Why dont i have any friends or girlfriends.....................?

Question

Why dont i have any friends or girlfriends.....................?

Answer 1

you just like to keep tou yourself which is good but you need to find someone whom you trust so you can have a friend. just open up to someone and things happen from there

Answer 2

Whoa, number 6, Why do you not like sex?

Answer 3

i know this is my answer to most of these take up something like skiing or climbing or something you'll loosen up then have friends

Answer 4

You sound like a poster child for the e-dating services. These days, you can throw money at this problem, mate.



Either that or try to learn what the current culture points are and make an effort to melt into society more.

Answer 5

I would be your friend. I have the same tastes and aversions as you, for the most part. It's called genius.

Answer 6

Well, there's your problem.You say you don't like thinking of ways to conversate and you rather be alone.Well,how can you have friends if you're not willing to open up to anybody?As, well as for the list-I'm sure there are people who enjoy the same interests you have or don't mind at all but TRUE friends are hard to find.Good luck.

Answer 7

Honey, most of the things on this list are you answers. I don't think you being a vegetarian has anything to do with it, but seriously, if you intend to make friends, you have to make an effort. Maybe you need to be a little adventurous and step out of your comfort zone and find out who you are. I don't think there's anything wrong with you per say. Maybe just a little shy. You need to build confidence in yourself so that 1st , you can love who you are. You don't sound happy about yourself. How can you expect somebody else to be? Life has lots of drama in it. That you'll just have to learn to deal with. You can't expect everybody to just walk on pins and needles around you. Nobody wants to do that. Just write out a plan of how your going to build confidence. For example: Make a list of things you will try on a daily basis. Saturday: go to a new bookstore and speak to 2 people you don't even know, Say hi to a pretty girl, ask a not-so close friend to come over or catch a new movie or help you pick out a new pair of shoes, and so on and so on! But most importantly, you have to have a positive outlook and attitude. Hold you head up. What's the worst that could happen? Somebody might call you a name or not respond, so what? Do you know how many people are in this country? There are lots of good people out there that have the same interests as you and would love to have you as a friend! Good Luck. God Bless.

Answer 8

you sound like a very conflicted person. try opening up to just a few people and let them get to know you ....not everyone is part of the in crowd, the cool people or whatever you want to call it....find people who have the same likes you do and eventually you will discover that you are not so different from everyone else....we all have insecurities.

Answer 9

well your promblem lies with you not really talking to people and like being alone rather than with others

so just start talking to people and try to find people you can hang with them

Answer 10

I am going to assume that you are a male based on the 'girlfriends' part, and you are probably high school or college age.



1. You are probably nervous you will say the wrong thing, which is something everyone goes through. It's just when you do mess up with words, how do you react to it? Some make jokes out of it, which helps the embarrassment. I just comment with 'you know what I mean' since they usually do.

2. Sexual humor is generally a way to insult someone based on their gender in a jokingly way, and I as well find that inappropriate. It's showing immaturity, which is a quality most girls don't like to see in any relationship.

3. Theres nothing wrong with this area; there are plenty of people out there who are interested in most all of these.

4. Similar to response 3. This should not stop you from finding friends or girlfriends.

5. You sound like a people watcher/observer. You're the one who sits in the corner and thinks about everything going on around you. People like you are usually the ones with the most wisdom; you just don't like to 'expose' it.

6. There is by far nothing wrong with that. Many girls would appreciate a guy who can wait on sex. Plus, there is also a difference between f***ing, sex, and making love.

7. Same as 3 and 4, there's alot of people into that kind of music.

8. It shows you are a realistic, down-to-earth person, which kind of goes with the whole maturity thing, definitely a good quality to have. Not to say being dramatic every now and then is wrong, it can be fun sometimes.

9. Similar to 5; you are also an independent. You don't like to depend on others all that much. But everyone needs someone to lean on when things are down, and to enjoy the happy times with.

10. I think everyone would want this. If these were gone, the world would be perfect, which it is far from.



All in all, you sound like Eeyore (from Winne the Pooh). You look sad and depressed on the outside, but really, you just like to sit back and enjoy life in a calm way; unlike Tigger who acts as though he is always high on life, which can get extremely annoying.



If I am wrong about the age or gender, I do apologize. If you are in you college years, this is the best time to make friends and find people. If you're not taking any classes, take some; you will meet a wide variety of people. I am 21 and I have not had a boyfriend yet, I haven't found the kind of person I am looking for (most guys are still too immature for me and are wanting nothing but getting drunk and having sex). Just get out there and experience more; get involved in a club or something like that. There are plenty of people out there looking for friends just like you.

