I love my Best Friend?

Question

I'm falling in love with my best friend. He's finally single so we pass notes in class all the time, talk to each other A LOT, and hang out after school. We went to the carnival as friends and had a really good time we even held hands (on a water gun) and on like all the rides I tried really hard not to fall on him! I have a study hall with him on Tuesday, I want to get on the topic of LOVE but it's really hard cause all we talk bout is silly stuff and I can't just flat out say "I Love You". Even if I don't tell him there will always be rumors = Help me!!!

Answer 1

Be cute and silly and flirt. I've never had study hall and don't really know what it is, but this is what I used to do when studying with a guy in the library. We were supposed to be quiet, so I would start writing to him on scrap paper. Then little, silly pics. Then pics of us as stick figures. Finally, I'd draw one of me clasping my hands in front of me all shy and cute and draw hearts around me. If he gives you a quizzical look, help him out and draw the stick figure labeled with his name in front of yours, flexing his muscles. Warning: This may lead to trouble due to wild make-out sessions in the library!



Good luck! Relax and have fun! Most people would say that they've married their best friend.

Answer 2

i'm a women and tottaly agreed with what that guy said about "not listening to what other women have answered".because we tend to be really optimistic but may lose focus, so my advice is:give it time, it may be difficult to hold your feelings but to me it sounds you're having a great time with him and also he seems comfortable w/ the way things are, so try staying that way the more you can. You say there will always be rumors so just accept that, there are things we can't control, it's ok.

Everythinhg will be better if you just wait a little longer....if things go this fine chances are he will be head over heels for you too.

Try having the greatest of fun meanwhile =D

Answer 3

OMG dont listen to any advice from the women who have answered! It is shocking how little women understand men. :P



Chances are if you say the word Love you will freak him out and that will ruin your chances.



What you have isnt real love, it is a crush. Love takes 2 ppl.



Just let nature take its course and keep spending time with him and keep letting him know you like him. It sounds like he likes you too (holding hands...) so if you are patient and stay positive he most likely will come to see you more than a friend.



good luck!

Answer 4

Talk to him tell him how you feel and ask him about how he feels about you. If you do get together. Don't be pressured by your peers to do anything that should be saved for your wedding night. I am 43 and I was my first wifes best friend for 3 years before we even kissed. We were married 18 years when she

passed away.

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you really like this boy! When I first heard the boy Im in love with now was single i started jumping up and down singing a really weird song! If you found yourself in this position TALK TO HIM immideately so he dont slip into someone elses hands!!! You mentioned you like to write notes but never have time to bring up LOVE so bring it up in a note one time and if he follows it! And if he mentions liking someone ask him who and if he says he dont want to tell you he prolly likes you because BFFs tell eachother everything so if it was another girl he would tell you!!!! and forget rumors let love be found!!!

Answer 6

You need to talk to him, but also keep in mind that things wont be the same between you two after that... and its not worth losing a friendship over a crush.... so you need to think if it worht it or not... and if you decide that it is then, try not to hang out with him as much try to hang out with other ppl meet new guys.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

Are your feelings SO strong that you can't be his friend anymore? If he doesn't have the same feelings will it cost you your friendship? Are you prepared (as much as one could be) to lose that friendship... I dunno man... that's a tough one. they say that marriages with people who were friends first tend to have a higher %age of lasting than those who started out just dating. So.. it could be the best decision or the worst decision ever... I say follow your gut. Just make sure you have a back up plan to keep from losing him all together and to help you cope either way. good luck!

Answer 8

my advice: dont tell him that!!! it'll ruin everything. ur friendship and d way he treats you UNLESS he feels d same way. get some clues first b4 u act on how u feel. sometimes ts better 2 just stay friends. coz once u make a move and things get complicated, ull miss ur good old goofy times.

Answer 9

best relationships start from being best friend. you know each other already. don't be scared. by the way it seems he really likes you too. it has potential to be a perfect romance.

Answer 10

well.. r u sure u love him.. if so then ur def rite... u shudnt be straight up and say I LOVE YOU cause if he doesnt( sorry i hate to sound pessimistic) then ull look kinda creepy.. but if ur sure he like u then go for it... talk about like how gross the tables are in study hall or watever stupid thing u guys talk about( thts wat id talk about aha.. im 15 so i gues its ok ahah) and then just wait for the moment nd look into his eyes so he gets the hint ur about to tell him something serious.. and tehn look ddown and then back to his face and say.. i need to tell you something.. hell say wat.. and ull be like.. i know we r best friends and everything but lately ive been having these feelings for u... more than friends... r u feeling the same?



or u can be sitting in studyhall and then talk about how gay school is and then how stupid the teachers are and then talk about some kid in ur class who always gets in trouble and then idk just say wat i said b4l.. it'll b fine. dont worry.. im pretty sure it'll go great!

let know how it went!!!

Answer 11

friends=lovers=best relationship of your life

I tell you because i once had that, my bf used to like me, never gave her a chance till one day

it end up being my best ever

Answer 12

Tell him how u feel-he may feel the same...but u will never know if u dont tell him =]

Answer 13

if hes your friend then you should feel confrable with him.just tell him.hes your friend heshouldnt bail on you for an emotion.unless you know how he would react.

Answer 14

tell him how u feel maybe he feels the same way

Answer 15

don't ask in a semi joking way my girl i got now did n i didn't now if she really liked me