10 points! Am I overacting?

Question

So my fiancé went to bed and then I went on Facebook and saw that he made the posts that I tagged him in private. It says we're engaged so I know he's not hiding anything AND I have his fb password so he knows I can check. Then we got off the phone because he has to work early tomorrow and I sent him a text 5 minutes later to which he never responded. I've been feeling neglected and strange all week and he just says that he loves me so much, that nothing has changed just that he's stressed. He goes to school and works and is trying to buy a house for us...Any advice? 10 points. Thank you.

Answer 1

Your Not overreacting its your choice on what you do but there no need to go on his facebook and feel neglected ask him to change work times so he can spend more time with you x

Answer 2

My initial reaction is to say you are overreacting. People do just get tired and stressed out. Without any other information to work with, it is nothing.



But why do you have his FB password and are monitoring his account? That tells me you do have a concern not mentioned in the question. So if you feel this way and something happened before (like why you have his FB info), then maybe it is a legitimate concern.

Answer 3

Well if you have his personal information such as his Facebook password than it is likely that maybe he's telling the truth and not hiding anything. Whether you think you're *over-reacting* is up to you and him to discuss. Maybe the best thing you can really do is just talk to him: if something is bothering him, ask him about it. If he's just stressed, then all you need to do is help him relax, and let him know you're there to help him out.

Answer 4

Yes it sounds like your overreacting.

He probably didn't respond to txt as was asleep or nearly asleep, you say he is working to get you both a house, respect that and let him sleep!

Do you work?

If not why not? Surely you could contribute to getting a house? That might make him less stressed?

I'd be stressed to if my fiance was worrying over little things when he clearly loves you enough to be engaged to you and saving for a house??

Work, school and having a dramatic fiance can't be easy!

You could really help him by being there and not complaining all the time or stressing him out about the fact he is working hard so not as easy to be in touch with you constantly!

Answer 5

I'm really confused, but my guess is that he is very stressed and needs a breather



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Answer 6

He said that he is stressed so its most likely just that. Everything is getting to him with all he has to do. If there has been a lot of wedding talk slow that down a little. Men aren't exactly fond of the wedding planning. Let him focus on what he needs to focus on and STOP logging into his facebook and playing all those games. If you are engaged you are to trust your partner not snoop.

Answer 7

that made no sense? (Your over-reacting)