Question:
How to fix this with a girl that i've known for a long time?
micheal
2013-05-06 17:40:40 UTC
I always see this girl that i went to school with and i would always say we should chill ,everytime i see her, one time i toke her number down to set up something but never happen , mostly because iam a busy guy and always work which she knows ,but i recently messaged her on facebook to see how she was doing and she responded to my message but I didn't get the chance to respond because i was on the library computer and my time was expired ,and she responded late now it seems like she is mad at me she never responded back up updated a couple of statuses ,I REALLY WANT TO SET A DATE WITH HER TO HANG OUT BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ASK WITHOUT BEING ANNOYING AGAIN ,SHOULD I SAY LETS, CHILL , ASK HER HOW SHE IS DOINGAND THEN ASK ,ASK HER IS SHE MAD OR TALK TO HER NORMAL AND JUST SAY WASSUP AND THEN TELL HER,I DON'T WANT HER TO IGNOR ME WHAT TO DO ?? ( I NEED HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP… THANKYOU GUYS ???
Three answers:
EddY boozEr
2013-05-06 17:55:17 UTC
lets put in this way,, she ma y be mad at you.. just put your self right.. make time for her.../ try to meet her and be in touch with her it may help you... then finally just feel free put yourself together and ask some smart ques like "its been a long time and can our old friends meet at some day.. " or ask her to come somewhere that she mustn't know.. and it happens.. problem solved..

i hope it helped you????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2013-05-07 00:47:11 UTC
Ask her out. Make it casual; something like: "Hey, would you like to go out to eat and go see a movie SOMETIME?" Girls never say no to sometime, because sometime can be anytime really. If a girl says no to sometime then she is NOT interested.

2

Set up a date, but don't do it too soon. Tell her that you are busy this weekend and you'll let her know when your free. Otherwise, girls will think you're desperate.

3

Tell her you will pick her up at a certain time and don't be late. Girls like boys who are on time, and don't keep her waiting.

4

Once you get past the greetings, be sure to compliment her on something other than her body. Examples: how great her hair looks, or how amazing that perfume smells, or point out her eyes and how beautiful they are, girls love that. Never say you look sexy, hot, etc.

5

When you leave a location, always open the car door for her, she will appreciate your gentleman skills.

6

Turn on the radio or a CD. Never turn it up too loud, keep the volume low and soft to set the mood. Since the radio is low, just start bringing up random topics like "what did you do today", "how have you been lately", "about your parents, they seem pretty cool" and just make conversation with her.

7

Always,always act like a gentleman, and pull out her chair when she sits down. If you want to kiss her at the end of the date, read her body language to see if she wants to kiss.

8

When you order food, order first because girls never come up with a decision about food, they like to see what you are eating first, then they make their decision.

9

At the end of your date, drop her off. Be sincere and tell her how much fun you had. If you don't have her number, now would be a good time to ask. If she liked you she will call you. Don't always be the one asking her out on a date.
2013-05-07 00:47:58 UTC
the secret to gettin any girl is confidence..

so just be confident and say something like, wsup girl you doin anythin later we should chill. or anything like that. just be confident and dont be all weird and sht when you talk to her


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