y does my friend git jealous when i talk 2 her boy friend its not like im trying 2 take him away or anything?

Question

so her bf (boy friend) comes up 2 me or sits next 2 me and he starts talken 2 me.then later that day she gits oo so mad at ME 4 talking 2 him.then when i tell her he came up to me she just said wht ever.then the very next day ppl r sayn tht i said he was mine when they r going to brake up and that i would be a better gf 2 him then her.i never ever said tht do u think she started them?

Answer 1

you are to young to be fighting over a boy and she probably did start the rumors but you have to understand where your friends coming from

Answer 2

well the rumours are just chinese whispers. your friend seems very insecure, she probably feels that you have some qualities that she doesn't or your qualities are better than hers, so although deep down she doesn't think you'd really take her man, she seems to think her boyfriend is very easy to loose. you've done nothing wrong, spend more time with your friend, let her know how much you love her, but if she keeps this up i wouldn't want to hang out with her. however, i garuntee that if they brake up you will be the shoulder that she comes running to cry on. maybe tell your friend you have a crush on someone else, or flirt with other guys in front of her, but then again i'm sure if she thinks your not interested in her guy, she'll think someone else is, she needs some more self confidence, take her for a makeover

Answer 3

no offense but I think your friend is very paranoid. The fact that she gets so mad says to me that she did not start those rumours. The reason she gets so mad is porbably BECAUSE of those rumours. She is very concerned that that's how it is actually going to happen, and that you're either going to steal her boyf or he's going to cheat on her with you. If you don't like him (like a crush kinda thing) then maybe you should get your issues out on the table with her and explain all this. Make her very sure that you'd never do that to her. And if they end up breaking up any way and it turns out that you DO like him, well then that is her problem, not yours.

Answer 4

I think you need a new friend. She's insecure and doesn't seem to trust you or her boyfriend. She probably did make up those rumors for attention, and so that people would look at you badly.

Answer 5

She doesn't want him to meet other girls. Or if he already knows you then, she might just want him for herself only. Those are all the things I can think of, hope this helps.

Answer 6

i think ur friend started them, ur friend needs to know not because they are going out, it doesn't mean he can't talk to any other girl. thats just wrong. enoer them , u know what really is going on, good luck

Answer 7

then try to explain to your friend that her bf always come up to you. and if she says whatever then next time when her bf comes up to you again move away.

Answer 8

they could be missing that in their relationship (the talking, him coming on to her, him flirting with her), so because he may not do it with her, she becomes jealous