Should I patch things up with my roommate?

Question

So college is over, and I am leaving in a couple of days. My roommate is upset with me. Should I try to patch things up with her? The thing is, I don't really like her, even though she says she 'loves' me. Whatever. Should I keep pretending and try to talk to her just to keep things smooth for the last couple of days, or should I just let it be and move on. She is really annoying though. I have put up with a lot in the past four years. I am certainly glad to be rid of her.

Answer 1

No need to live in a lie. Let it go.

Answer 2

I say just tell it to her like it is. It's best that she knows where she stands with you and not live in a fantasy world where she entertains the illusion that you two are BFF's. If you don't, then I have this fear for you that she will try to keep in contact with you after college ends and still want to have a close relationship with you. This has happened to me plenty of times with people who are into me and I am not interested in them. I'm too polite to tell them that, though, so I keep having to make up excuses as to why I don't want to be bothered by them and that I have my own life to live. If you don't want that to happen to you, show her some "tough love" and be honest with her.

Answer 3

Well it doesn't seem like you guys are all that close, but it wouldn't hurt to maybe smooth things over... not necessarily make up as friends, but so that the last few days of college for you guys aren't tense.

Answer 4

i think so,you should patch up any way you are leaving after couple of days,...so for these couple of these speak with her properly,...& try to spend time with her.....,as you have bear her for four years...,a couple of days...should not matter with you.....don't patch past things or talk about past incidents...whatever happen in past forget it,....at least try to behave normal for couple of days...

Answer 5

Nah, No jeed for that. I hate roomates just don't give her any of your time. You could be doing more important things.

Answer 6

You can respectfully without any hard feelings leave her!

Answer 7

i think you should have told her long back how you feel about her.....now its of no use..