My first ever crush that developed into true love back in middle school (8 grade) was a guy who i knew since the day i was born (we lived on the same block and were best friends). we both fell in love in 8 grade but after 2 years he had to move to another country with his parents and we lost touch. i never forgot him for a moment (ya i know i am crazy). i did get into a couple of relationships after that but they did not work out. i always missed my first ever love and found him on facebook. he is still in a different country, but we got in touch, use to talk for hours every day and he still claimed to have strong feelings. finally he admitted that he still love me and want to marry me, and we told our families about it. but suddenly one morning 3 and half weeks ago he said "i have a lot of problems and i will talk to you when my head clears" so i said " i understand you can take as much time as you need but if i can help in any way let me know" after that he has not been online on facebook, msn, yahoo, and has not taking my calls. then today i found out that he just got engaged 1 week ago to a random girl he had never mentioned to me. he had told me about his other ex-girlfriends (names and details of relationships) and so had i about my ex-relationships, but where did this random girl come from, who he had never mentioned, and he just got engaged to her??? I send him a text message saying congratulations i heard you got engaged, and he reply "who told you, and this is my personal matter". I feel so shattered. Is this a joke? Has anyone had a similar experience? Should i ignore him from now on? Or do u think he will return? I am still in shock, less than a month ago, we were talking for upto 6 hours non-stop and had even spoken to each other's parents about spending our lives together. he had planned to visit me in July. What happened so suddenly, i am just shocked.