I like my best boy friend? :S?

Question

recently me and him have become unbelievably close, talk all day and all night. People think that we're in a relationship since were always together, and we play fight, tease each other and basically we have a love-hate relationship. he bullies me lol but to be honest, hes the best friend i ever had! :') no one like him in the whole world! i dunno what i'd do without him :)

and we flirt sometimes, but its harmless, like we both know it doesnt mean anything. he has all these nicknames for me and stuff like that. and we're quite touchy feely with each other, but its not like i get butterflies when i see him! lol

and when he isnt texting me or hes busy, or doesnt come lessons, it drives me crazy! Il be checking my phone every two minutes and il be so quiet and stuff
and i dont like feeling this way! it drives me mad that im starting to feel this way. i've never felt this way about him before.
hes good looking but im not physically attracted to him.

and whenever im not texting him he'll text me and say 'babe are you okay, havn heard from you'' and stuff like i miss you. even tho we spoke lik 2 hours ago.

He has a gf, well they broke up but they're starting slowly again, they not together right now. and when i text him, i always ask ''are you busy?' and he'll be like im never busy for you baby! even tho he'll be talking to his gf! so its not like he puts me second. once or twice hes said that he wishes his gf was more like me.. :S
and when i tell him that im talking to a guy that i think is hot or someting, he gets overly protective and starts askingg lots questions. and when he knows im talking to my ex, he gets very annoyed and says stop chasing him blah blah

and its not like i feel jealous of her, she doesnt really bother me, i jus say to him that if she makes you happy than im happy. simple as.

but i dont like these feelings im having, hes my bestie! it feels wrong that im thinking like this!
what should i do? Cos if i do like him, then why does it bother me? :( Please help

Answer 1

I think that you are naturally attracted to him, and that's okay! It bothers you because you are just SO use to being best friends and maybe you're scared that if it doesn't work out, then you can't have your best friend anymore. If he really is your best friend, then you an just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. I know this might be embarrassing for you, so you can do it over text or in person, or text his friend or something. This happened to me, but the guy felt that way. I decided I liked him, too. But after he told me and I realized I did like him. If you're afraid he doesn't feel the same way, just tell him and he'll realize he likes you, too. That happened to me but I got a little uncomfortable and scared (but I have a good feeling you are older than me! haha so you probably don't get uncomfortable in the same way) and things happened and I didn't know if I liked him and it got called off and sadly I still like him... And no one knows that! but I have a good feeling you are older than me! haha well how he did is was text my friend a sweet text about how he liked me and wasn't trying to and it made me really happy, so send his friend a sweet text, when he is with his friend!! And I was a little confused on if he had a girlfriend or not, but if he does, wait until they break up or else it is very wrong and not forgiving if you do it when he's dating her! GOOD LUCK! I hope I helped :)

Answer 2

I want to say something.girls are salfish always.i were respect girls but nw i knw that girls are salfish and they think boys r toy.play them.that i tested thing.in my life 4 girlfrnds were came.but all were salfish.i dnt like girl.i am always hungry for Love but i think i can't found me love.

Answer 3

wow .um it sound like he like more than his girlfriend .if i was u follow ur instinct. ask him do you" love me" or "you just want to be friend' and ask more question see if you have the same feel like you have of him.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

interesting story!