Answer 11

You sound like a pretty quiet person. That could be one reason... sometimes people are uncomfortable around people who are excessively shy or quiet. It does, however, sound a bit like you might be a little reclusive as well? Keeping to yourself is not the best way to meet people (friends or significant others).



You may want to join a group or club that caters to your interests to find others who share them.. like a vegetarian cooking class or a book sale or music club:-)



As far as the emotions... you are going to run across psychotics. It's a part of life, unfortunately. People are going to come with baggage most of the time.



Good luck!!!

Answer 12

I think you need to loosen up and join a sports team or some type of group that you like. Just get out there and have some fun! You need to get out of your comfort zone and go do something. I dont know you age but maybe try going to a camp for the summer of something there you can meet lots of new people. Get a job...maybe. I know its hard to have friends when you have different interests then most people but you just have to try. Go to the park,volunteer,...ETC TEC. Good luck!

Answer 13

I'd want to talk to someone like you ^-^ So don't worry about it. I hope you don't change the way you are just so people like you. I mean come on! Someone has to be different! All guys love sex, and I always wanted to meet a guy who didn't care much of it. It's so cute x3



I listen to rock also, and I like sci-fi x3

Answer 14

Go to places were u like to shop or hang out thats were u usually find people that are into the same things as u...and make small talk to people... just remember if they dont like u the way u are then they aint worth it anyways and dont get discouraged.

Answer 15

You're suupershy and probably

the kid that sits in the back of the

class that listens to their music

THINKING about how much you

wish you weren't. Am I right?

It's okay, there are a lot

of other introverted people out there.

And it's a lot harder then it seems to

lose the shyness and become more outgoing.



Loosen up a bit, don't dress so goth(you're

practicly staming your forhead with "outcast"),

and act happy. Even if you have to pretend to be.

Answer 16

Well i hate to say it, but i think you already know it...your a bit of a loner. Women and people in general like it when people are outgoing. If not a relationship can be kind of dull, especially when ur not the kind of person that has a corkey sense of humor. I'm really not trying to be mean, but you just gotta put yourself out there! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 17

YES! I am not the only one! I dont have one friend. nope NADA! No one to talk to or text. not ONE person. I thought i was getting a friend but then he told me he hated me because i dress weird?!?! Isnt that stupid!

here are things about me

1. i am very outgoing and crazy (people hate that)

2. i am a girl!

3. i am not much into tv.

4. I HATE abercombie, hollister, american eagle...bla

5. i dont take **** from people!

6. i will help you if you need it

7. I LOVE LOVE punk rock! (NOT fall out boy or panic at the disco, that is NOT punk! thats poser music! Fucky music)

8. I eat meat...and pretty much anything else!

9. I could play my electric guitar ALL day for the rest of my life!

10. I hate emos

- i hate MTV

- i hate myspace

- i hate hot topic

- i hate crowd followers. (they are all stuck up bitches)

- i love you

11. i have hot pink and blue hair (no one likes it..espically my parental units)

yeah theres me!

Answer 18

you sound so much like me. there is nothing wrong with who you are, your just a loner who likes to be by yourself alot. you may feel like they are judging you and thats the reason why you dont want to talk to people but you just dont realize it . always try to remember that if they dont like you for who you are then there the ones with the problem and just start talking to people while keeping in mind that nobody is better than anybody else and you shouldnt worry what other people think. believe me i've been there but i put my problems aside while i talked to people and ended up making a great deal of friends. so if you want me to help you e-mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 19

The problem is you and only you who is trying to find friends who are just like you, no...you need to accept the fact that we are all different and you have to try new things even if you don't like them. Try not to make a big deal out of it. If you find a friend and he/ she doesn't like the same things you do they'll do their best to try it just because of you and you have to do the same thing for them.



Good luck and open you eyes because friendship is the best thing in the world:)

Answer 20

It's because you have not been introduced to the goth kids in your school yet. You can find them out back smokeing. Go say Hi.

Answer 21

You basically answered your own question in your question... You told us all the reasons why you don't have any friends. Sorry.

Answer 22

hey i'll be your friend. i have friends like that although i'm not exactly like that. and don't worry about the ***** that said you're a nerd.

Answer 23

y r completely normal! i even liked u lol

Answer 24

Wow your a loser thats why.

Answer 25

your incredibly self absorbed

Answer 26

ur a boring loser