i am meeting this chick for the first time...?

Question

see my friend liked her brother and so we started talking. ALOT. two months. texting. aim. myspace. shes the same age, same grade, and we will be going to the same high school this coming year. but we are meeting for the first time in TWO days. i am nervous yet excited. she wants me to come to her house instead of going anywhere...what should we do there and what do i talk about?? i think its weird to be going there first and not out....
i am a shy person at first, but then i am loud.

also, what should i wear??

Answer 1

You should take into account that maybe this girl is just as shy as you, and staying inside was her idea because it would give the two of you a chance to get to know one another without any other distractions. I suggest bringing some music, movies, and some things unique to girls like makeup, magazines, etc.

When you get older, you learn to be more comfortable in your skin because you're used to how people react to your personality. If you're comfortable and confident in yourself and simply let the night roll out naturally, everything else will fall into place.

Wear an elastic around your wrist, and everytime you start feeling antsy, nervous or anxious, snap your wrist hard and count back from 10.

Just be a happy, approachable girl and tell yourself not to judge her, because I'm sure you're worried about her doing just the same, and no one is perfect, sweetie. Have fun and just --breathe--!!!

Answer 2

could you bring someone (another friend) when you meet this girl? especially as you wold be going to her house. or have your mom or another adult bring you to her place. just to be on the safe side. pardon my paranoia. wear anything you like. you're not going to a party anyway. you might do girl stuff at her house. like talk about boys/ make-up etc. talk about what you experienced in your other school since you would be going to a new school this Sept. compare notes on the boys you know, the places you hang out, etc. but i think you would have discussed all this in the two months you were talking your heads off. why not rent a DVD of a movie you both havent seen? just in case you run out of things to talk about.

Answer 3

Just be yourself im shy like yourself also untill i get to know someone Just wear something you normally would wear you dont have to impress her if she wants to be your friend it wont matter what you have on and as far as talking talk about guys/shopping/school your classes you will be taking music and tv all the normal stuff Hope you have fun and best of luck

Answer 4

First impressions always stick, so I suggest wearing your favorite/best clothes and making yourself pretty ; ) Not just to impress her, but also to build up your confidence while talking to her so things will ease more.



Just ask her the basic questions that you haven't already asked her. Once you find something you both have in common try to ask as many questions in that area as possible. After that, things should become more relaxing. Ask her if she has any magazines to read.



Good luck, and try to have fun : )

Answer 5

Chicks don't talk. So that being the case you don't have to worry about what to say. Don't be surprise if you enter this door and end up wherever the girl in California that met the guy on my space may be. To really get to it fool. you don't go meet people that you met on my space..

Answer 6

Wear something you are comfortable (and confident) in. You can always ask her once you meet what her interests are. Just have several possible things planned, then roll with the one she would be the most interested in.

Answer 7

you shouldnt feel so scared since you've been talking for two months. just try to stay calm and if you've been talking for two months i think you should have some ideas on what to say. as long as you be yourself you should be fine.



oh and wear something casual yet cute

Answer 8

If you met her through myspace she's probably a 50 year old rapist. So, wear something sexy.

Answer 9

Dress casual and show respect to her and her family. Don't try kissing her or sneaking a feel. And certainly don't be loud.

Answer 10

are you sure she's someone your age?? That sounds awfully suspicious that she wants you to only go to her house. I am going to STRONGLY suggest that you have her meet you somewhere public, and bring others with you.

Answer 11

well depends.. um your entering hs rite? well watch movies there. um cook some stuff look through magazines. lol =] wen u get there. it might be kinda awkward but later you will start talking more..=]

Answer 12

wear slacks and a blouse.

Answer 13

just talk about the stuff you've been talking about.

Answer 14

Well, I know she could sound like a nice girl... but PLEASE, GO TO SOME PUBLIC PLACE....







It's Safer for both of you !!!!





Specially for YOU !!!









:)