Why does everybody hate me?

Question

Everyday I go into school and I get made fun of or insulted, and I don't really understand why? I used to have a lot of friends, both girls and boys, but now they're just mainly girls because a lot of the boys started being weird with me. I used to be really close to one particular group of guys but one day they started being horrible to me, calling me ugly and stuff so I'm not really friends with them anymore. I could've dealt with it if it was just that, but it seems like almost everybody has turned their back on me. Nearly all of the boys in my class hate me. I think it's mainly because the popular girl absolutely despises me (again for no reason at all) but a lot of them are horrible to me when they used to be my friends. I was really close to this one guy called Jake, then I was ill so I was off for a week, and when I came back he was just really horrible, everytime I spoke a word to anybody he told me to shut the f**** up or he would come and smash my face in or break my nose, he told me to kill myself and stuff like that, so I asked to move away from him in maths. I got moved next to one of my old best friends but he refused to sit next to me in front of the entire class, everybody was laughing at me. I don't even know what happened but he says he hates me, everytime I ask why he just says I'm annoying, but I hadn't spoken to him for about a year when he said that. A lot of boys that I used to be friends with now just insult me, the popular girl insults me 24/7 and people laugh along, even the boys that I'm friends with at the minute say that I'm annoying but everytime I ask them how I'm annoying they can't explain. I don't understand, it's really confusing and it's annoying me now. I wouldn't mind if they just didn't like me, it's more the fact that they sit there and insult me all day long. It's starting to get me down and I was wondering if anybody could help me understand why, or what I can do about it please. Thanks :)

Answer 1

I know that feeling, where no one likes you and pretty much bothers you. I have been through stuff like insults and people bothering me (although no physical violence or usage whatsoever). I think the best you can do is to stay away from all of them. I have been pretty much hated throughout my school life until I graduated middle school and throughout high school, I still got some of that hatred as well, so make that until I graduated high school as well. For what, being me, who is nice & stuff? Try to do things on your own and not go near anyone. Also, focus on your studies and try to see if you can join any activities or clubs so you can find people that you may have similar interests to. Also, about the guy smacking you int he face thing, A. he SHOULD NOT be doing that to anyone whatsoever and B. TELL AN ADULT YOU TRUST (such as your parents, teacher, school guidance counselor, etc.). This is very unacceptable and inappropriate behavior that he may as well get suspended and probably into trouble with a possibility of being involved with a juvenile court. Ignore everyone because now they have shown their true colors, they aren't even worth your time. Try to get better friends, if possible. If not, just try to be happy that you have family with you (possibly siblings as well?). Just focus in your math class & do well. Tell the teacher if you have a problem, make sure it gets reported/ addressed, because no one should be facing these kinds of problems in school whatsoever. I don't know if you are a girl or guy but either way, people should treat each other with respect or at least not try to harm them in any way possible. Do not talk to anyone, as they would become more trouble for you to handle whatsoever. Anybody saying that you're snitching or tattle tailing are just cowards that action may be taken against them for their wrongdoings. They should learn the consequences of their actions. If you try to join clubs & activities ans no one likes you, at least do your best and exceed your limits and show your potential. It will help you in life. Also, don't worry about them or anyone else. Just be you and you're good to go. You seriously remind me of me when no one wanted to talk to be and I was alone. Now I have few good friends and everyone else wants to at least minimal talk with me, but I keep my true self to me & be my self cuz that's how I have lived my life so far.



Good Luck! =)

Answer 2

I'm in exactly the same situation,I promise! Everyone hates me, no idea why. But mines worse,my ex boyfriend whom I still loved started bullying me too like all the others. You sound an intelligent person, and you know when your older? You'll know way more nicer people and more people who love you! And you'll look back to now and just laugh. The popular people now,will get hit real bad when they enter the real world.where popularity isn't everything:/ your beautiful. Never forget that. It's just the people around you are immature and.your not. Well done for being strong! Carry on like it doesn't bother you and it will get easier. Much love xxx

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Maybe you can ask your close ones whether they find something wrong in you. If you are good enough to your friends they won't harm you, or you should change school before anything gets worse.

Answer 5

Pople are going to talk about you and you can not do anything about it.ignore those guys and move on..

Answer 6

because of your unnatural behaviour

so you have to be polite with them and to mix with them in a cordial way

Answer 7

its a popularity thing .... same thing happened to me so i sat in the corner alone. had no friends.....