Question:
help me out here please...!!! :'(?
anonymous
2010-05-20 09:30:28 UTC
well today in science my friend gave me her buspass to hold on to at the end of the day and i forgot to give it back to her. So i am on the bus 1 stop away from home and 30ish stops away from school... i'm going to get ready for my first date with my boyfriend and she rings me and tells me so i went out of my way and ended up standing up my boyfriend on our first date just to give her the buspass back and when i got back to school her and her male mate were both shouting idiot at me... :/ I even gave her a smile before but they still said thanks idiot... so i said "don't worry about it its only my first date with him and i stood him up" and then as i walked off her male mate shouted at me saying "oii get back here why do you have to make her feel bad" but i just walked on and caught the bus...

what i want to know is who was in the wrong... and why wasn't he concerned for my feelings? what about me? i stood my boyfriend up and i'm scared to call him now.. why didn't he think of what i might have felt..

advice. and don't advice me to call my boyfriend i am too scared and i am not going to
Four answers:
Caam
2010-05-20 09:35:08 UTC
People who will call you an idiot like that arent usually very good friends, you were right for giving the pass back and being responsible for your mistake, even when it meant standing up a date.

IF they cant see that they are really immature
?
2010-05-20 09:34:09 UTC
you may not want to hear it but, you both were wrong. firstly, she should not have been calling you idiot. but you also should not have said something back. you should have just apologized and explained. you should call your bf, im sure he'll understand and you can go another date
Razakel
2010-05-20 09:41:15 UTC
well, mostly her, she should have cared bout the fact it was your first date with your boyfriend and shouldnt have been mean like that but you should have said somethin an stood up for yourself, and just call him he'll understand
walter
2010-05-20 09:44:04 UTC
well first of all your friend is a jerk everyone forgets from time to time. you dont need friends like that.and im sorry but it doesn't matter what you do or dont want to do if you still like this guy you have no choice but to call him. he will forgive you if he is a good guy. good luck and god bless you


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