My best friends kiss and hold hands in front of me just to annoy me?

Question

I have two best friends. One is a boy. One is a girl. My guy friend is gay and my girl friend is lesbian. I'm bisexual, but I don't think that matters. Anyways, whenever it's the three of us together, they always find the need to hold hands and touch each other and sometimes even kiss. For some reason, this REALLY irritates me. I can't figure out why, though. I have liked my guy friend before, but not after he admitted to being gay, or at least I thought so. Maybe I like him and am jealous that he doesn't act that way with me? (He sometimes does, we have kissed before, but like 3 or 4 times at the most. And it didn't mean anything at all, just a peck when saying goodbye or something)

I've talked to them before and told them that I don't like it when they do this in front of me just because I feel left out. I mean, if it's just the 3 of us and they're being all cute, I'm obviously going to be the odd one out. They said that I shouldn't let my jealousy control my emotions but I'm not even sure if I'm jealous or just mad. Could it be that I like my guu friend?

Recently, they've started doing it less than usual but I found out yesterday that whenever I leave the room or go to the washroom or whatever, they use it as a chance to make out. It really annoys me. How can I tell them to just stop? If they were dating, I'd be okay with it... But he's gay and she's lesbian! They're definitely not bisexual.


I know this is really long, and not even a proper question, but I just want some advice! Why do I feel so angry/sad (once I almost burst into tears when they kissed goodbye in front of me... I felt so stupid) when they act all lovey-dovey? Do you have a crush on my best guy friend? What can I say to get them to stop?

Please help. Thanks so much!

--Kat <3

Answer 1

Wow, that must be really annoying for you! First of all, you have to figure out how you feel. It think that you either a.) have a crush on your guy friend or b.) are jealous of the relationship your friends have

Now, I'm not sure why they are making out all the time when they say they're gay, so it's probably best you get other friends besides these two. You could end up falling for someone you can't have, which kinda sucks, so keep your options open and get out there! Good luck to you :)

Answer 2

the only thing i'm wondering is : "is this guy really gay"



how can he be gay? but be making out with her? and you said he kissed you a few times.



But yeah. I think one of the reasons it bothers you is because some where deep down, you kind of like him. Even if you don't think that's it.



Maybe it IS jealousy.You wanted to be with him at one point and he pretty much rejected you by saying he was gay and not interested. but now he's making out with another girl? Maybe deep down it's jealousy and you just don't want to admit it to yourself. I don't know.



How can he be gay? Are you sure he isn't just a really good liar? and some how he'll convince both of you girls to get in bed with him?

Answer 3

hmm I am assuming you are a teen... the best thing to do is sit and analyze why you are jealous? I feel you just wanna join in the fun and feel some affection too. Sexuality amongst teens is so complex now because they say they are something when it is just to be "UNIQUE" and need attention or because supposedly boys are losers... I think you need to separate yourself from this whole situation until you figure out why you have these "feelings". Good luck

Answer 4

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Answer 5

you are being played by a straight couple,it prob. turns them on. get away from them or be the butt of all their "little" jokes. sorry sweetie,growing up is a big let down