Question:
So yeah, i have a friend who is being abrused by her fianc'e how can i help her, what can i do?
Princess
2008-12-08 13:48:03 UTC
My 21 year old friend is being abused, badly...... he won't stop. i tell her to leave but she's afraid. I seriously need help. When she tried to leave him, she went to stay with her mother, but her mother only shoved her off to him, i would help, id idd, but things got really messy.
Six answers:
SiggySmalls
2008-12-08 13:52:26 UTC
get a restraining oder
CARAMAC
2008-12-08 14:08:35 UTC
There are organisations that could help, and I'm sure if she really wanted to, she would take your advise and move away.

She's obviously in need of support, but unless she makes the move to take herself out of this dominating lifestyle, there's nothing you can physically do.



Provide her with tel numbers, support housing, Physical/Mental Abuse Organisations, although this, and quiet a few 'talks with her', I suspect you've already done as her friend.



It's always frustrating to witness such a relationship and even more so if this girls family have ignored the problem, but maybe they too, have felt like you, many times over, helpless in watching her put herself through this situation.



SHE has to make her decision, and only then can she make a decent life for herself, and be free of this mans rage and vicious attacks.



Caramac x
uivlis89
2008-12-08 13:52:18 UTC
call the cops for crying out loud try anything u can to out him in jail
My Three
2008-12-08 13:51:40 UTC
seems like you guys need to involve the law.
2008-12-08 13:53:48 UTC
can she stay with you?

call the police, he's committing an offence.
coolnutz
2008-12-08 13:52:20 UTC
i think she needs to learn about life, so leave her to dwell, and you need to move on and not be stifled by her forget about it



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