girls please decipher! What is she trying to tell me?

Question

I'm really starting to like my one friend for more than a friend... I'm not sure if she likes me as more than a friend too, but we're going to prom together. The strange thing is that it appears as if she's avoiding hanging out with me. I offered to get together and do work for a club I'm involved in (and she used to be involved in, she graduated and is a freshman in college, I'm a senior in HS) but she kinda guided the discussion away from getting together and she just said to put the files on a web server and she'll pull them off to work on them. So what's up... she's going to prom with me (actually she offered to go with me) and is willing to do all kinds of work for me (she offered to do the work, I didn't ask her), but doesn't want to hang out?
Ok, heres another piece of information... I just finished some big assignments at school so I put my facebook status to " finally has some free time." and she clicked the "like" button. Wouldn't it make sense that she liked it to that we could spend time together?

Please help me decipher what she's trying to tell me!

Answer 1

The like button doesn't necessarily mean anything. She could just be glad for you. She may not actually be avoiding hanging out she may just not have time. See how prom goes, don't push it. You should know by the end of the night.



Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Hmm. Sounds kinda tricky. You may just be in the friends zone, remember she is in college most girls in college like to stay unattatched and all the work she is doing for you? Well she sees you as a best friend probably and nothing more, she's doing you a favor. As for prom? Another favor. I am a little confused as to why she does not want to hang out with you. Maybe she feels like she needs to distance herself away from you to get you to stop liking her that way. I could be wrong but I have learned something in my life, Don't Hit On Your Existing Friends. See what happens at prom or something make a move!!

Answer 3

Okay...ill just be honest here...us girls can be confusing!! but i would just keep trying...have you talked to her lately? i think there is something wrong and she is just not telling you about it because she is afraid to confront you...or maybe you could just be thinking about it too much...she may not mean anything by it. Do you think that she feels the same way too? well...i suppose this is probably unlikely...but im sure she wouldnt just ask you to prom or click the like button for no reason...you know what? i think she is messing with you :D not in a bad way..but in a good way...kinda like a flirty mysterious come and chase me type of way hahaha...if that makes sense...no but if i were you ...i think the best thing to do is to wait it off a little longer...if this still continues to happen...tell her how you really feel. Youll know what the problem is and how she really feels by what she tells you. trust me :) go talk to her.... dont be afaid. and if it doesnt go well and she tells you something you dont want to hear...then just accept it...there are other fish in the sea :D but im sure everything will turn out okay...good luck!

Answer 4

You have to understand that every woman is different. In the way that every man is the same (it seems), literally every woman is different because we're all balanced on a teeter totter called "emotions." If you like her, the manly thing to do is find out how she feels about you. You're trying to find out if she does like you, so why not just ask? You can ask a bunch of people on here and get a consensus, but you'll never know the exact answer because no one can really guess what that girl is feeling towards you.

Answer 5

Aw. You poor guy. Well, I think that she does kind of like you. But doesn't want to hang out with you. I'm guessing its the age gap. I know it's only one year, but it's because she's in college and you're not. You're still in high school. So maybe if you are both in college. She'll be willing to hang out. I would keep trying. It's hard to decipher that kind of thing. Good luck!

Answer 6

well she may like but since your still in HS that may be a little akward for her. She may want to keep you on the down low. In college she would probably get a lot of heII for seeing a high schooler. Wait til the summer when you graduate and then try to get a little more serious, you may find she may be a little more willing. Also, is it possible she likes a guy at her school?

Answer 7

she's into you. she's obviously avoiding you because she's nervous and probably just realized her feelings. If she's going to prom with you and giving you so much attention, then she definitely is into you.

Unless she just found out that you like her (if you think this is possible) and maybe she doesn't like you and is just a little scared of the situation. This is just a maybe though, you should just find out and clear it up before you go for it with her (if you do).

make a move at prom!

Answer 8

well she might be playing hard to get. girls do that a lot.

or maybe she's just really nervous about hanging out with you.

just see what happens at prom and take it from there.

Answer 9

i think she really likes you as a friend but she doesn't like you as more than that, so she's trying to keep enough distance so you won't start liking her, but she doesnt want to like think she doesnt like you at all because she's your friend. i have a guy friend like that, and i thought he was gay and i was like his best friend and i really like him and then i found out he liked me and then i kinda did what that girl did to you, so that's my guess.

Answer 10

Maybe she doesn't want to be seen with someone younger than her, or she's busy. She should like you, though.

Answer 11

She likes you, but probaly is embarrsed by it. I know that that happens often, (with me being in school too). Yeah, my friend and. . .nevermind