It's a long story, but basically about 4 years ago a girl who was friends with my daughter, she was 12/13 at the, had just moved, and she used to occasionally babysit for her neighbours, she started receiving text msgs from the man, explicit and suggestive, at all times of day - she confided in me at the time as she didn't know what to do. Anyway, the man now takes his 4 year old daughter to my daughters playschool, his wife is in hospital long term (don't know why) and so he is looking after the little girl - and to be honest all i've thought about the last couple of days is what if something's going on? I noticed today the little girl looked really sad when he picked her up - she's missing her mum probably - but what if it's something else? I don't know what to do for the best - he's well known in the community and seems to know lots of people. I feel awful for thinking such things about him - but WHAT IF? any advice would be appreciated. thanks