they should date but they don't need you messing things up

Kai lives in TN and me and Becks live in Va but Kai will be moving here this sumer.

I don't know what to do. I have known kai since I was 5. PLEASE HELP ME. I might kill my self if you don't (NOT REALY)

Answer 1

You are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you. One day you will look back on this and laugh. When you fall in love properly it is so so different to this.

Im sure this hurts like hell for now, but please remember, you WILL get over this. Life has much greater challenges than this to keep you on your toes.

take care.

Answer 2

Hmm... sorry to say but you're standing on thin ice right now. You can take the wrong move and fall, or take the right move and escape the situation.



It's hard for us to tell you what to do in situations like this. Especially when love is involved.

Sometimes it just takes some thinking for yourself. Here's what I would do if I were you.



You can message/talk to your best friend and tell him the truth, exactly how you feel, even if the truth hurts. This will probably be a really hard thing to do and for a while, there will be some mixed emotions between you both. But in the end, you'll have nothing to hide and people will understand you much better.



Don't do things you'll later regret. I've done some really stupid things in the past which, at the time, felt fine, but now I'm still filled with shame.



Ask yourself; Who would you hate to lose the most? Your best friend? Or this girl?

Answer 3

Here is the best advice I can give you based on years of knowing what works..



CUT THEM OFF AND NEVER TALK TO ANY OF THEM AGAIN .. soon someone you will love will find you and all the pain will all go away. The longer you stay in this horrible story the more pain you will feel.



You cant win every fight NO ONE CAN a true champion learns how to loose too.



SO WHAT if you don't win you are a great person with great friends and great things ahead. If you need style help or fitness ask. BUT THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. Everyone dances to a different drum and there is NO WHY.. Stop asking WHY. why did he do this why did she do that. THE REAL SECRET OF LIFE IS just because. no one can answer the why question . Stop trying. JUST GET AWAY FROM THEM ALL. DON'T LOOK THEM UP don't talk to them and start over.. ITS ALL GOOD. but if you keep looking at her and talking about her you will take longer to heal.. Look forward to the gal that will love ya. not the losers that don't .. HAHAHA on them . chances are one day they will break each others heart HAHAHA dont let it be you !!!



good luck hope this helps

Answer 4

Here's my advise: talk to ur friend. tell him ur sorry now I am telling U right now, HE WILL NOT FORGIVE U WITHIN 3 DAYS! he will get back friends with her on this website if they really like each other. Repeatedly leave messages on this my-space thing to him. he might delete u so if that happens, tell him ur sorry in person/ notes for 1 school day. but be warned, exceed this limit and he will get annoyed. do not (in these apologies) use the words i'm sorry and that's it. be sincere and tell him "I was blinded by jealousy and the friendship that is between us is much more important." If u r not very sincere and/or smart enough to use that level of vocabulary, say "Dude the chick is (list cool things about her) and when i saw u were flirting i freaking flipped out. I am sorry man." If he still doesn't forgive u (if this friendship means a lot to you) offer to do a certain physical punishment for forgiveness. that don't work then cut the relationship with both of them for a week or two. U might find someone that u feel for or another friend.

Answer 5

I want to say that I am sorry about this situation. I agreed with the first answer. You got to ask yourself a question, "Does Beck's happiness matters to you"? Well, I have a same situation when I was heartbroken when this girl doesn't feel the same way. I just feel that my whole world is falling apart and thinking of committing suicide, but it's not the answer. If you are making a big deal out of it, Beck is mostly like to end her friendship with you and erase you out of her life which you don't want that. Just be her friend is the best thing for now on. Who knows? She could be falling in love with you in the future.

Answer 6

promise me one thing and don't kill yourself. I would apologize to your best friend and the girl you like. I know your upset but its not worth it to lose both those friendships. There are PLENTY of girls out there that I'm sure are looking for someone to be with. MAybe it might not even have worked out if you and your friend you like got together.

Answer 7

I think that you should let them be happy and try to find someone who will love you. If she doesn't then someone else will. I know it seems hard right now, but I bet you anything there is someone better out there for you.