am i being annoying, or nice?

Question

1)i like this guy for about 8 months and he thinks im being annoying.
2)we NEVER talk and we only have one class together.
3)im always smiling at him
4)he hates me & he has a girlfriend
any advice???????

Answer 1

both



he's not worth it, best to move on. I'd date you myself but I have my own girl problems . . . you're hitting on a nerd (me)? Wow you must really be disperate . . . lol, I'm just joking around;



but yeah, best move on, there's lots of guys who are better out there.

Answer 2

I don't know how he thinks you could be annoying if you don't talk... But I don't always understand the mind of boys : ) I have been in the situation and if he sees you flirting with him, he might get weirded out, just because he has a girlfriend. Talk to him, and become his friend! Every relationship is a relationship that has advanced from a friendship. That's what I would do.

Answer 3

I don't understand why you like a guy who you never talk to :S Surely that defeats the point of liking someone? Go find someone to 'like' who's personality you actually know.



He probably finds you 'annoying' because he's not used to girls being flirty when he has a girlfriend and so he has to trust himself to be faithful to her. You're probably just making it harder for him and reminding him how it feels to be single.



Another reason that's quite likely is that his girlfriend probably knows that you smile at him a lot and that you like him, and so to stop her freaking at him he tells her he finds you annoying. He's probably quite flattered actually - but she'd probably go nuts if he admitted it.



His mates may also take the piss out of him if they know you like him and guys are stupid - rathering than boasting at the fact that someone likes them (which is pretty cool and nice anyways right?) they have to pretend they don't like it to try and be all 'cool' about it. What he doesn't realise is that his mates would actually take the piss out of him less if he pretended like he actually didn't mind it - his mates will take the piss because they know it annoys him.



Best of luck!

Answer 4

well since you say you haven't been doing anything wrong to him to make him hate you, i would just totally forget about him,but maybe it's just a certain turn off to him that you're doing but as long as you're not trying to hard an you're being yourself then he shouldn't find you annoying but, i would just forget about it and move on but what ever you do don't let this mess with you're emotions too much because of course it's not healthy and there's plenty of fish in the sea.. so keep fishing...Good luck!

Answer 5

Annoying? how are you talking to him?