im really confused about this girl?

Question

ahhh basically, i liked her for like 2 years, and he were seeing eachother for abit, then i messed up and we were just mates. but as time went on, we kept arguing and she deleted me off bbm and facebook. this was back in may, and in september she added me on facebook again. and she was like hey, i was like how comes you added me again and she was like i've been thinking about it for ages tbh and we caught up and she was like text me. then i text her and we been speaking since then and one time i didnt reply cos my message didnt go through and i thought she was blanking me because i didnt know it didnt go through and the next day she text back saying oh thanks for the textback. then another time she text me and my message didnt go through again and she text me again saying how comes you didnt reply. i didnt know what to think about this! like does she just like talking to me? and the other day she was putting herself down like saying oh i look rank and stuff like that and i was like no you dont and she as like you just have bad taste and i said i did have before i met you and she was like awwwwwww <3. then that day, she was upset and was like i hate everyone and i was like whats up? she goes i cant tell anyone, but distract me from it please and i was like why cant you tell me? then she said its a secret and i cant tell anyone but im fine now. this kinda annoyed me cos i tell her everything and she doesnt tell me. when she text me twice, i was like there might be a chance she still likes me but if she doents tell me anything, then thats a bad thing, right? i didnt text back cos i was kinda annoyed, this was last night and i dont know what to say :( i still like her and what should i do for her to like me? i think there may still be a chance she does, im just not sure :/ help anyone? appreciated :)

Answer 1

Wow, i see where you're coming from. Girls are very confusing human beings - being a girl myself it ends up being a sort of game with the by you like. By the sounds of this she really likes you and just wants someone to lean on and talk to. She may not tell you her problem because it could be something extremely private to her and its nothing person all against you. It sounds like she just needs a close friend to confide in for the time-being and when the times right she'll come back to you and im sure you can start a new relationship. Im not sure how old you are but from the sounds of it, it sounds quite teenage-like. If this is the case then people get alot more wiser as they get older and I can assure you that she feels the same about you as you do about her but she doesn't want to say anything because she feels as if you may push her away because of what happened last time you were seeing each other. For the time being, just be as good friend to her as you can and be a good listener! theres nothing more a girl likes about a boy then one that can sit and listen to her problems and to be there to give her hugs when she's upset and frustrated. Dont freak out hun, you'll be fine, and even if it doesn't work out...theres plenty more fish in the sea! Good luck sweetie x

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If she doesn't want to tell you why she was upset, I'm thinking It might be something bad. But If you want to know If she likes you ask her, nothing can go wrong, if she says no then just say you was wondering because someone said she did.

Answer 4

Toatally go for it! she obviously likes you, eventhough she is confusing, being a girl myself i can see that she is using techniques to win over you :) She(like most of other girls too) like to remain mysterious or she might just not want to share her problem coz maybe its weird. doesn't mean she doesnt like you. Ask her out, and be confident !

Good luck!:)