I'm all about taking care of people AND personal responsibility. Liberals and conservatives have gotten kinda twisted around, with each side snatching up issues that the others have discarded or avoided.
I'd like to think that people can always "pull themselves up by the bootstraps" but I know they can't. I know I've benefited tremendously from government programs, from grants for college to disability coverage since I can't fully support myself. I am working very hard on recovering and I'd like to be self-sufficient, but I just can't do it right now and I need some help. So I take it.
And that's mainly "liberal." So I support many government programs like providing affordable health care, helping disabled people, supporting the mentally ill, etc.
But "liberals" have taken some ideas from the 60s way past their logical conclusions. The whole "free love" idea? Thanks, boomers, but no thanks. Maybe pre-HIV. Not anymore. It's not empowering for men OR women to skank around and call it "casual"...it hurts everybody.
Love isn't free. It does require some work and commitment. And there's where I'm torn quite a bit--so many people are really f*cked up about "love" and sex and power.
I have to be pro-choice because women get raped, girls have sex before they're really physically able to have children (and they and their babies suffer for it, sometimes dying), and there's incest and child marriage and horrible people who go on to have horrible children. Look around the world, and you'll see women in dire circumstances who just can't go through with their pregnancies.
Maybe it's stodgy, or maybe it's incredibly progressive of me, but I think people should only have sex when they're capable of dealing with the consequences. I don't know that marriage is required, but a certain level of maturity certainly is. I'm tired of seeing people have sex "to make people love me," for "security," for "comfort." People are wildly insecure and sex is used in so many wrong ways for so many wrong reasons. Sometimes, people use sexual violence, which is a horrible violation of not only the victims, but of the whole idea of sex.
Love first, then sex. But so many people don't know what love is. So they have sex to pass the time, to gain status, to get/keep a "lover"...it's all so disappointing.
So in some ways, I'm "conservative" about sex...AND liberal.
I have morals. I'm complicated. I don't fit completely in one category or the other.
But I do think that freedom is the greatest thing that we have, and the spirit of the Constitution doesn't allow exploitation for financial gain or the government prying into people's sexual or medical business.
You have the government spying on you, telling you who you can and can't marry, telling you what religion to be, telling you whether you can have a medical procedure, you take away freedom. I go all the way back to the Constitution, to the founders of this country for my freedoms.
I care about the environment, I care about people getting a fair deal, I care about freedom, and I care about privacy. I want people to develop into strong, caring, morally upstanding citizens, but I know that many times, they won't or can't.
So most of the time, I'm "liberal." Most of the time, I vote Democrat. I don't think that many conservatives really want what they say they want.
They want religious freedom as long as it's their religion. They want "moral purity" but don't make accommodations for the fact that we live in a vastly immoral world and victims need rights. They want individuals to help themselves, while big businesses (especially agribusiness, which I hate, and big energy companies/fuel providers) get government handouts and sweetheart deals. And what is the deal with the war? Aren't we cutting off our own nose to spite our face? It's depressing how many good people have died (on all sides) in the pursuit of "freedom." People are too broke to make it in this country, so they join the military and reserve forces, and instead of the government paying them to improve their homeland, they send them abroad to kill and be killed.
Conservatives expect you to make your own money or they leave you out in the cold. People can't always support themselves, and I just can't accept a government that doesn't take care of its most vulnerable citizens.
Most people do fine without a lot of government intervention. But the government needs to help the needy and smack down the greedy. So what does that make me? Liberal? Fine. Whatever.
I am a really good person, and when I vote with my conscience, I take my morals to the booth with me. I'm smart, I'm informed, and I'm a fine upstanding citizen.
That's what I really am.