I'm so lonely, I can't stand it any longer?

Question

I'm so lonely, I can't stand it any longer?

Answer 1

Aw crud, gurl fran. I feel you. I switched schools and had to leave my 2 best friends. I made friends but I cant be comfortable around them. It's been 2 years. Yeah i'm lonely but hey we're still young! If we kill ourselves we might miss real friends and bestfriends that will stick around for a lifetime! You're not alone bro. Me, and millions of other people out there are facing the same thing you are facing right now. Just dont kill yourself okay? What if you killed yourself and you were about to meet your bestfriend in the whole entire universe a week from then? That would SUCK. Anyways, email me if you want!

Answer 2

Hi there. Well hey to be happy you just need to be happy with who you are and what you have. I'm a golfer trying to make it big. I'm ranked #1 in Canada and #3 in the world for boys aged 15 & under for golf. I got no friends it's just my dad and I. A solution for you I'd maybe find a sport you love or activity you like to do. This is my biggest piece of advice. Music. Music Is the greatest thing. Whenever I feel down or sad. I listen to music. It takes all the stress of your mind and lifts your spirits which makes you happier. I don't wanna see a person like you kill yourself because of unhappiness. Just listen to music and be thankful. It could be worse. Say a prayer every night you will get better. If not, go find yourself a friend it's easy just start a conversation. Email me if you got any probs hope this helps.

Answer 3

Hi dear! Firstly, you are never alone! There's always people who care about you! Just look at this post, how many people bothered to click on your post, answer it and give you care and support?



Friends? You don't need friends to be happy! OF course, friends are lovely. But please, spend time doing other things. Pick up hobbies like reading, swimming, gardening, writing, blogging, whatever! Photography and dance is a good one too.



I really do understand how you feel. I also don't open up easily to people too. I totally, totally feel you. But right now I'm still alive and kicking right??



You have 2 choices. To continue and be this way, and be miserable. Or, be like me! I've been bullied before and bitched about. But did I let it affect my life? Nope!



Lastly, I would like to end off by telling you this. By having friends, you have to face much more problems like BITCHING, backstabs, betrayal, not being "fun, cool" enough and all that immature things. Trust me on this, never depend on others for your happiness.



Wish you the best. Dear, if you need any help feel free to email me at [e-mail] okay. XXXXXXX

Answer 4

I am 25 I have friends n best friends as well But still I feel so lonely, I don't feel like talking to anyone I don't know what " I " want right now..It's like knowing something's broken but not have the parts to fix it...but now I like the idea of being alone......As for you , you can do lots of thing have a hobby, or if you wanted to make friends then make online friends as well, like pen paling...never stop making friends if you stuck on your old friends, who doesn't care about you then they are definitely not your friends....



and don't kill your self you are just 20

Answer 5

Don't focus so much on being alone. Rather than thinking "Why don't I have any friends?" Consider asking yourself how can I make new friends. Consider joining some clubs such as art, or Sports, or something similar.



Your happiness starts from within, no one can give it to you. Everyone has gone through a point in their life where they have felt alone, and as if they couldn't trust anyone. IT'S NOT GOING TO LAST FOREVER!!!



I'll be your friend! :)

Answer 6

I know what you are going thru I'm homeschooled im shy and I have no friends I live in the middle of nowhere most days I question why am I here what is my purpose why did god put me here like this and most days I feel like giving up but then I remember that somebody that somebody must care for and want to be my friend and the. One day I found that friend and I'm apart if there youth group and I have the best youth pastor, do not kill yourself when you turn 20 trust me even tho it hurt when your alone its not enough to kill your self give it time.

Answer 7

You are not alone, ever.



Killing yourself won't solve anything.



All you have to do is go talk to one of your friends, even if you feel your not comfortable enough to talk to yet, remember that you have to build up to that, no one starts off a friendship being able to talk about everything

Answer 8

Ok so first of all, you're not alone, technically you are but that's your own fault. You can't expect other people to pop up and say hi to you, if you want friends, grab your confidence lotion, rub it into your skin and talk to someone. You think suicide will solve everything? No? What the facks wrong with you?



"I don't have friends, if I slit my wrists and die people will talk to me more"



No.



That's not what life is, life is about leaving your mark, making people notice you, being someone, people don't get that by being alone, not talking to people, not doing anything with their lives.



Now ***** listen to me. You're like 18,19 right? So you only just turned into an adult and you think by the time you're 20 your life has to be perfect or you're gonna kill yourself. Wow do you even hear yourself?



Do you know how long it takes people to even get the tiny bit of attention, FREAKING AGES!



You have a house right?

You have food and water?

You have a brain and a body?

You have all the things you need to live and that's not good enough for you?



You want everything served out on a plate for you so you can just waltz on through life not doing a damn thing?



No you have to earn your ****, you have to earn your friends, you have to earn the respect from the people around you.



You know what you can be? Anything. Anything you want, everything you can imagine of doing and you're gonna give that up because your social lifes dead? Fack sake, people die every day because of illnesses and diseases, don't you atleast owe it to them to do something, the stuff they can't?



No. You're just going to mock them, you're going to give up on your life before its begun, you're gonna laugh in the face of people who can't do the same things as you. Well then you deserve it.



You have a choice, everything you've done in your life is YOUR choice, you became who you are today, and YOU have the power to become a better person in the future.



If you're going to give that up for some lousey reason you may aswell be quick with it.





Now listen, get a therapist, go to a meeting, I don't know, get some help, have a holliday, meet some people and have some fun, you need to. You deserve a drink, get a lil drunk. A LITTLE drunk. You're life can be whatever you make it, don't be a douche and give it up before its begun. Because if you do I'll come into your house, stand over your corpse and piss on your face.



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